Bend Over, Bitch!

[sincerely_helene]

Ah, yes, I see. Fascinating stuff....

*cough*

Yes. Yes you certainly are.

Hairball?

 

[Aithne123]

Personally, I may be submissive in the bedroom, but in real life I am anything but submissive. I don't back down when it comes to conflict, and sometimes even almost seek out confrontation. When most of my friends would let something drop and just walk away, I'm the one who would step up and get into a screaming match in a store. I've found that intimidation normally works to get you what you want (I've always been spoiled).
Aithne

 

[chris9]

Usually I try to solve everything with a smile and being polite, especially in shops and such, because it's not the clerks' fault they have to do something a certain way, and especially towards the end of a day I can understand when they are tired and want to go home.
And I tend to choose the person most likely to let me have what I want. Like on airports, when my luggage is overweight (like always) I try to find a male to weigh it, smile, and usually I can take my overweight luggage without paying extra. Might work the same with the females, but it just seems safer Especially in Italy

When I do get mad I usually just let it go. I really don't like conflict, so I vent my anger on family/boyfriend, but don't do anything about it. That's something I really have to learn. I get too emotional too fast. Now if those people I get mad at would just listen to me, so I can give them all my arguments for my point they would of course see that I'm right. But they don't listen and don't have any valid arguments for their point.

 

[brioche]

I'm not submissive in day to day life. I've been burned badly in life a few times because I wasn't assertive enough or didn't advocate for myself.

I slowly learned through school and university that, as one of many with a psychiatric illness, if I don't advocate for myself I can end up in baaaaaaaaaad situations.

So, despite the fact that I hate that sort of conflict I've learned to deal with it.

Oh, and of course I'm a bitch too...

But not to service people or my co-workers or anything like that. I worked as a clerk/cashier in a variety of jobs for 10 years and I know the crap they have to take, so I'm nice to them.
Unless they give ME attitude...but then, last time that happened I gave her a great grin and said in a very overly sweet voice, "Gosh, thatk you for your kind and courteous service!"
She got the point.

 

[graceanne]

I've worked as a cashier, etc, before and unless it's rudeness I generally let it go. It's not their faults if the lines are long or their computer isn't working, and being unpleasant won't fix any of those things. All it will do is make everyone miserable. Frankly, even with slowness - for all I know they're new. Or they've been on their feet for three days or something.

And if said cashier is being rude I go somewhere else. *shrugs* If they're bad enough I let the manager/owner know on the way out why I'm going somewhere else. I figure that if they can be rude they don't need my business that bad. Same with a lot of other things. Their's a kid at my church who was trying to sell tickets to something or the other, and he had to sell at least 10. I have no idea what he was trying to sell cause this is how our conversation went.

me: What are you selling?

him: tickets

me: tickets to what?

him:a concert.

me:what kind of concert?

him:music

I quit at this point. I'm not gonna waste my money on someone who won't even talk to me.

 

[Marquis]

Not a sub, but now that I actually understand what the topic is about, I'd like to give my answer.

I absolutely thrive on conflict.

 

[BeachGurl2]

I absolutely thrive on conflict.

Who would have ever guessed.

 

[Marquis]

Who would have ever guessed.

It gets me in trouble, but it keeps shit moving.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

It gets me in trouble, but it keeps shit moving.

You'd have less trouble with Ex-Lax.

 

[BeachGurl2]

You'd have less trouble with Ex-Lax.

Now there's a visual I didn't really need.

 

[DVS]

You'd have less trouble with Ex-Lax.

DAMN, you beat me to it! It was the perfect setup line. I wonder if Marquis Knew he was a straight man.

OK, don't say it. For those of you with a sense of humor that doesn't quit...I didn't mean hetrosexual man... Although I know he is. Well, I assume he is. You are hetro. Right, Marquis?

Damn, had to edit to correctly change it to he. It didn't make sense, and he does.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

I am Aries. I meet conflict head on when not creating a little myself.

Oh and I know you've got a cure for that.

 

[Marquis]

DAMN, you beat me to it! It was the perfect setup line. I wonder if Marquis Knew it was a straight man.

OK, don't say it. For those of you with a sense of humor that doesn't quit...I didn't mean hetrosexual man... Although I know he is. Well, I assume he is. You are hetro. Right, Marquis?

Ummmm.... I don't know, I've never actually found myself turned on by a guy, but I've been listening to the latest Depeche Mode and Madonna albums a lot recently, and I'm considering going to see Bareback Mountain.

