Bi-curious a question or two

[VanB]

A lot of people here describe themselves as bi-curious. Does that mean that you want to try some same sex action? Does it mean that the thought intrigues you but you wouldn't go through with it? What *does* it mean to you?

Just curious

 

[Kitte]

For me I called myself Bi-curious till I first kissed another woman. At that point I realized that it wasnt curiousity, it was who I am.

 

[PepperminTrish]

A lot of people here describe themselves as bi-curious. Does that mean that you want to try some same sex action? Does it mean that the thought intrigues you but you wouldn't go through with it? What *does* it mean to you?

Just curious

For me, I dislike labels in general. I consider myself to be bisexual even though I haven't been with another woman. Some would deem that 'bi-curious' but I don't. I just haven't found the right woman.
Yet.


Trish

 

[ginslinger]

I have always been str8, but when I found the web I noticed pics of hard cocks made mine hard... Then one day a friend was over and we were surfing porn, checking out the pussy and lovin the cum shots... I'm still not sure how it happened, but we wound up with our dicks hard and out... It started with us touching each other, and befor I knew it he was sucking my cock... My friend was really good at cock sucking, and I came in his mouth in no time... He then ask me to suck his dick, so I tried it and wow... As I sucked him, my cock got hard all over again and when he blew his load on my face I came again... Sense then I have had oral with other guys (no anal yet) and my girlfriend joins in too... She loves me fucking her pussy while sucking a hard cock... I'm sure I'm not gay because I can't live without some hot wet pussy, but I think now I know who I really am...

 

[J.B.]

I'm interested in men & women. Only I'm not quite sure how far my attraction to women goes. I'm still a virgin in that aspect I guess you could say. Seeing as I've never even kissed another woman. And like kitte said I won't be sure untill I do.

 

[buttercupdh]

Bi-curious to me means I'm curious about my possible bisexuality, and would like to confirm whether or not I am, in fact, bisexual. My guess is yes, I am. But as I've never done anything with another woman, I don't know.

I appreciate both the male and female forms. They're both beautiful, in their own ways.

So, until I, too, meet the right woman, I'll remain "bi-curious." I'll let ya know when I'm not curious anymore...

 

[metal_minx]

I'm interested in men & women. Only I'm not quite sure how far my attraction to women goes. I'm still a virgin in that aspect I guess you could say. Seeing as I've never even kissed another woman. And like kitte said I won't be sure untill I do.

i feel that way too, but i think i sway towards men more than women

 

[Mistress]

Re: Re: Bi-curious a question or two

For me, I dislike labels in general. I consider myself to be bisexual even though I haven't been with another woman. Some would deem that 'bi-curious' but I don't. I just haven't found the right woman.
Yet.


Trish

DITTO.

 

[penguindance]

 

[GlitterJezebel]

I've made out with girls at parties and stuff before. At first it was just because it drove the guys crazy, and would lead to me getting a good fuck from someone that night. Now, I dunno. I kinda want to do more.

I've said before that having a 3-way with 2 guys is one of my life goals. That being said, I wouldn't hesitate to have a 3-way with another girl and one guy.

So, I dunno what I am. I wanna do more, so I guess you could call me that.

*shrug*

 

[Persephone36]

Bi-curious to me means I'm curious about my possible bisexuality, and would like to confirm whether or not I am, in fact, bisexual. My guess is yes, I am. But as I've never done anything with another woman, I don't know.

I appreciate both the male and female forms. They're both beautiful, in their own ways.

So, until I, too, meet the right woman, I'll remain "bi-curious." I'll let ya know when I'm not curious anymore...

Yep -- I'll say ditto to that.

*BUT* I agree with PepperminTrish -- that I dislike labels in general. In fact -- I've never even thought of the term "bi-curious" for myself.

For now, I call myself Straight. If I have sex with a woman as part of a three-some with a guy I'm involved with and I enjoy it -- BUT not enough to search out relationships with women -- I will still think of myself as Straight.

I guess that does mean I'm laying down a lot of definitions for myself.

Let's put it this way, if I had sex with a women, within any context and enjoyed it -- I wouldn't have a problem with being considered bisexual by others -- it's just not how *I* would think of myself. To me it's about pursuing a relationship (even one-stands or fuck buddies are relationships of sorts) with either gender that makes someone bi -- in my mind.

Does that make sense, lol?

P.

 

[hornylady]

Bi-curious to me means I'm curious about my possible bisexuality, and would like to confirm whether or not I am, in fact, bisexual. My guess is yes, I am. But as I've never done anything with another woman, I don't know.

I appreciate both the male and female forms. They're both beautiful, in their own ways.

