Blowing a load - quick or slow?

[BillyWalrus]

My trans girlfriend always cums in me (mouth or ass) as quickly as she can. She usually blows her load in five minutes or less. One time I think she lasted ten minutes - a record for her. Sometimes she says she would like to last longer but the stimulation is too much for her and she has to cum. It's fine with me - after all my job is to make her cum.

However it got me wondering. Does your lover cum fast or slow? Do they take their time or get their rocks off as soon as they can? How do you feel about how fast they cum? Would you like it quicker or slower?

 

[wouldloveto]

As a general rule, I prefer slow, both ways. In practice it is whatever feels best at the time.

 

[Darty20]

As a general rule, I prefer slow, both ways. In practice it is whatever feels best at the time.

Totally agree

 

[Dirtyoldhornyman]

I prefer slow, want to enjoy the journey. But sometimes it’s just so damn hot it’s too quick.

 

[BillyWalrus]

I prefer slow, want to enjoy the journey. But sometimes it’s just so damn hot it’s too quick.

You sound like my gf lol. One time she blew her load as soon as she got her cock in my ass. Lucky for her, she was still hard and I sucked her so she could cum a second time.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

My wife gets turned on when men cum quick. Sometimes I will for her but prefer lingering for as long as possible.

 

[Dreamer110]

My wife gets turned on when men cum quick. Sometimes I will for her but prefer lingering for as long as possible.

My opinion also. Love edging.

 

[desibabe2705]

Slow if it's in my hands. Lots of guys are in a hurry though.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Slow if it's in my hands. Lots of guys are in a hurry though.

I prefer the long road. And I love my nipple licked as a woman rubs me!

 

[ffdan]

Slow. I live to edge. Lots of precum

 

[Tony195756]

I love going slowly

 

[Tony195756]

Slow if it's in my hands. Lots of guys are in a hurry though.

Need to enjoy it

 

[Bisnjguy]

Nice and slow, right now before I get in the shower.

 

[TonyF862]

My wife gets turned on when men cum quick.

Have you seen her with other men?

Sometimes I will for her but prefer lingering for as long as possible.

I’m a linger-er as well!

 

[SloanePlanet66]

I'm slow, my wife is fast. Depending on which one of us gets the ball rolling, I like to tigh her arms back, and take my time. She goes crazy,and cums over and over. If she is in control, I have to make her cum fast, and then she tells me not to be long making myself come, because she wants to go to sleep. Lol

 

[Wonderer67]

Before I ever knew what edging was, I did it… I would masturbate and back down when close and then start, back down and go for long times. It was always (and still is) very pleasurable.

Fast forward to now and my wife and I have very long sex sessions. Typically in the 30-60 minute range depending on how much time we have. Sometimes over an hour.

We practice orgasm control so sometimes I don’t even cum. I love making her cum and feeling good at the same time. We usually go for a few weekend without me cumming. The feeling is addictive. When I finally cum it’s massive and powerful and worth the wait.

 

[TonyF862]

I have never thought about this (Ie fast v slow). I think it has changed over the years (I’m now 62).

It’s different, too, between when I’m masturbating and want a “release” vs when I’m with my wife or lovers. When I’m playing I’m very indifferent to whether or not I have an orgasm. This could be owed to the fact that wife and I fuck/play at least 4-5 times a week. I often eat her to an orgasm, then fuck her to another one, and simply “climb off” and go about my day (side note: I do think women find this very disappointing at times - but that’s another story).

I recently attended a swinger club where, over the course of the evening, I had my cock sucked twice, by two different women (quite expertly, I might add), ate out two women (one was one of the blowjob queens), and fucked the bj queen hard and fast. And still….you guessed it: nothing. Nada.

Now, my cock was hard the entire time. I was turned on and savored every moment, but blowing my load was not my goal or my idea of enjoyment.

 

[trevorness]

Back when I sometimes had sex I would always want it to last, but ended up coming quickly. When stroking myself I would be able to relax and take my time.
Though recently it seems I get off more and more quickly. Yesterday on a whim I timed it. I really went for it and was done in about a minute and a half. Go team?

 

[Tomr]

I prefer slow but sadly I'm a fast cummer. I'm lucky to last 30 seconds.

 

[BillyWalrus]

I prefer slow but sadly I'm a fast cummer. I'm lucky to last 30 seconds.

You sound like my girlfriend. Sometimes she barely gets her cock in before she cums.

 

[Nellie60]

I prefer the long road. And I love my nipple licked as a woman rubs me!

Depends on the moment sometimes slow edging, other times love it very quick!

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I prefer a guy to cum in less than 5 minutes.. That's ideal to me

 

[Nellie60]

If you are in a hurry don't mind if you like to break speed records ha ha!

I have heard of stories from past girlfriends about guys who even cum once they held their cocks in their hand..without even stroking it.

 

[gtnlynn]

Most of the time, my wife wants it slow and easy. There were times when she came home from being out with friends and said, "Fuck me now!" That was the signal to pound her hard and fast and blow a fast load.

 

[kathyisgr65]

I'm a girl.. but I want to add.. both have merits.. sometimes u just gotta fuck.. hard and fast..
Sometimes a whole worship session.slow
To me variety is key.. don't want a routine