Being Dominant

[box13]

Aww...kinda sad you didn't try, but of course you don't have to if you don't want to. It is a little difficult to get excited about something you're not excited about. Well don't let it set you back as a disappointment or anything; they'll probably be a next time, and you may feel different about it then. There really isn't any right or wrong way...just what you might enjoy...and that reach for control sometimes does seem a little...selfish.

And of course new boots wouldn't hurt.

 

[griffingirl]

This situation (potential situation) was not safe.
A man I don't know contacted me. And wanted to groom me for this role.
And I was intrigued initially.
Ironically when you really think about it though it is the same old song.
A man wanting a woman tailor made to his fantasy.

I don't get why he didn't just go to a professional dominatrix.

Atleast I know a little more about the topic.

I think that whole domme/ sub thing is potentially very dangerous.

In this particular case I think this man said he wanted a dominatrix
but that wasn't the real story.

I think he is a predator. You know make a woman think
They will be in control.
Total set up .
No thank you.

It reminds me that sex is one aspect of relationship.
Exploration should happen with in the safety of a good relationship.
Otherwise it is just exploitation and abuse.
Again no good.

In the safety of an authentic relationship I can see
It could be fun.
Gg

 

[NeverWinterNite]

This situation (potential situation) was not safe.
A man I don't know contacted me. And wanted to groom me for this role.
And I was intrigued initially.
Ironically when you really think about it though it is the same old song.
A man wanting a woman tailor made to his fantasy.

I don't get why he didn't just go to a professional dominatrix.

Atleast I know a little more about the topic.

I think that whole domme/ sub thing is potentially very dangerous.

In this particular case I think this man said he wanted a dominatrix
but that wasn't the real story.

I think he is a predator. You know make a woman think
They will be in control.
Total set up .
No thank you.

It reminds me that sex is one aspect of relationship.
Exploration should happen with in the safety of a good relationship.
Otherwise it is just exploitation and abuse.
Again no good.

In the safety of an authentic relationship I can see
It could be fun.
Gg

Well, in that case, it sounds like you made the right decision.

 

[dumbeg4]

You flip me into darkness.Your silk scarves lash my wrists to the bed knobs. I wait for the sting of the whip's kiss as you paint lines across my cheeks. A finger slides in the smoking coals of my ass crack.A hand stamps its outline.
You light a candle and I wait for the sudden heat splash.I'm growing big,groaning large.
I hear the rasp of velcro as you strap on your symbol of power and try to open myself to your invasion.My fingers grip the duvet as you drive in,ramming me to the bed.I'm a flower uncurling.
You spin me over and my tongue slips into the wet folds of your cunt,giving thanks.

Are you there ,my spinning top?

 

[Emerson40]

You flip me into darkness.Your silk scarves lash my wrists to the bed knobs. I wait for the sting of the whip's kiss as you paint lines across my cheeks. A finger slides in the smoking coals of my ass crack.A hand stamps its outline.
You light a candle and I wait for the sudden heat splash.I'm growing big,groaning large.
I hear the rasp of velcro as you strap on your symbol of power and try to open myself to your invasion.My fingers grip the duvet as you drive in,ramming me to the bed.I'm a flower uncurling.
You spin me over and my tongue slips into the wet folds of your cunt,giving thanks.

Are you there ,my spinning top?

She's not spinning.

She's jumping around holding her foot, smarting from stepping on the Space Bar laying on the floor.

They're like stepping on LEGO blocks, those Space Bars.

 

[Felix_Jones]

I never really thought about the whole dominant / submissive thing.
Honestly in the extreme it is a real turn off for me .
A little power play I find very intriguing.
I think I am somewhat more submissive in bed.
So my question is how to be dominant?


Gg

BDSM is for bored professionals with a fascism fetish. Their secret longing for a ruthless autocrat manifests itself in aberrant sex acts. Fuckin' weird.