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open_minded28 said:
I still can't find quite the right label, none seem to fit exactly. But then I guess thats no surprise - people are very individual and "bi" seems to really span a wide range.
When I think of bisexual it just means there is interest in same-sex sexual activities. But maybe to someone else it means attracted to both genders. Or even capable/wanting relationships with either/both genders.
Most of the time I fantasize about women, watch straight porn. Im only physically and emotionally attracted to women. But I've found that playing with a cock can be great fun.
So I identify as "mostly straight" but bi, seems to be the closest I can come to a label.
Oh, and also "how bi" I am depends on how horny I am lol
Sometimes I just think it would be lovely to have someone sucking me. Other times I'm interested in reciprocating. And when really horny I want to explore a lot more than oral.
just my personal experience, no real point to make or anything.
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Well said...
 
open_minded28 said:
I still can't find quite the right label, none seem to fit exactly. But then I guess thats no surprise - people are very individual and "bi" seems to really span a wide range.
When I think of bisexual it just means there is interest in same-sex sexual activities. But maybe to someone else it means attracted to both genders. Or even capable/wanting relationships with either/both genders.
Most of the time I fantasize about women, watch straight porn. Im only physically and emotionally attracted to women. But I've found that playing with a cock can be great fun.
So I identify as "mostly straight" but bi, seems to be the closest I can come to a label.
Oh, and also "how bi" I am depends on how horny I am lol
Sometimes I just think it would be lovely to have someone sucking me. Other times I'm interested in reciprocating. And when really horny I want to explore a lot more than oral.
just my personal experience, no real point to make or anything.
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There's no 'must' involved. Sex is not a series of pigeon-holes, but a pleasing blur that smudges across a spectrum of tastes and moods that can alter and be fine-tuned by events and experience. As long as it is mutual and consensual, without pressure or coercion, the human body is a sensual delight designed for interaction. It would be a shame to restrict your scope.
 
I defined myself as bi curious for the longest time and more recently was telling myself that I'm actually bisexual. But now I don't think that really defines it. I'm physically attractive to women and love straight sex. But I fantasy about wanting sex with a man. Wanting to play with another cock preferably larger than mine. I want to be feminine in this scenario.

I hope that maybe my wife will peg me someday and that will help but I don't know if she can get onboard with being dominant of me calling me girly things. So needless to say I think I have some gender fluidity in the bedroom and it's not straight bisexual, if that makes any sense.
 
MountainMan406 said:
I defined myself as bi curious for the longest time and more recently was telling myself that I'm actually bisexual. But now I don't think that really defines it. I'm physically attractive to women and love straight sex. But I fantasy about wanting sex with a man. Wanting to play with another cock preferably larger than mine. I want to be feminine in this scenario.

I hope that maybe my wife will peg me someday and that will help but I don't know if she can get onboard with being dominant of me calling me girly things. So needless to say I think I have some gender fluidity in the bedroom and it's not straight bisexual, if that makes any sense.
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I understand what you are saying completely. I am a straight man but in my first conversation with my trans girlfriend, she told me that in bed she would be the man and I would be the woman. So it has been for the past five years. I suck her or she fucks my ass and we are both very happy with each other.
 
Escierto said:
I understand what you are saying completely. I am a straight man but in my first conversation with my trans girlfriend, she told me that in bed she would be the man and I would be the woman. So it has been for the past five years. I suck her or she fucks my ass and we are both very happy with each other.
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Love that for you. And I've seen some of your girlfriend's pics she's gorgeous. And I can see why you enjoy being dominated by her
 
Thwiq1 said:
I’m a married male, only been with women. I still find women sexy and desirable, and I can still perform with my wife. But when I’m alone, all I think of is men and cock. I’ve almost exclusively jerked to gay fantasies and gay porn for years now. I never feel more alive and sexual than when I’m able to embrace this side of me. I’ve struggled at times trying to understand if I’m bi-curious, bi, or maybe one male sexual experience away from coming out of the closet. Ultimately I guess it doesn’t matter, I’m comfortable with my desires. But just curious to hear from anyone with similar feelings or insight. Cheers
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Similar here. MWM 56. Never had any girlfriends growing up. First wife nearly no sex. Current wife no sex for 15 years.
No lie. Years ago I went down on a friend of mine and it was very exciting and naughty. Sadly he never went down
on me. It would be nice to have sex with my wife. But more and more I with I had a male neighbor with benefits.
Maybe he is in a similar situation like me. No sex. Or maybe he has an active and hot sex life and he and his wife
have talked about having a guy join in and he has openly talked to her about what it would feel like to have a friends
cock in his mouth, especially if his wife was watching.
I like the ladies of course and I'm not looking to hook up with a guy for the simple fact of hooking up. But I'm a regular
guy and I have sexual needs and desires and it just would be nice to have a trusted friend/neighbor in person to be
able to explore with.
 
