Bitch about your SO.....

[MissBri]

 

[Aurora Black]

This time I was taking something to him in the bathroom and when I got in there, he said "Will you give me a blow job now?" or something like that. He does it on IM too. A yahoo window will pop up with "wanna give me a bj?" from him.

What a fucktard.

 

[Aurora Black]

When I woke up this morning, BF informed me that when he leaves he's going to have the Internet connection cut off. WTF? So in two weeks I'm going to have to search around for an Internet cafe or something so I can still hang out here.

 

[impressive]

When I woke up this morning, BF informed me that when he leaves he's going to have the Internet connection cut off. WTF? So in two weeks I'm going to have to search around for an Internet cafe or something so I can still hang out here.

Um, that's just being a TOTAL asshole. (You deserve better.)

Me? I'd be gone before BF got back.

 

[pop_54]

When I woke up this morning, BF informed me that when he leaves he's going to have the Internet connection cut off. WTF? So in two weeks I'm going to have to search around for an Internet cafe or something so I can still hang out here.

Why don't you cut his cock off before he leaves dear... see if he can find a replacement for that


Me I dare not bitch about my SO, she knock seven buckets of shit out of me

 

[Guest]

whadda nasty thread. I like it muchly!!

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

It's not like I am advocating the use of sex as a weapon or a means to make someone grovel. But it should be mutual pleasure. A single-minded narcissism is immature and does no one any good. It's wrong for either sex to think only of his or her own needs.

I genuinely get the impression that Crim's lover has a rather limited understanding of what sex is supposed to be, what sex acts are possible or desirable. It's little wonder, then, that Crim doesn't want to blow him. It's not like she's a prude, after all. She is on a porn site!

To use an example: say there is this gay couple, Jim and Roger. Jim is always fucking Roger in the ass or asking to fuck Roger in the ass. He never wants to be the recipient. After a while, Roger is rightly going to refuse to take it up the ass until Jim starts receiving as well as penetrating. It's only fair to Roger that he get his turn.

If sex is becoming a one-sided deal, then one is less likely to desire it in a relationship. Crim's beau or hubby is shooting himself in the foot, plus denying both of them new pleasures that can put some excitement back into their sex lives.

I'm not necessarily talking about swinging or D/s. Those appeal to some people, but not to everyone. However, there are plenty of other techniques that her old man can learn for both of their sakes. I won't say her too, because I have the feeling that she is already aware of them and eager to do something new anyway.

And, Aurora, I can't begin to fathom that idea. Turn off the Internet? Of course, both my girl and I are Internet junkies, so that would never happen to us. But it sounds like he is taking frugality a bit too far. Or maybe he feels threatened by us AHers. Which smacks of insecurity. Perhaps you should sit down with him and tell him that you weren't going to leave him for any of us, but you will leave him to be on your own, if he tries to impose such a unilateral decision on you without concern about how it affects you as well as him. Sounds like a distinct lack of empathy. He is not thinking about what he would feel if you cancelled or got rid of one of his favorite toys. A little confrontation would be my advice.

 

[zeb1094]

When I woke up this morning, BF informed me that when he leaves he's going to have the Internet connection cut off. WTF? So in two weeks I'm going to have to search around for an Internet cafe or something so I can still hang out here.

Hmmm...is he afraid you would find someone better then him while he's gone?

 

[MissBri]

 

[Belegon]

When I woke up this morning, BF informed me that when he leaves he's going to have the Internet connection cut off. WTF? So in two weeks I'm going to have to search around for an Internet cafe or something so I can still hang out here.

I think someone needs a foot put down on top of his...fight him on this one, at the very least.

It also would not hurt to remind him that it means he can't get in touch with you this way either...

 

[Aurora Black]

I accused him of doing it just to isolate me from Lit, but he said it was a matter of cost. Anyway, whatever his reasons for wanting to cut off the connection, I refuse to be left stranded. There are tons of measures I can take to remain around here, and I'll take them.

 

[Guest]

I accused him of doing it just to isolate me from Lit, but he said it was a matter of cost. Anyway, whatever his reasons for wanting to cut off the connection, I refuse to be left stranded. There are tons of measures I can take to remain around here, and I'll take them.

How long will he be gone?

With some systems there is a set-up charge, equipment to return, etc., and then there is the hassle of restarting matters - email addresses, for one.

If he's only going to be gone a month or so it seems foolish to shut it off.

 

[Aurora Black]

How long will he be gone?

With some systems there is a set-up charge, equipment to return, etc., and then there is the hassle of restarting matters - email addresses, for one.

If he's only going to be gone a month or so it seems foolish to shut it off.

He's going to be gone for a whole year.

 

[Guest]

He's going to be gone for a whole year.

Ah.

Sounds like that's a good thing.

 

[Aurora Black]

Ah.

Sounds like that's a good thing.

It's going to be a mixed blessing, that's for sure.

 

[popcorn2721]

Yes, in fact I can have male friends that I don't feel the urge to fuck.

Thanks.

Its funny that I deal with this daily...I have female friends that I have known for years yet get the regular "your wanting to fuck them" story if I mention "doing" lunch or something (in this instance I worked in the same town and lunch would be next door to work)....Its enough to piss one off to the very fucken core.

 

[FallingToFly]

I was supposed to be at work an hour ago, and the SO was supposed to get up to watch the youngest because he doesn't want the baby at the barn if it can be avoided.

I've been going in ever five to eight minutes asking him to get up.

I'm still an hour late and he's still asleep.

*goes to get baby dressed and go to work*