Boys vs girls

[fenghuang]

Inspired by a comment in VelvetDarkness's agony aunt thead ...
Who gets the better deal when it comes to sex - boys or girls?

• On the underwear front, girls get far more choice.
• Girls sex toys seem to be significantly better.
• Promiscuouse boys are studs, promiscuouse girls are sluts.
• Boys can pee in the snow to write their name.
• It's easier for girls to get laid than boys.
• It's easier for girls to get abused than boys.
• Girls can have multiple orgasms. Most boys cum once and are spent.
• It's more acceptible to experiment with sexuality for girls.

Just a few thoughts. I'm sure you've all got more.
My guess is if you add it all up it's about even but I'm interested to know what others think.

 

[CheekyBoots]

Well, Tiresias was a chick for 7 years, and said the sex was much better. So according to classical mythology... girls win!!! Woo hoo!

Yeah, I know this post isn't useful.

 

[Gizzmotick]

Inspired by a comment in VelvetDarkness's agony aunt thead ...
Who gets the better deal when it comes to sex - boys or girls?

• On the underwear front, girls get far more choice.
• Girls sex toys seem to be significantly better.
• Promiscuouse boys are studs, promiscuouse girls are sluts.
• Boys can pee in the snow to write their name.
• It's easier for girls to get laid than boys.
• It's easier for girls to get abused than boys.
• Girls can have multiple orgasms. Most boys cum once and are spent.
• It's more acceptible to experiment with sexuality for girls.

Just a few thoughts. I'm sure you've all got more.
My guess is if you add it all up it's about even but I'm interested to know what others think.

You forgot that girls (women) can disguise or hide arousal... men can't.

 

[CheekyBoots]

You forgot that girls (women) can disguise or hide arousal... men can't.

Unless wearing a light (or no) shirt. Those high beams don't lie, man.

 

[Gizzmotick]

Unless wearing a light (or no) shirt. Those high beams don't lie, man.

True... but not all women's nipples perk up on arousal.

Every man has the same problem with a bulge in the pants if they are aroused. More than once, I had to remain seated for a moment before walking out of a class.

 

[CheekyBoots]

True... but not all women's nipples perk up on arousal.

They.... they don't?! Um, I think I have to go reevaluate my life. This is just too much for me to process.... Daaang.

 

[Gizzmotick]

They.... they don't?! Um, I think I have to go reevaluate my life. This is just too much for me to process.... Daaang.

hehehe... It'd be nice if they did!!

 

[Anomily]

True... but not all women's nipples perk up on arousal.

Plus you can usually get away with claiming to be cold. As one of my high school friends would often say, "it's a tit bit nipply out. Breast to stay in."

And now to actually add something (hopefully) to the discussion...

- Girls get more choice underwear wise, but it also means it takes forever to pick it out. And yes, having large breasts can be fun, but try finding a bra that fits. Turns out 36 D is not an easy size to find. That could just be the limits of small town shopping though. Guys can just go in, grab a pack of what they usually wear, and leave if they want to.

- Sometimes I wish I could just come once and go to sleep. Also, it seems much easier for the majority of guys to have an orgasm than the majority of girls. There are definitely times when no matter what I do, it's just not gonna happen.

I'm not saying guys have it better though. I don't know, I've never been one. If I could magically switch genders for a day or maybe a week, I definitely would. I wouldn't want it to be permanent though. There are too many girly things I like.

 

[Gizzmotick]

- Sometimes I wish I could just come once and go to sleep. Also, it seems much easier for the majority of guys to have an orgasm than the majority of girls. There are definitely times when no matter what I do, it's just not gonna happen.

I'm not saying guys have it better though. I don't know, I've never been one. If I could magically switch genders for a day or maybe a week, I definitely would. I wouldn't want it to be permanent though. There are too many girly things I like.

You know... sometimes it just doesn't happen for guys either. It's a bit more embarassing though.

As for swapping genders, I'd love to give it a try for a day or two... but not permanently. Besides... there are too many girly things I like as a guy.

 

[Anomily]

Yeah, I can see how that'd be embarassing. Guys can't exactly fake it to make their partner feel better. Not that I condone faking it...

 

[Gizzmotick]

Yeah, I can see how that'd be embarassing. Guys can't exactly fake it to make their partner feel better. Not that I condone faking it...

There are times when faking it can be a good thing... but not many.

 

[fenghuang]

if I only could
I'd make a deal with god
And get him to swap our places
... Be unning up that hilll ...
(Kate Bush)

I'd definitely try swapping genders.

 

[ero_dream]

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[Noira]

[*] Boys can pee in the snow to write their name.

THAT'S NOT FAIR! (sulks) All the guys gloat about that.

I'd switch genders for a day or two if I could... mmm, but I would.

Anyway, I think it's about even. Guys can just go into a store and grab underwear, we have to take forever on bras... it isn't easy finding a comfortable one...

