Blatant theft!

[James G 5]

Absolutely, but do you really want me to ask them on a public forum?

Like *I* have any shame
I am an exhibitionistic attention hog who's his own worst critic, no one could possibly say anything about me I haven't heard from others or said to myself already
Hell, I live out loud, publically, and actively as a pagan, polyamorous, BDSM lifestyler

So ask away, it won't bother me none

 

[methpez]

shure whats up

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[James G 5]

Ok shameless James

1. When did you first discover your BDSM "tendencies?" Be specific.

As I've mentioned in other posts, I started playing BDSM "games" with the girls next door as early as age 7. First piece of BDSM porn I got my hands on was at age 14, and I knew right away it excited me more than anything EXCEPT anal sex stories. Once I discovered anal BDSM, it was all over

2. Have you every bottomed? If so, please describe. If not, why, and would you ever consider it?

I have not bottomed per se...with one girl friend we took turns being agressive and physical, and I allowed one to tie me up in turn for me tying her up
Both were before I really KNEW about D/s and were part of my learning process, neither really felt "right"
My Mentor is a lesbian Domme...I seem to fall in to subservient (not submissive) roles to strong lesbian women for some reason (and yeah, I know EXACTLY where that little paraphilia comes from, thank you). I love Her and respect Her and some people occasionaly think of me as her submissive. She put me in that head space deliberately a few times to teach me about it but never really had me bottom to her.
I think I have enough of the perspective of that headspace to understand it without needing to "live" it more than I have.
It's just never felt "right" to me when I've tried to go there. According to at least several people I know "in the life" I am a Dom. Period. *shrug*.

3. When was the last time you cut your hair (we're talking on your skull)?

Right before I went to Boston for the wedding last month. I haven't gotten all the length in the back cut off in....uhm....8 years? But I get the sides trimmed & the split ends cut out & the top trimmed every few months and more often if I have a special event or important business function.

4. If circumstances were right, would you ever enter a monogamous relationship? Why or why not?

Maybe, and I have in the past. If I really & truly loved someone enough, felt that she loved ME, and thought there was enough between us (not just on a sexual level) to compensate for giving up that part of myself and it was the ONLY way to be with her I would consider it. 2 points that would hit me there, tho...#1 if she really loved ME, that is a PART of me, and I would want a REALLY good reason from her as to why she wanted me to give it up and #2 the relationship would have to be SUPER strong & supportive & seh'd need to be SUPER tolerant of my bulshit when I felt stifled by living like that

5. How to question: what's the best knot for restraining someone? Do you use some kind of quick release knot, just in case?

Geez...I am LOUSY at rope bondage. I've learned enough to restrain someone safely (like in the shaving pics) up to a point but I don't know any of the fancy knot names. It's one area where I am still weak. The pretty rope harness pics of Moonie are just a show, she sliped right out of those ropes. I try & either do the ropes in such a way that I can undo them REAL fast OR I have trauma shears handy (always a pair in my toybag) to cut someone out in an emergency. I always make a point about that in rope posts on the BDSM forum.

Ok, now I need to go think of some for you

 

[MystiqDrgn]

Like *I* have any shame
I am an exhibitionistic attention hog who's his own worst critic, no one could possibly say anything about me I haven't heard from others or said to myself already
Hell, I live out loud, publically, and actively as a pagan, polyamorous, BDSM lifestyler

So ask away, it won't bother me none

James ....shame.... Nahhhhh. Embarrassment, hell yeah ~smiles viciously~

Scary thing is James, I could have answered those questions for you and came up with the same answers you did. On second thought that isn't too scary, just means I am in your head (muuwhaaa haaa)

Love ya sweetie, ~M~

 

[huskie]

PinkOrchid


1.) What made you such an Anal goddess and when??

2.) What turned you onto Gardening and when ?

3.) Have you always lived in SW?

4.) Do you have kids and if so do you teach them gardening?

5.) ?? I can't think of nothing else to ask at the moment sorry

 

[Mstrskey]

Not what I expected from the title

but a very interesting thread idea just the same!
I'll be checking in to keep posted since PO and the rest seem to be asking such good questions.

Oh yeah, I'm pretty dull in comparison to most of our posters but I will volunteer to honestly answer anything I'm asked and try to think of some good questions for the rest.