 

[DVS]

Ummmm.... I don't know, I've never actually found myself turned on by a guy, but I've been listening to the latest Depeche Mode and Madonna albums a lot recently, and I'm considering going to see Bareback Mountain.

You best watch it, bro. We might be calling you Marquis de sub, in the near future.

I hear the movie is good, though. Although the name seems a bit strange. Are you sure that's correct? Never heard of Depeche Mode, but, I don't mind watching Madonna. I've enjoyed watching her on the tube, and that requires also listening to her sing. I can stomach that. I'd do 'er ass.

I know you are just funnin', but none of this makes you gay. It just means you are opening your mind to the finer things in life. Only shallow minds will see it as gay. You're much more worldly than that...right?

Hey? In that AV...are those all different girls? It looks like some are the same, in different poses. Just curious. You're not photoshoping on us, are you?

 

[Marquis]

You best watch it, bro. We might be calling you Marquis de sub, in the near future.

I hear the movie is good, though. Although the name seems a bit strange. Are you sure that's correct? Never heard of Depeche Mode, but, I don't mind watching Madonna. I've enjoyed watching her on the tube, and that requires also listening to her sing. I can stomach that. I'd do 'er ass.

I know you are just funnin', but none of this makes you gay. It just means you are opening your mind to the finer things in life. Only shallow minds will see it as gay. You're much more worldly than that...right?

Hey? In that AV...are those all different girls? It looks like some are the same, in different poses. Just curious. You're not photoshoping on us, are you?

Does this help?

http://pic18.picturetrail.com/VOL877/2803812/5632597/121993175.jpg

 

[graceanne]

Does this help?

http://pic18.picturetrail.com/VOL877/2803812/5632597/121993175.jpg

Show off.

 

[Marquis]

That would be a tough photoshop.

 

[DVS]

Does this help?

http://pic18.picturetrail.com/VOL877/2803812/5632597/121993175.jpg

Well, yes and no. Yes, because this picture is larger and you can tell it' s not photoshoped. But, it's a different picture and maybe even different girls. That doesn't matter, though, because there seems to be even more in this pic than in the AV.

Now, what's written on the girls shirts seems to make me think they are kind of Domme. I'm sure this is a staged shot and after the picture was taken, they all took their shirts off got down on their knees. And that pretty gal between your legs turned around and unzipped your pants. OK, if that isn't what happened, don't spoil it for me.

 

[Marquis]

Well, yes and no. Yes, because this picture is larger and you can tell it' s not photoshoped. But, it's a different picture and maybe even different girls. That doesn't mater, though, because there seems to be even more in this pic than in the AV.

The girls are all wearing the same shirts, it shouldn't be hard to spot who is who in my av. The only additional girl is the busty blonde over my left shoulder.

Now, what's written on the girls shirts seems makes me think they are kind of Domme. I'm sure this is a staged shot and after the picture was taken, they all took their shirts off got down on their knees. And that pretty gal between your legs turned around and unzipped your pants. OK, if that isn't what happened, don't spoil it for me.

From the girl on the left in the white tank, going clockwise: Domme (I think), sub (I know), sub, switch (mostly sub), DOMME, Domme (I think).

It seems the modeling industry is rather top-heavy, so to speak.

 

[DVS]

The girls are all wearing the same shirts, it shouldn't be hard to spot who is who in my av. The only additional girl is the busty blonde over my left shoulder.



From the girl on the left in the white tank, going clockwise: Domme (I think), sub (I know), sub, switch (mostly sub), DOMME, Domme (I think).

It seems the modeling industry is rather top-heavy, so to speak.

You weren't suppose to spoil it for me.

 

[brioche]

Does this help?

http://pic18.picturetrail.com/VOL877/2803812/5632597/121993175.jpg

8 1/2 inches, huh?
I find that hard to swallow

 

[Red Sonja]

I am Aries. I meet conflict head on when not creating a little myself.

Oh and I know you've got a cure for that.

Hey... I'm an Aries too. Add Irish and redhead, and you've got a combination that does not shrink from conflict... I embrace it. However, when it comes to my hubby, I defer.

 

[Marquis]

You weren't suppose to spoil it for me.

Would it help if i told you there was only one dressing room?

 

[Marquis]

8 1/2 inches, huh?
I find that hard to swallow

Just a T-shirt I'm afraid.

 

[graceanne]

That would be a tough photoshop.

I didn't say you made it up. I said you were a show off. Big difference.