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jerrammed

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my wife wants to try to give me a prostate orgasm. She has a strapon already and everything. i'm a little nervous.
 
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Could I suggest reading MILKING A MAN'S COCK thread first. If you're looking for a prostate O you'' need to "learn" the feeling first. The MILKING thread gives good instructions and guidance and common sense for doing this.

Getting fucked in the ass by your wife is probably NOT the way to get into this the first time. IMHO.
 
i think g3 is dead-on there, esp if anal play isn't something you've done much before.

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Why are you nervous? I obviously don't have a prostate, but I understand that prostate stimulation can cause some really intense orgasms. And *psst* liking anal stimulation doesn't mean you're gay, or even bi. It just means that you like having your ass played with.

Perhaps your wife should start with well-lubed fingers and work her way up to the strap-on over a series of sessions. I would have probably been a little nervous if my husband had just tried to plunge his dick into my ass when it had never had so much as a finger inside it.

For what it's worth, consider yourself lucky that you have a wife who's open to trying something like this. Some men on here would give their left nut (well, maybe their right arm :p ) for such adventurousness.

And, welcome to Lit. :)
 
She has had a finger or two up there already that felt ok just nervous about
the strapon.
 
If you don't want, tell her! If you're not completelycomfortable with it, it will be quite probably quite painful and no fun for no-one.
 
She could use a smaller vibrator or dildo on you after the fingers as a sort of progression to the large cock. Anyway, lots of lube, and go slow.
 
lube it and you should be fine. But if it hurts in a bad way, you might want to stop before you do some damage.
 
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