 

[BirdsWife]

Ok, Bird's Wife

1. How long have you been swimming? Is it something you do for fun or are you competitive?

2. Do you like your fettuccine plain and traditional, or with added goodies (like chicken or maybe a nice primavera)?

3. What's your favorite sexual act and/or position?

4. What one thing can another person do that will embarrass you the most?

5. How to you always maintain such a good attitude, even when others are acting like complete idiots?

1. I've always loved to swim for fun, but it has become more important to me over the past few years. I have Multiple Sclerosis, so it is about the only exercising I can do where my body won't get overheated and worsen my symptoms.

2. I'm mainly a vegetarian, so plain fettuccine alfredo is just fine with me. When I have it at my mother's house she usually makes chicken breast parmesan, too, so of course I can't offend her by turning it down.

3. I have to choose just one? Experimenting is so much fun that I really do love it all, but if I had to choose just one I would say sex in the missionary position. The skin to skin contact, being able to kiss and touch so much of my husband's body, and the intimacy of looking into each other's eyes simply can't be beat. And the earth-shattering orgasms brought on by his cock rubbung my g-spot just the right way aren't half bad, either.

4. Pay me a compliment. I had very low self-esteem for so long that I never felt like I deserved them and was self-conscious about getting the attention. They still make me a little embarrassed, but I am learning to be more gracious about accepting them.

5. I learned to not sweat the small stuff. This goes back to when Iwas first diagnosed with the MS. I used to be very anal about everything, and I'm sure I drove the people around me crazy with my obsessiveness. Well, being unable to see and being dizzy enough that I had to stay flat on my back for seven months certainly made me rearrange my priorities. Nowadays I don't let the complete idiots affect my attitude because I realize that my life is too short to waste my time on them.

(Wow. Was that long-winded or what?)

 

[Icingsugar]

1. Why a Icing Sugar and a cake AV on a porn board?

I'm all about the icing on the cake in life. Besides, I think it's a neat subltle metafor, compared to all the up-in-yer-face smut in other ppl's AV's and names here (not that I mind). It's tasty, sticky and very lickable.

2. How did you find Lit and what prompted you to start posting here? Did you lurk for a while first or just jump in?

Posting on the forums or posting stories? Well, I was introduced to the site by a very special girl. (see next question) But she nor I actually saw the forum section at first. We just enjoyed the stories. I decided to write my own stuff for two reasons: I wanted to practice my English (I'm a Swede, bork bork), and I wanted to try and write more adult themes. I make my living as an author of books for kids and young teens, and I don't think my publisher would appriciate too much cock-sucking in those novels. About the forums, well, I just happen to wander aimlessly in here one day, and was stuck. I lurked for approx ten minutes.

3. Are you attached or single and looking or single and not looking or the obligatory "other."

Very very attached. I'm so attached it's almost stupid. Insanely in love with a woman who honestly is too good for me (but who am I to complain?), happily engaged (to the same one, duh) and expecting kids (yes, that's in plural, as in twins) due April. What can I say? It's definitely for life this time. We'll have a midsummer wedding, carrying a kid each. I'm feeling like the luckiest SOB alive.

4. What is your favorite article of clothing?

My shoes. I don't really care allthat much for what I wear, as long as it's clean and reasonably comfy. But a pair of good shoes that you can walk for miles in is very important. Also, I have this really cool old Bogart hat that I look quite snappy in.

5. How do you make a good butter cream icing?

The magic key element is the freezer. It's a bit like making a parfait. Mix everything up, whip it hard until it's smooth. Then put it in the freezer for a few minutes. The butter will go stale. Then take it out and go at it like a maniac until it's smooth and fluffy and room-tempered again. Apply on cake, or lover, and enjoy.

 

[Lust Engine]

Phew...so many questions flying back & forth! You'd think this was Meet the Press or something!

 

[SexyChele]

These are always fun threads, but I have to agree: it might be best to PM the person who is "on the block", so to speak. I just happened to open this thread by accident. Had no idea what it was about. But I will check in from time to time to find out more about my fellow "How To" Literoticans!

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Wickid Cherry Pie]

wow! i'm learning more every day!
consider it my lit ed.

 

[Bobmi357]

wow! i'm learning more every day!
consider it my lit ed.

Study hard, there will be a quiz and an oral exam at the end of the week.

