Bisexual dating sites

[Soulfiregirl]

Yes, I'm back to whine and complain about the fact that I'm still having a hard time finding bisexual women on various dating sites. I get tons of replies from couples, single men, and married men wanting mistresses, but no girls!!!!

So anyway, since we're always getting new members, I figured it couldn't hurt to ask again what dating sites you guys recommend that cater to bisexual women looking for other women. (if they are free with no monthly fees, that would be perfect, although I know that's hard to find too)

I don't want lesbian/gay sites. I'm only looking for sites that specifically spotlight bisexuals. I've got ads on several "adult" dating sites but since I can never afford to pay for memberships, all I can do is post free ads and hope that a girl will see it and reply. So far, no luck with the ladies.

Thanks in advance for any info and for reading yet another whiney thread of my where I bitch and moan about not being able to find any pussy.

 

[freeflyer]

Believe it or not I have made most of my bi connections on Craig's list at Craigslist.com. I have met three women there and so far so good. Go to the women meeting women section. There are some angry lesbians on the site as well who don't take a liking to bi girls, but most are OK. As usual, there are men posting as women (as if when you meet them you will change your mind and go with the guy) so be wary of that.

Good luck!

K

 

[Xectxny19X]

I've used Craigslist and just went with my gut feelings for some people through e-mail. So far so good though. Goodluck with your search.

 

[Guest]

I've recently signed onto lesbianpersonalsonline.com - It's ALL women and they frown against couples looking for women. They have women all over the world on there too So I'm sure that you'll be able to find a girl in your area

ETA: I see that you wanted a site that was just for bi-sexual women.. it's not just Bi-women on there but there are quite a few bi-women there You can also put what you're looking for- like long term relationship, friends, just looking or whatever.. Its free to advertise but you cant email with a free membership - thats the only sucky part.

 

[mansome]

hmm.. I don't understand... if you just want to date a woman why does she have to be bisexual? To tell you the truth when I think of bisexual and "dating" or hooking up and using that term I think of threesomes...... I'm a single guy and my profile on swinglifestyle.com says that I'm "bi" and although I do get a few requests from single bi men.. most of them are from hetero couples.... I'd consider just playing with a man alone but I'm much more into having both genders to play with.....

So, my question still is.. if you just want to date a woman and not a man or a couple.. WHY does she have to be bisexual?

 

[Xectxny19X]

hmmm...some interesting inputs here.

 

[Soulfiregirl]

hmm.. I don't understand... if you just want to date a woman why does she have to be bisexual? To tell you the truth when I think of bisexual and "dating" or hooking up and using that term I think of threesomes...... I'm a single guy and my profile on swinglifestyle.com says that I'm "bi" and although I do get a few requests from single bi men.. most of them are from hetero couples.... I'd consider just playing with a man alone but I'm much more into having both genders to play with.....

So, my question still is.. if you just want to date a woman and not a man or a couple.. WHY does she have to be bisexual?

Because I've found that most lesbian women want you to be a lesbian. They don't want you to "be on the fence". And I'm honestly not interested in dating a lesbian. I want a bisexual girl like me because I want us to be able to understand each other. It's a personal preferrence thing I guess. (plus, if I'm dating a bi-girl there's always a chance we can add a boy for a threesome every once in a while which is a fantasy I still have not fullfilled)



Anyway, thanks for the links and info guys.

 

[mansome]

I'm probably reading you wrong but I take it you think if you were with a lesbian that they would require more of a commitment from you than a bisexual woman? and hey, I have no problem with two women wanting to add a man to the mix.. *laughs*

 

[revolution724]

My experience with the online dating thing is that if you go to most "general interest" sites and say that you are a woman seeking a woman, the overwhelming majority of women's profiles you will find say they are looking for "either," which sounds like "bi" to me. Match.com, Spring Street, Yahoo! personals, anything like that would yield matches like that. And yeah, Craigslist appears overwhelmingly bi also.

 

[SweetErika]

All of these are completely free (some may have "premium" services such as webcam and other features, but you can receive and send mail on all), and have a large number of bi women.

http://www.bisexual.org/

http://www.lesbotronic.com/ (when they say lesbian, they mean to include bi women as well)

http://www.okcupid.com (I met my current gf on here)

http://www.matchdoctor.com (I haven't met any in person, but there are lots of bi women on here)

I'll update if I remember anything else that might work for you.

