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perdita said:Just an aside after reading the above 'dialogue'.
It seems we (and the public in general along with the film industry) are dealing with and among large cultural/social attitudes and populations here. I think it's because of this dynamic that there is such bluster about now, in the news and here on this thread.
It's also due to the medium of film. I.e., the short story the film is based on (by notable author Annie Proulx) made no headlines, seemed to upset no particular state or population. But now we have straight male moviestars acting up all bent and tragic on a giantic Dolby-sound in-your-face screen bigtime so all options are go.
As to my simple logic earlier, I do know that Italian anti-defamation leagues have been protesting godfather and goodfella films for years. And as Colly reminded me, I had deepseated protestations about the last fucking Alamo film. (E.g., Fuck the Alamo!)
I tried only to respond with some sarcastic logic to Drk's post. I would not dream of entering into a real conversation with his Wyoming relations unless invited.
Perdita
Colleen Thomas said:Cowboys, gay or straight or even lesbian, don't hold the same guarntee of enjoyment that Wallace and Gromit do after all![]()
So, Abba, tell us what you really think.ABSTRUSE said:I'm glad this movie is being well recieved.
There are some really excellent gay/lesbian themed movies out there that are missed out on because of people's hangups and that is just sad. The ones I've seen were well written and beautifully filmed. The sex was less graphic then most of the normal mainstream films out there, in some cases the sex was implied and that's what people get all jazzed up about.
Yet I'm forced to endure those commercials for "Girls Gone Wild" incessantly. Sorry but stupid women flashing their tits and kissing another girl for stupid fun isn't my idea of entertainment. It embarasses my gender.
JMO.
I think some people should stop and smell the flowers and not give a damn if someone else is looking.perdita said:So, Abba, tell us what you really think.
Perdita![]()
p.s. I've got an option on trailer no. 8
Golly, one of 'em turned to goop in the microwave. You can keep the rest.ABSTRUSE said:ps. stay away from my pink flamingos.
I'll make sure you're home when Stella starts working on the chevy's exhaust system. Hope you don't mind hard rock blasting.perdita said:Golly, one of 'em turned to goop in the microwave. You can keep the rest.
neighborly,
Perdita
Just to be clear. The second "B" means boy, right? I'm bringing my faun.ABSTRUSE said:Come over Friday night, I'm making tuna cassarole and brownies. BYOB.
Yes, yes it does....as long as he shits in your yard.perdita said:Just to be clear. The second "B" means boy, right? I'm bringing my faun.
Perdita
cloudy said:I just find it amusing, I suppose, for people to think that a movie is an "assault on their way of life."
It's fiction, for fuck's sake. They need to get over it. I could maybe understand if somehow the movie was putting forth the message that all ranchers in Wyoming are gay, but it has nothing to do with their way of life.
They may be conservative - fine, but you have to deal with the real world at some point.
drksideofthemoon said:And who decides what the real world is? Me? You? Hollywood producers?
drksideofthemoon said:And who decides what the real world is? Me? You? Hollywood producers?
cloudy said:I apologize - my reaction was just as knee-jerk as yours was.
But still, I wonder just how they see this movie as "assaulting their way of life"?
I have some friends that I love dearly. Their sexuality makes no difference to me. They're not trying to change my sexuality. They're not doing anything that could even remotely be called "assaulting" anyone's "way of life." Why is tolerance so hard to understand?
cloudy said:I apologize - my reaction was just as knee-jerk as yours was.
But still, I wonder just how they see this movie as "assaulting their way of life"?
I have some friends that I love dearly. Their sexuality makes no difference to me. They're not trying to change my sexuality. They're not doing anything that could even remotely be called "assaulting" anyone's "way of life." Why is tolerance so hard to understand?
drksideofthemoon said:They are 4th and 5th generation ranchers, and that's just how they see it. They are proud of who they are, and what they are. They see this movie as some "Hollywood Producer" taking a shot at them...
I understand where Dark's family comes from. My town has changed over the years but we will always be coal miners, that's what people want to see even though it's not so.cloudy said:Why, though?
That's what I don't understand. They're not depicting every single rancher as gay, right?
And, like I said earlier, I'd bet any money you want that there have always been gay men, lesbian women among them, and they just didn't know it. Doesn't change anything, does it?
cloudy said:Why, though?
That's what I don't understand. They're not depicting every single rancher as gay, right?
And, like I said earlier, I'd bet any money you want that there have always been gay men, lesbian women among them, and they just didn't know it. Doesn't change anything, does it?
logophile said:Well, it seems that only Mat and I have seen the film, so I will share a little of my perspective here, trying hard to not spoil anything.
The two characters start the film as young men, both without solid ties to family. They are not depicted as typical, but as drifters. Also, they're not experienced ranchers. They are seasonal help, wandering into a town for a summer's worth of work. No, not all ranchers are depicted as gay. These two are definitely depicted as the exception, not the rule.
I would think if I were a rancher, it would be harder to watch the fairly accurate portrayal of the decline of the ranching lifestyle (financial decline, not moral or ethical) than to watch the butt sex (which is tasteful but intense).
It's a great film. If you can find it near you, you should see it. It is deep and complex and thought provoking and stunningly beautiful.
matriarch said:Listen to the words, to what is being said, even beyond the words. And allow yourself to feel what these two men are feeling, try to imagine how they cope with those feelings in the time and place they are based.
Colleen Thomas said:It's a movie set in Wyoming, circ 1963. About a rancher and rodeo cowboy who meet while driving horses. Something of a gay love story and ground breaking in that it's a mainstream release. It's critically acclaimed, but I don't know how big a commercial success it is.
From what I read, pre rel;eases, the producers were hoping for a box office smash to open up mainstream media for alternate lifestyles tales.
No idea if it has done as well as they hoped.
Despite the Utah slight, Brokeback Mountain rode into about 80 more markets over the weekend and roped $5.7 million. At 483 theaters, the movie averaged a bustling $11,856 per site, and the total sits at $22.4 million after 31 days of limited release. Its production budget was $14 million.
"We no longer have to worry about breaking down the homophobic barriers, and [Brokeback Mountain's] now breaking into the more mainstream boomer market," said Foley. Foley will accelerate the movie's expansion again, reaching over 700 theaters on Friday.
With a raft of rave reviews, awards and media hype, including frequent jokes on late night talk shows, Brokeback Mountain has spun its negative perception of being "that gay cowboy movie" into a positive—the label put the picture on the map and then marketing savvy and word-of-mouth took over.
"To me, on a personal basis, that [gay cowboy label] annoyed me, but it was a liability and an asset," Foley said. "It certainly identified it. The good news is that the gay community and the art house audience saw it, and, now, the suburbs are just as solid. In most of the new theaters, the film ranks No. 1, and these are commercial houses."