Since the Literotica BDSM board is becoming my mentor.... 
My girlfriend and I are both highly interested in D/s, both in bed and out. We are also, due to constraints at the moment, long distance for now, though that is likely to change soon.
Neither of us have done much before with D/s, though we've both been reading up and such. We are, to make a long story short, reaching a point where we can start figuring out what we like and don't like, which leaves me as the Dominant one with a bit of a quandary.
Long distance makes certain things challenging where they wouldn't be when we are close together, and to be perfectly honest, i'm not too sure where would be a good place to start. In the bedroom, we've got a lot of things covered...bondage, and so on...we've even done a little bit of orgasm control late at night when we're both alone with each other.
Out of the bedroom is where it gets challenging. I've considered and am pondering talking to her about something which i've seen come up quite a bit in guides and such, which is having her make a picture each morning and sending it to me, on her knees or something similar, and I can get the idea behind it. Before I do that however...i'm wondering what the fine folks here at Lit might be able to suggest as a first step into out-of-bedroom dominance?
On a similar note....she's a bit of a brat. And while when she needs it i'd more than willingly bend her over my knee...not as effective from half a country away. Are there any...how to put this...what kind of punishments might one suggest that the sub could carry out on her own? Searching guides and the like hasn't yielded a whole lot of results for this.
My girlfriend and I are both highly interested in D/s, both in bed and out. We are also, due to constraints at the moment, long distance for now, though that is likely to change soon.
Neither of us have done much before with D/s, though we've both been reading up and such. We are, to make a long story short, reaching a point where we can start figuring out what we like and don't like, which leaves me as the Dominant one with a bit of a quandary.
Long distance makes certain things challenging where they wouldn't be when we are close together, and to be perfectly honest, i'm not too sure where would be a good place to start. In the bedroom, we've got a lot of things covered...bondage, and so on...we've even done a little bit of orgasm control late at night when we're both alone with each other.
Out of the bedroom is where it gets challenging. I've considered and am pondering talking to her about something which i've seen come up quite a bit in guides and such, which is having her make a picture each morning and sending it to me, on her knees or something similar, and I can get the idea behind it. Before I do that however...i'm wondering what the fine folks here at Lit might be able to suggest as a first step into out-of-bedroom dominance?
On a similar note....she's a bit of a brat. And while when she needs it i'd more than willingly bend her over my knee...not as effective from half a country away. Are there any...how to put this...what kind of punishments might one suggest that the sub could carry out on her own? Searching guides and the like hasn't yielded a whole lot of results for this.