So, until I, too, meet the right woman, I'll remain "bi-curious." I'll let ya know when I'm not curious anymore...

You said what I was struggling to put into words

 

[nasty1]

I have always been str8, but when I found the web I noticed pics of hard cocks made mine hard... Then one day a friend was over and we were surfing porn, checking out the pussy and lovin the cum shots... I'm still not sure how it happened, but we wound up with our dicks hard and out... It started with us touching each other, and befor I knew it he was sucking my cock... My friend was really good at cock sucking, and I came in his mouth in no time... He then ask me to suck his dick, so I tried it and wow... As I sucked him, my cock got hard all over again and when he blew his load on my face I came again... Sense then I have had oral with other guys (no anal yet) and my girlfriend joins in too... She loves me fucking her pussy while sucking a hard cock... I'm sure I'm not gay because I can't live without some hot wet pussy, but I think now I know who I really am...

Damn, G And, I wouldn't mind it in the ass, either.unny. Now I want your cock.

 

[nasty1]

Whoops. I meant, damn, Gunny.

 

[nasty1]

i feel that way too, but i think i sway towards men more than women

I'm the exact oppisite.

 

[glamorilla]

Re: Re: Bi-curious a question or two

For me, I dislike labels in general. I consider myself to be bisexual even though I haven't been with another woman. Some would deem that 'bi-curious' but I don't. I just haven't found the right woman.
Yet.


Trish

I like my label. I know who I am and what I like. I understand your point and what you're saying sounds wonderful and open minded and adventurous...but that's all it is untill you actually do it.

There is a mental aspect to being bi or gay so yes one can be bi or gay without ever having a same sex experience but being "bi-curious" isn't it. The mind set is pretty much cumming while your masturbating to thoughts of the same sex. Over and over again.

When you kiss a girl full hard on the lips you'll know.

 

[nasty1]

Damn, Glam. GREAT av. Now, if that was YOUR cock, in MY ass.

 

[glamorilla]

You'd feel it.

 

[nasty1]

I've heard anal sex hurts like hell, but, I still want it. Do me the favor of cumming in my ass, too. I don't really like the taste.

 

[PepperminTrish]

I like my label. I know who I am and what I like. I understand your point and what you're saying sounds wonderful and open minded and adventurous...but that's all it is untill you actually do it.

There is a mental aspect to being bi or gay so yes one can be bi or gay without ever having a same sex experience but being "bi-curious" isn't it. The mind set is pretty much cumming while your masturbating to thoughts of the same sex. Over and over again.

When you kiss a girl full hard on the lips you'll know.

You made a very valid point but I'm still not fan of labels. I find them too confining in many aspects of my life, not just in terms of my sexuality. I've seen too many people in my life 'pigeon holed' due to labels being pinned on them.

As for my mind set, my fantasies at any given time are focused on either gender. It all depends on what's going on in my life at the time.

 

[StrawberryPez]

I have to agree with what Kitte said as well. I was "curious" until I was with my frist woman. Then I knew exactly what I liked. I love both men and women. Right about now I am looking for a man though.

 

[glamorilla]

Very much a good point. It sounds natural and i do have issues with being labelled myself within my own community. A straight person stating he or she is "bi curious" sounds exotic,it's fun and it is kinky. Enjoy your sex life and spice it up...but to someone who has to defend his label it's a little more difficult being felxible. That's all.

Find a girlfriend!

 

[Ginny]

I have always been str8, but when I found the web I noticed pics of hard cocks made mine hard... Then one day a friend was over and we were surfing porn, checking out the pussy and lovin the cum shots... I'm still not sure how it happened, but we wound up with our dicks hard and out... It started with us touching each other, and befor I knew it he was sucking my cock... My friend was really good at cock sucking, and I came in his mouth in no time... He then ask me to suck his dick, so I tried it and wow... As I sucked him, my cock got hard all over again and when he blew his load on my face I came again... Sense then I have had oral with other guys (no anal yet) and my girlfriend joins in too... She loves me fucking her pussy while sucking a hard cock... I'm sure I'm not gay because I can't live without some hot wet pussy, but I think now I know who I really am...

oh....well i sure enjoyed this lil tidbit of information.....yummy......

 

[penguindance]

 

[PepperminTrish]

Very much a good point. It sounds natural and i do have issues with being labelled myself within my own community. A straight person stating he or she is "bi curious" sounds exotic,it's fun and it is kinky. Enjoy your sex life and spice it up...but to someone who has to defend his label it's a little more difficult being felxible. That's all.

Find a girlfriend!

I am sorry, I never looked at it from the perspective of having to defend a label. That never crossed my mind and I meant no offense.

I'd happily find a girlfriend but my husband would want me to share her and that just isn't going to happen.