So I've been with my fiance for three years now, and we've never been with anyone but each other. We're both somewhat bi-curious, and we know it. We're very monogamous when it comes to heterosexual relations, but I think we're both interested about the same sex. Any recommendations on how I should approach her about what to do? What about approaching another bi-curious couple that we're friends with? Thanks!
Bi-Curious Couple - Help!
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SweetErika
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You could always just ask her if the curiosity for one or both of you is something she's thought about exploring in real life. If she says yes, continue the dialogue over time, and see if you can agree on what you're going to do.
If she says no, you'll need to decide whether or not you want to either risk never exploring your feelings or cheating on her.
Therefore, I would suggest talking and figuring this out now, well before you get married. You don't want to feel guilty or regret not doing so, and it's best to really know yourselves and eachother as well as possible before you commit to spending the rest of your lives together.
The only advice I can offer on your bicurious friends is really think and talk about all of the possibilities, and you have to be prepared to lose the friendship before proceeding.
If she says no, you'll need to decide whether or not you want to either risk never exploring your feelings or cheating on her.
Therefore, I would suggest talking and figuring this out now, well before you get married. You don't want to feel guilty or regret not doing so, and it's best to really know yourselves and eachother as well as possible before you commit to spending the rest of your lives together.
The only advice I can offer on your bicurious friends is really think and talk about all of the possibilities, and you have to be prepared to lose the friendship before proceeding.