 

[Wickid Cherry Pie]

oral exam? oh i can ace that!

 

[Bobmi357]

oral exam? oh i can ace that!

Perhaps. But some orals are harder than others

 

[huskie]

1. Uncontrollable horniness? Actually, I'm not sure. I had an SO a long time ago who teased me (rimming, fingers, etc.) and drove me crazy, and that seemed to start waking it up. I remember the first time I almost went through the roof. As I've gotten older, I've just become more open and direct about it.

2. My father when I was very young.

3. No. I'm originally from Greenland.*

4. No children, but I've taught garden-related things to other peoples' kids.

Geenland??? how do you plant stuff in ice??

 

[TNRkitect2b]

Nice thread Pink! I've subscribed, so i'll be lurking around

 

[sheath]

Oh, I am so game!

And these are for: Mstrskey

1. If you could meet anyone at all, living or dead, who would it be and why?

2. What is the one lesson you learned as a child that stuck with you and changed the course of your life?

3. If I were to give you a week of vacation anywhere in the world, all expenses paid, where would you go?

4. What virtue of character do you most value?

5. If you had to choose only one position to have sex in for the rest of your life, what would it be?

Answer, answer, answer!

S.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Mstrskey]

Oh, I am so game!

And these are for: Mstrskey

1. If you could meet anyone at all, living or dead, who would it be and why?

2. What is the one lesson you learned as a child that stuck with you and changed the course of your life?

3. If I were to give you a week of vacation anywhere in the world, all expenses paid, where would you go?

4. What virtue of character do you most value?

5. If you had to choose only one position to have sex in for the rest of your life, what would it be?

Answer, answer, answer!

S.

Jimminy Christmas!! Ok...I'll play along.

1. If I could meet any person living or dead I would want to meet Leonardo DaVinci. Why? He's a brilliant mind and judging by his art also a passionate man. I would love to pick at his brain a bit and see what moved him, motivated and stimulated his thinking and inspired his art and once and for all ask him what in the bloody hell the Mona Lisa is smirking about!

2. The lesson I learned as a child that stuck with me is that what goes around comes around. As a young kid I was a brat of the highest order. I was the popular girl everyone hated until about the 4th grade when I switched schools and my family dynamic underwent massive and ugly upheaval. When I arrived at my new school I was a fish hopelessly out of water and all the cruel and horrible things I did to other kids were now being done to me. It gave me real compassion really quickly and I've never again done unto others what I wouldn't want done to me.

3. If you were to give me a week of fully paid/covered vacation to the spot of my choice I would spend that week in the small quiet village of Assisi in Italy. I lived there for a month as a kid and it has stuck out in my mind to this day as the most beautiful place on earth. The winding cobblestone streets that cover the mountains, the fields and vineyards dotting the landscape and the quiet little monasteries tucked away along the country roads lined with Olive trees. That and the Basillica de Santa Chiara is in Assisi along with the Vasillica de San Francesco. (Brother Sun and Sister Moon) My brother and I were named after them and the Basillicas are some of the most beautiful in the world.

4. The character trait that I value most? It's a toss up between compassion and honesty. Both are traits I feel are essential to the makeup of a truly decent human being.

5. Sexual position....rear entry. Taken from behind with a pair of strong hands gripping into my hips, my face buried in a pillow and my whole body bouncing with every thrust.

There ya go! ...now I gotta think of some for you...hmmm?

 

[Mstrskey]

Alright then Sheath these are for you...

1. What person or event triggered your adult sexual awakening and helped to shape the sexual being you are today?

2. What is the best book you have ever read and why?

3. What would you like your children to most remember about you?

4. If I gave you access to any resource and unlimited finances what dream of yours would you fulfill?

5. How many licks does it take to get to the tootsie roll center of a tootsie pop?

 

[bashfull]

I feel like a little voyeur all over again.

Keep it up! (no pun intended...okay, perhaps a little one)




Bash

 

[wicked woman]

OK Bobmi for you....

1. I've noticed you give great advice on the How To forum. Just how did you get so wise?

2. What's your favourite type of music or musician?

3. What top 5 factors help make/are necessary for a relationship to work?

4. What is your favourite place to travel to...where would you most like to vacation?

5. Have you ever lusted after a man or been bi-curious?