BE A MALE DOM

[ericred50]

I have meet a female on the internet, we get on well togeather, and she has expressed a desire to be dominated, by me. I have "read up" on the subject, and find that the prospect does interest me, it makes me sexual aroused and more aware of myself. I like being in control, the prospect of arousing sexual pleasure, though awareness, sensaton and control does excite me. Can any body offer advise on how I can help my lady friend through cybering.
I can see that I need to find a way of checking her responces so that she can not cheat. We do plan to meet at some stage of our realationship but this will not be for some time. I understand thatI have to be persistant, plan, thoughtful and pay attention to detail. I am looking forward to the challenge.

 

[Guest]

Can any body offer advise on how I can help my lady friend through cybering.
I can see that I need to find a way of checking her responces so that she can not cheat.

Unless she has a digital/web cam, you're basically going to have to rely on trust as to whether or not she complies to your demands. It is something that the two of you will have to "grow into" together.

 

[MysteryJKR]

I have meet a female on the internet, we get on well togeather, and she has expressed a desire to be dominated, by me. I have "read up" on the subject, and find that the prospect does interest me, it makes me sexual aroused and more aware of myself. I like being in control, the prospect of arousing sexual pleasure, though awareness, sensaton and control does excite me. Can any body offer advise on how I can help my lady friend through cybering.
I can see that I need to find a way of checking her responces so that she can not cheat. We do plan to meet at some stage of our realationship but this will not be for some time. I understand thatI have to be persistant, plan, thoughtful and pay attention to detail. I am looking forward to the challenge.

dang that exact thing happened to me, but I am like the most polite person in the dang world and wayy to nice, so all that D/s stuff was like eek to me. I gave it a shot, read up a ton on it. and We have had a few cybering encounters and I did use a little bit of my knowledge in the dept. to make it great. She really enjoyed it and yea I got no proof but I know for a fact she did each time. We both did. D/s doesnt have to mean ya have to be strong and take charge and if your pet makes a mistake you punish them and all of that. well I hope you understand what im saying cuz i know that sounded like im wrong but I am sweet, she says this, I can be my loving gentle self but still take charge and be a good Dominant. As for checkin responces yea, trust your instincts, see what she says to you after you say something you will know if she is enjoying herself or not. and even more so if she takes a while to responde. or maybe thats just for me.

 

[ericred50]

MALE DOM

Thank you Mystery JKR, you have confirmed, more or less what I was thinking. Since writting the post,(I would have written the post differently, on the strength of what I have already learned. I would delete the first sentence saying "I have embarked on a relationship, through cybering, with a female, she asks me to be her master" This is not true, we have not embarked, we are having discusions and exchanging thoughts. I will have to wait until she asks me, and then we must discuss and negotiate, and at that stage I will have to decide if I can carry on with the relationship. If it is not with this person, the idea still interests me.
I have thought of several ways of checking, and control while cybering. I have to now be careful in what I say because, I will send her copies of replies. Any further advice would be welcome. ERIC RED