Bitter dissappointment.

[Ambrosious]

Well, here I go again. My wife started her period today. She was supposed to get the blood test today to determine if she was pregnant or not. So close this time. Oh well. I'm taking it better than her. She called me in tears. I think I will take her out to dinner tonight. Buy some flowers. You know, make her feel good about herself again. Now if someone would do the same for me...

 

[Merelan]

Come over here and let me cuddle you a little, honest, just a cuddle. You are safe here in my arms. Go ahead and spoil her a bit, but as you stated, you too are disappointed. Nothing to say that can help, but a hug, a shoulder to cry on, a person to rant and rave and cry "why not us" to, well... sometimes it helps. Here I am.

 

[Juliangel]

{{{HUGS}}} to you both. Would come give it to you in person since I live so close but my honey has the car today and he is stuck in meetings all day.

 

[R Nitelight]

Ambrosious

There are some threads that you want to respond to, but you just can't think of a damn thing to say that will help.

 

[*Eve*]

Sorry to hear that. I hope things work out for the two of you eventually, but look on the bright side, you get more trys at making a baby.

 

[Shylady]

((((((((big hug))))))

 

[Silverlily]

Oh no, I am so sorry.

 

[Cheri]

I'm so sorry for you and your wife. If you need a anyone to dump on, please feel free to do that here cause we'll be happy to sympathize and encourage in any way we can.

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[Dragonlady]

I Understand

I have one tip for you don't try so hard and she must not get her hopes up so much either...I know this is hard because I go through the same thing each month and it hurts...Sometimes I feel liked I have failed some how but I know it is not my fault ..This is how your wife feels .She so wants to feel her tummy grow with child..Please just hold her and give her love and tell her there is always next time ...This helps more than you know!!!



HUGS and KISSES
Dragonlady

 

[Cyan BloodsBane]

Ambrosious

Ambrosious,

Don't take it so hard.... The wife and myself have been trying for 3 years (really good at it now...) But we have come up empty womb everytime... The one thing that puzzles me is why she wants it 5 times a day.. sheesh....<---- Can't keep up

Ambrosious,

Just be thankful that you are together.... And you have not had to deal with you wife losing one when she was 1 week(Thats the hard part)@--->---- Roses always work dinner and just be there to listen

[Edited by Cyan BloodsBane on 11-02-2000 at 03:14 PM]

 

[SpecialK]

So sorry.

*HUGS*

K

 

[teresafannin]

I can only send a big hug to you both & continued best wishes. Have a nice evening together & don't give up. Sometimes it happens when you least expect it. It isn't much comfort, but know that a lot of people here are thinking of you.

 

[Ambrosious]

Hey thanks everyone. Just to let you know ladies, she has a HUGE bouquet of flowers waiting for her here when she gets off work. Since purple is her favorite color (I know, but I like her wierdness) I got purple roses, carnations, and tulips mixed all together. With a nice card to cheer her up.

Thank you for your support and now I'm headed to the board looking for funny, or at least amusing threads that will take my mind off of it for a while.

 

[forgetunome]

I am so sorry....

((((((Ambrosious)))))))

Only the warmest thoughts

 

[Cheyenne]

It isn't often that I have a blank screen in front of me and don't know what to type. It has been blank for a few minutes now.

When you and your wife finally do have a child, he or she will obviously be loved. And what better way to join the world than to be born to two people who have done everything humanly possible just to give you life?

You, your wife, and your future child are in my prayers, hoping the day you are all together comes soon for you.

 

[Earthmuffin]

*swallowing the lump in my throat*

Hugs, flowers, warmest thoughts. Been there, can honestly say I empathize. Here's holding out for the day your wife gets to call you crying because she's positively pregnant.