novice68writer123 said:
Similar here. MWM 56. Never had any girlfriends growing up. First wife nearly no sex. Current wife no sex for 15 years.
No lie. Years ago I went down on a friend of mine and it was very exciting and naughty. Sadly he never went down
on me. It would be nice to have sex with my wife. But more and more I with I had a male neighbor with benefits.
Maybe he is in a similar situation like me. No sex. Or maybe he has an active and hot sex life and he and his wife
have talked about having a guy join in and he has openly talked to her about what it would feel like to have a friends
cock in his mouth, especially if his wife was watching.
I like the ladies of course and I'm not looking to hook up with a guy for the simple fact of hooking up. But I'm a regular
guy and I have sexual needs and desires and it just would be nice to have a trusted friend/neighbor in person to be
able to explore with.
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It all does sound like a real nice fantasy to think about... but unfortunately the part of finding that trusted friend/neighbor is like finding a unicorn
 
novice68writer123 said:
Similar here. MWM 56. Never had any girlfriends growing up. First wife nearly no sex. Current wife no sex for 15 years.
No lie. Years ago I went down on a friend of mine and it was very exciting and naughty. Sadly he never went down
on me. It would be nice to have sex with my wife. But more and more I with I had a male neighbor with benefits.
Maybe he is in a similar situation like me. No sex. Or maybe he has an active and hot sex life and he and his wife
have talked about having a guy join in and he has openly talked to her about what it would feel like to have a friends
cock in his mouth, especially if his wife was watching.
I like the ladies of course and I'm not looking to hook up with a guy for the simple fact of hooking up. But I'm a regular
guy and I have sexual needs and desires and it just would be nice to have a trusted friend/neighbor in person to be
able to explore with.
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After my divorce I befriended an older gay gentleman for whom I worked (odd jobs). After six weeks he confessed his love for me. I was resistant but continued working for him before allowing myself to be open to possibilities. I trusted him completely and found his house to be a safe place to explore my own sexuality. I did not identify as gay or bi but I was lonely after all I'd lost after my marriage collapsed. Anyway I set my ego aside and let him have his way with me, basically. He was a top and I submitted. I was in a homosexual relationship for three years while not once feeling any physical attraction to him (or any male for that matter).
 
Thwiq1 said:
I’m 52 myself. That’s hot that you’ve been able to have some male encounters. I’m always submissive in my fantasies. After years of being dominant with women, I want to be on the receiving end of sex. But I don’t fantasize about quickie encounters. I think about being seduced slowly, meeting, flirting, foreplay, all of the fun leading up to sex as much as sex itself. I like the idea of having a secret boyfriend, someone I feel comfortable with. Kissing and body contact before and after sex if very much a turn on. Feel free to pm me if you’d like to talk further.
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I am an older guy who had my first male encounter many years ago as a young man. It took me by surprise and really made me aware of how much I craved a hard cock. I’ve had several males pick up on that vibe and have throughly enjoyed it over the years.
 
tristantrotsky said:
There's no 'must' involved. Sex is not a series of pigeon-holes, but a pleasing blur that smudges across a spectrum of tastes and moods that can alter and be fine-tuned by events and experience. As long as it is mutual and consensual, without pressure or coercion, the human body is a sensual delight designed for interaction. It would be a shame to restrict your scope.
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Extremely well said
 
pleasuremodeloneten said:
I’m a bi guy, just hit the big 60, and for the past seven years I have enjoyed the occasional male male liason. I find it interesting that I enjoy being the same easygoing dominant guy with men as I do with women. Some guys seem to enjoy being alpha in public and with women, but love being submissive with another guy…

All things sexual fascinate me.
When you fantasize about a gay encounter, what role are you in, or is it just hot sweaty sex with cocks and cum flying everywhere…
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I would love to meet you.
I love dominant MEN
Sometimes I will protest, but they just keep going, and I love it
 
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