 

[Soulfiregirl]

I'm probably reading you wrong but I take it you think if you were with a lesbian that they would require more of a commitment from you than a bisexual woman? and hey, I have no problem with two women wanting to add a man to the mix.. *laughs*

It's partly that. A lot of ads I read for strictly lesbian women seem to lean more towards a commitment kind of deal. (not all of course, but many) But I seem to notice that women who are 100% lesbian, aren't not interested in wasting their time on bisexual girls. Which completely makes sense and I respect that. The problem with a lot of the "bi" ads I see is a lot of women who claim they are "bi" are actually "bi-curious" but they are not truely "bisexual". It's just been hard for me to find someone who's truely bisexual and not just looking to "experiment". It's been years since I've dated a woman myself but I know what I'm attracted to. I guess it's just been hard for me to find that in someone else.

 

[Soulfiregirl]

All of these are completely free (some may have "premium" services such as webcam and other features, but you can receive and send mail on all), and have a large number of bi women.

http://www.bisexual.org/

http://www.lesbotronic.com/ (when they say lesbian, they mean to include bi women as well)

http://www.okcupid.com (I met my current gf on here)

http://www.matchdoctor.com (I haven't met any in person, but there are lots of bi women on here)

I'll update if I remember anything else that might work for you.

You are awesome. *hugs* There is actually an "adult" verson of matchdoctor.com called adultmatchdoctor.com. I have an ad on the adult version.


I did try that bifinder site and posted an ad for myself. Not many women in my area but I figured it couldn't hurt to try it.

 

[SweetErika]

You are awesome. *hugs* There is actually an "adult" verson of matchdoctor.com called adultmatchdoctor.com. I have an ad on the adult version.


I did try that bifinder site and posted an ad for myself. Not many women in my area but I figured it couldn't hurt to try it.

Yes, I know about adultmatchdoctor and even placed an ad there once upon a time. Unfortunately, I just got lots and lots of responses from men and couples. I did meet some bi women on the regular matchdoctor, but meeting in person never worked out for one reason or another. I've had better luck with Craigslist and OKCupid.

 

[joiseydiesel]

i want more heres more of me

http://www11.kinghost.com/amateur/privatepages/chris/chris.html talk soon

 

[Soulfiregirl]

Yes, I know about adultmatchdoctor and even placed an ad there once upon a time. Unfortunately, I just got lots and lots of responses from men and couples. I did meet some bi women on the regular matchdoctor, but meeting in person never worked out for one reason or another. I've had better luck with Craigslist and OKCupid.

I checked Craigslist but I was kind of confused by the personals section because it looked more like the women were posting responses to each other intead of ads. It looked like a crude message board. (I clicked on the Chicago area and then clicked on the "personals" section)

I like OKCupid a lot. That is a nice site. I have an ad up there already. And you're right, I get TONS of replies from single men, (especially married men) and some couples but never women. But I'll keep trying.

Thanks again Erika.

 

[cutie79]

www.theladiesclub.com


lots of them there!!

 

[Soulfiregirl]

I got a reply from a woman tonight!!!!!! But she's married.... Grrrrrrr. She wants someone who can "act straight" around her family. She sent me a picture. She's gorgeous. Tall, blonde.....but married. Damn. (I got a reply from another woman but she lives in another country so that doesn't count)

Ah well. I'll keep looking. More tuna out in that sea.....

 

[plesmone]

I got a reply from a woman tonight!!!!!! But she's married.... Grrrrrrr. She wants someone who can "act straight" around her family. She sent me a picture. She's gorgeous. Tall, blonde.....but married. Damn. (I got a reply from another woman but she lives in another country so that doesn't count)

Ah well. I'll keep looking. More tuna out in that sea.....

I found my lover in college. We fought over men, women, and each other some of the time and shared our men, women with each other most of the time. But the best was just to be with her. Keep looking.
Pleas..

 

[gregor_16]

http://www.bisexual.org

 

[mansome]

http://www.bisexual.org

because of this thread, I signed up for that site too.. not too many people in my area on there though..... I'm looking for a couple

 

[Soulfiregirl]

because of this thread, I signed up for that site too.. not too many people in my area on there though..... I'm looking for a couple

Let us know if you find any other cocks....er, I mean roosters to play with.

 

[Guest]

Also.. if you haven't tried it yet... Yahoo has a decent personals section

 

[M-Y-Erotica]

lez and bi

I hope you have luck finding what you are looking for.