Blowjob question

[NWBiGuy]

Well, I'm finally taking the plunge. I've fantasized about it for a long time, but I finally met a guy I really hit it off with and I'm going to meet up with him tomorrow and suck his cock. I've been curious forever.

However, I have a problem. I have this horrible drymouth problem, and I'm afraid that in the middle of sucking him off I'll have no saliva whatsoever and I wont be able to finish the job, which I desperately want to do. I'm sure I'll be nervous, and that won't help with the dry mouth at all.

Anybody else have this problem? Any tips or tricks? Are there any types of lubes that are safe for human consumption?

I really want this to go well. Thanks for any advice

 

[SweetErika]

Yes, there are a ton of lubes made specifically for oral, though I think most of them aim to make it more inticing or fun by adding flavors and sensations. You could look for one of those (I've seen flavored Wet brand in my local Rite Aids and/or Walgreens), or an edible massage oil (KY might make them, and lots of the "Lovers" stores carry them).

The other day Hubby and I were playing around, and when I started the bj, I discovered I'd gotten a little bit of our ID Millenium silicone lube on him. It's not harmful (though I wouldn't ingest a ton) and tastes a little salty, so I didn't think anything of it until I felt how easily my lips and tongue were sliding. Again, it was only a touch of lube, so it didn't affect the friction or make my mouth feel weird, but it made things move so beautifully with less saliva and effort! I'm thinking this is my sexual discovery of 2006, and possibly a marketable idea! -worthy indeed.

So, my point is the bit of silicone lube might work well for you, plus it's fabulous for everything else, moisturizes, won't wear off/get sticky, is waterproof, latex safe, hypoallergenic, and is pretty damn perfect for people like me who can't stand artificial flavors. You wouldn't have to use a ton of it (ICK! ) like you might with water-based, or interrupt the fun to re-apply. I bet a drop or two could even be mixed in with another type of lube to make it last!


My only other suggestion--since you're doing oral on a cock, NOT a pussy--is to maybe suck on a mint or hard candy of some kind, if that helps you with the dry mouth. Maybe something sour or kind of brisk, like one of those Dentyne Ice mints? I'd suggest sugar-free because sugar might make it sticky and worse for both of you, but that's just my take.

Good luck, be safe and have fun satisfying your curiosity!

 

[NWBiGuy]

Thanks for the advice, I'm going to go meet him now, and I'll swing by someplace and get some silicon based lube, that sounds like it might do the trick. Thanks a bunch, and I will have fun

 

[Camaro396]

just wanted to say, enjoy ever moment of it as it will be over before you know it.

 

[LoboBoy]

I find if you hit the back of your throat and get the gag reflex happening on purpose, the mouth can salivate a bit more. good luck

 

[NWBiGuy]

Well, just an update for anybody who cares.

The lube worked quite well, I had a blast, I wish I hadn't waited this long to orally service a guy. I really liked sucking his cock, and I was rewarded with a big mouthful of cum. I'm going to get together with him again soon and do it again.

Thanks for the advice guys, and the good wishes.

 

[SweetErika]

Glad it went so well for you, NW!