To the dude who said girls can't put on an extra 20 pounds, remember, not everyone considers the same weight attractive. I like bigger girls rather than 'omg, I can count your ribs!' girls. And a lot of people do agree with me... (coughs) It's just some people gain twenty pounds (a lot of girls, actually) and it goes to the hips. Some, like me, gain twenty pounds and you can't really TELL until I've gained fifty pounds because it spread out over my breasts, thighs, and stomach. It's just the ones that have it go all to their hips and none to their chests that can't really afford to swing around their weight. Heehee. I've got it lucky, I gain weight and I get bigger breasts to go with it, I guess.

I guess that's lucky.

I don't exactly love having C/D boobs. XP The ultimate size appears to be a B...

But I kinda think guys get it better. Not that I don't act mainly anyway. I figure, if I want to fart, burp, pick my nose, make poop jokes, never shave my legs, and orgasm once and go to sleep, I CAN. So there, society!

...Admittedly, about that last bit, it drives me crazy.

But guys can't fake it when they're turned on, and for me, unless I'm wearing a thin white shirt, it's easy to hide it. My nipples aren't huge, an inch out when aroused buds, usually my shirts are thick enough that no one could tell anyway. Guys, on the other hand... yeah.

But girls get PMS... but guys get turned into human jar openers...

Ah well, I think it's about even. The sexes aren't really all THAT different, it's just society's interpetations of them.

 

[CheekyBoots]

Heehee. I've got it lucky, I gain weight and I get bigger breasts to go with it, I guess.

I guess that's lucky.

Curse you! Curse you and your damned fantastic breasts!

Gosh, I eat a donut and the next day my jeans are too tight. I walk a mile, and I go down a cup size. Hmmm, I think karma got me good for something...

 

[emap]

Oh don't forget about the whole fart thing.

A man let's a loud one rip and he gets high fived and laughs, a woman does the same thing and unless there are butch lesbians or a husband around all she gets is stares like she just grew a third eye and has a war going on above her head.

Clothes is a toss up really, men get about 15 choices on outfits, women get a couple thousand, though finding pants that fit her is near impossible if you are not universally large or small. Same goes with bras, underwear at least is pretty universal.

 

[PertPerth]

Don't forget two down sides of being female - girls get periods (and cramps/mood swings) and get pregnant.

I still think that the selection of womens underwear is for men to see.

If I were to have a choice in the matter, I'd have been a guy. Being a guy means you don't need to explain yourself when it comes to sex. You want it, it's your right to get it from whoever will give it to you.
Women have to "be in love" or keep it as something special else people think you are a slut.

 

[fenghuang]

Being a guy means you don't need to explain yourself when it comes to sex. You want it, it's your right to get it from whoever will give it to you.
Women have to "be in love" or keep it as something special else people think you are a slut.

Now there's one imbalance I'd definitely like to see rectified!

 

[faeriefire]

the initial post said it's easier for girls to explore their sexuality. I would beg to differ on that point. If a lady does go outside of social norms or want to try something that isn't seen as socially acceptable for one reason or another, there are so many labels that can be applied. Even if she's not exploring something new, but she's having sex regularly and not in a long-term relationship there are plenty of folks who will look down on her. Then she is either avoided/ostracised or sought out/objectified depending on how others react. I will say it's becoming easier for women to get information about sex and it's becoming easier for women to accept their own sexuality on a personal level. But I still think guys are given a little more leeway and praise for their conquests than girls are. That said I don't think I'd want to be a guy. There are too many wonderful things about being female...

 

[Carnevil9]

Don't forget two down sides of being female - girls get periods (and cramps/mood swings) and get pregnant.

Females are the ones who get the periods, but males suffer through them at least as much, maybe more!

 

[PertPerth]

Females are the ones who get the periods, but males suffer through them at least as much, maybe more!

Says he like a true male.

 

[fenghuang]

the initial post said it's easier for girls to explore their sexuality. ...

What I ment was explore their gender preferences.

 

[PertPerth]

What I ment was explore their gender preferences.

To some extent this is true...but usually it's to satisfy a guys fantasy (as in a threesome with two girls).
My ex always said that he found the idea of two girls having sex exciting because it meant that they "weren't being forced by a man". I always argued that a lot of the time it's in porn - for men!
But then it's true that it's OK for TV to show two women kissing - but not too men. It's the same with nudity - women are often shown naked, but men not so much. Is this the media's influence on us?

 

[fenghuang]

Agree totally about TV.
But I've talked to several "straight" women who've had sex with other women and evryone's fine with that. But if a guy says he's straight and had sex with another guy he's condemned (and I do mean condemned) as being in the closset.

I'd be quite happy trying sex with another guy (if I'd ever met one I felt comfortable enough with) but I've heard such horrible homophobic coments about it I doubt I'd try it if I thought anyone I knew could find out.

 

[WriterDom]

Inspired by a comment in VelvetDarkness's agony aunt thead ...
Who gets the better deal when it comes to sex - boys or girls?
[[*] Girls can have multiple orgasms. Most boys cum once and are spent.
.

Huh? I'm 50 and have no problem cumming 12 times in 24 hours. Or cumming twice without down time.