Boyfriends

[zeb1094]

I don't believe hurting women is in the process. I believe hurting women is what they want.

Agreed, it's a matter of contol. They want to be in contol, if abuse of women will get them that then that's what they will do.

Just like rape is not about sex, it's about power and control.

 

[Recidiva]

I try to simplify things too much, but cutting through the chase. Bad men will do what ever they have to in order to get what they want. It's sad when they hurt women in the process.

Maybe if both men and women learned to play fair

The problem is personal choice and habituation.

I play fair. But if people get accustomed to not being treated fairly, they do "come out fighting"

So I get misunderstood often because many people have adopted offensive strategies for living. They think everyone has done this, so it's fair to do it to other people.

I think people choose who they are going to be, you choose your strategy. You look around and you decide to "Go with the flow" or swim against the current. One day I said "There are good people in this world because I'm one of them" and I made it true for myself.

I can tell how many people don't believe that's true by how they treat me.

But I made my own choice.

People are as complicated as you let them be. Paint everything black and it's simple.

 

[SeaCat]

You want to know something that is so interesting? Guys, some like myself actually love everything about women, especially some of the things they don't like about themselves.

Just think how small her hole is before she expands to accept you. Basically, men want pussy. That tiny little hole. Women want everything else.

The problem here is that women allow me to take control. Some strong women keep their men on a hook even when other women are trying to give them what they want.

Man secret number one: We want what we want. "I want that pussy even its attached to Hilary Clinton."

I concede that there are many men out there like that. I even concede that maybe most men are like that. I do not concede that all men are like that. I do not think that way, nor does my father. (My brother might but he's different than I am, he forgot about honor.)

Cat

 

[SeaCat]

I know they exist, cat, because you're one of 'em.

Cat
JK

 

[sweetnpetite]

Now it's my turn to be reduced to tears.

If you knew how much you evoked the man who I have tried to model my life after...

Eerily quotable.

I don't know if I should feel good or bad about that