Blowing a load - quick or slow?

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Before I ever knew what edging was, I did it… I would masturbate and back down when close and then start, back down and go for long times. It was always (and still is) very pleasurable.

Fast forward to now and my wife and I have very long sex sessions. Typically in the 30-60 minute range depending on how much time we have. Sometimes over an hour.

We practice orgasm control so sometimes I don’t even cum. I love making her cum and feeling good at the same time. We usually go for a few weekend without me cumming. The feeling is addictive. When I finally cum it’s massive and powerful and worth the wait.

I love edging as part of my masturbation ritual. I absolutely identify with this. I have been edging all of my post-pubescent life. The act of masturbation is, many times, if not mostly, about simulating a coupled sexual experience - either through fantasy or reliving a real life experience. But, in later life, I find the stimulation of masturbation is, in and of itself, a satisfying sexual experience, as coupled sex is mostly non-existent.

My wife and I used to have longer sex sessions. My focus was making her cum - because I loved seeing it. She is beautiful, and even more so, when she is in the throes of orgasm. Additionally, I knew that her orgasm would inspire her to make me orgasm too.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I prefer slow but sadly I'm a fast cummer. I'm lucky to last 30 seconds.

Masturbation can last 'forever' (not that I'm complaining), but if I'm inside a pussy, I'm just like you.

 

[Dreamer110]

Most of the time, my wife wants it slow and easy. There were times when she came home from being out with friends and said, "Fuck me now!" That was the signal to pound her hard and fast and blow a fast load.

Probably because she was being a naughty wife or at least thinking about it.

 

[SexyAshley10]

Slow if it's in my hands. Lots of guys are in a hurry though.

I totally agree

 

[gtnlynn]

Probably because she was being a naughty wife or at least thinking about it.

Exactly. I usually got the whole story after we finished fucking, which led to more fucking.

 

[discjockey74]

Slow and easy!!!

 

[Dreamer110]

Exactly. I usually got the whole story after we finished fucking, which led to more fucking.

Must of been some really good stories. Been there myself

 

[gtnlynn]

Must of been some really good stories. Been there myself

Quite enjoyable.

 

[LisaMayTurner]

Sometimes slow, sometimes quick. The best weekends often involve slow, slow, quick, quick, slow...and so on...

 

[Polranny25]

Sometimes slow, sometimes quick. The best weekends often involve slow, slow, quick, quick, slow...and so on...

Strictly cum dancing!!!

 

[rewinding]

Usually slowly.....'Slow and steady wins the race' - But sometimes you just want to fuck

 

[Fred6969]

Sometimes slow, sometimes quick. The best weekends often involve slow, slow, quick, quick, slow...and so on...

Damn, you’ve broken my code…

 

[SexyAshley10]

Sometimes slow, sometimes quick. The best weekends often involve slow, slow, quick, quick, slow...and so on...

I have always loved a good dancer

 

[SexyAshley10]

Slow if it's in my hands. Lots of guys are in a hurry though.

Interesting as always, Desi

 

[LaVidaLoca]

I prefer a guy to cum in less than 5 minutes.. That's ideal to me

I leave it up to you.
Slow sliding in and out or fast pumping and quick cuming.
All for you honey.

 

[wildrise]

Depends on the mood. Sometimes slow, sometimes quick, sometimes in between. My favorite is probably in between… plus that way you can cum, rest a little then maybe cum again!

 

[40sBiCuckCple]

I prefer slow but sadly I'm a fast cummer. I'm lucky to last 30 seconds.

Regretfully I’m in that same boat.

 

[SloanePlanet66]

I'm slow, my wife is fast. Depending on which one of us gets the ball rolling, I like to tigh her arms back, and take my time. She goes crazy,and cums over and over. If she is in control, I have to make her cum fast, and then she tells me not to be long making myself come, because she wants to go to sleep. Lol

Last night, my wife wasn't feeling too well, long term illness. She knew I was horny as hell, because we came across a really old fashioned ladies shop, that sold everything, from the 50s to the 70s, and the whole lot were on display. It was a dream come true for me, I never thought I would see a shop like this again. I bought my lovely, curvy wife an old fashioned nightie. As I said, she wasn't to good, but she did suggest that I lube my cock and press it between her buttocks, and slide up and down as much as I liked until I shot my load. Being extra gentle, I started very slow, and it was so nice that I didn't increase my speed or pressure. After a while I used more lube and I have to say that the feeling of my cock sliding between her buttocks was just beautiful. It was the best cum I have discharged in a long time. Yummy

 

[Burstplayer]

I tend to take my time now, mostly to build and edge, but also I've been able to control my shot over the years now. It's rare I want to blow fast, and sometimes that's not easy now as I've built a tolerance to pacing. On my own, I can go pretty quickly, but for intercourse and oral, it's probably 30-40 minutes for my best load.

 

[Glassnslate]

The most intense orgasms that I have had have come from the slow buildup of oral sex. Personally, it is very difficult for me to orgasm from a blow job. When those orgasms happen, the buildup is long and slow, then the orgasm itself incredibly intense and draining. I rate orgasms from oral sex has the most intense orgasm experience for me personally.

 

[SexyAshley10]

I love an intense orgasm, possibly three or four, one after another from a big beautiful cock play time

 

[Klaus_Smith]

I love an intense orgasm, possibly three or four, one after another from a big beautiful cock play time

Slow make me build and reward you with a big messy load.

 

[Pabiporffor]

The thing about giving head is your jaw aches, and if you're squatting down your legs get in a cramp. The whole point of a BJ is to deliver a period of intense pleasure ending in an explosive conclusion. Unlike sex where we expect guys to control themselves and gold back, BJs are about him just letting go and enjoying the sensations without needing to impress.

 

[discjockey74]

It all depends on my mood and how much time I have!

 

[Nellie60]

I am a lover of good hand action...depends on the moment, I found the intensity of blowing my load better then with a bj.

Good variety depending on spontaneity of rhe moment, sometimes lots of edging or hard and fast.