BDSM dreams

[Ms_Lilith]

Do you ever have them? I never had a dream about BDSM related stuff until last night. It was so strange:

In the dream, my bf's family was having some financial difficulties, and they had taken out a loan from an unscrupulous loan shark. They needed to pay back their debts, but they couldn't, and so he told them that there were 'other' ways to pay that debt. He wanted me to be his Domme until they had paid off their debt. (basically, I was prostituting as a Domme until the debt was knocked off).

I felt really bad about it, but I did it for my (future) in laws. And During the dream, I actually enjoyed it, but woke up feeling so funny about it.

Ever had something like that?

 

[Ebonyfire]

Do you ever have them? I never had a dream about BDSM related stuff until last night. It was so strange:

In the dream, my bf's family was having some financial difficulties, and they had taken out a loan from an unscrupulous loan shark. They needed to pay back their debts, but they couldn't, and so he told them that there were 'other' ways to pay that debt. He wanted me to be his Domme until they had paid off their debt. (basically, I was prostituting as a Domme until the debt was knocked off).

I felt really bad about it, but I did it for my (future) in laws. And During the dream, I actually enjoyed it, but woke up feeling so funny about it.

Ever had something like that?

Whoa that was interesting. I do not remember my dreams anymore.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

it was interesting.

It was a real SCENE, y'know.. not organic, as if it had grown into something itself. I was wearing black leather, and he wanted to be whipped.. it was really hardcore stuff.

Kinda shook me a bit.

 

[Ebonyfire]

it was interesting.

It was a real SCENE, y'know.. not organic, as if it had grown into something itself. I was wearing black leather, and he wanted to be whipped.. it was really hardcore stuff.

Kinda shook me a bit.

Unexpressed desires, you think? Or just good old fashioned fantasy?

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Someone I trust deeply suggested that it was my subconscious acting out my assertiveness in a sexual manner. Lately, I've had to take a lot of control with my life, because my parents are splitting, and I'm making schooling decisions and career choices and such... and this friend thinks that my subconscious translated it into a sexual scene, but it's not really a sexual thing at all.

The other theory I have is that, recently I played with a woman online, and I came out as the dominant one in the scenario.. not a Domme, just the one who took control of the scene, the one who teased and dictated action... and I think maybe my mind was mulling over that some.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Someone I trust deeply suggested that it was my subconscious acting out my assertiveness in a sexual manner. Lately, I've had to take a lot of control with my life, because my parents are splitting, and I'm making schooling decisions and career choices and such... and this friend thinks that my subconscious translated it into a sexual scene, but it's not really a sexual thing at all.

The other theory I have is that, recently I played with a woman online, and I came out as the dominant one in the scenario.. not a Domme, just the one who took control of the scene, the one who teased and dictated action... and I think maybe my mind was mulling over that some.

That does make a lot of sense.

 

[Tazz]

Maybe it's a subconsious need to explore your dominant side, as if to confirm your sub side, or maybe you're more switch than sub

 

[James G 5]

I've had BDSM dreams Vix, but you were usually the one who was tied up & being whipped

 

[bunny bondage]

actually, i've had lots, and i had one just last week. it was really pretty neat! He was taking me off to some secluded cabin in the woods, and was giving me a list of all the things i was supposed to bring. the whole dream was basically the voyage from home to the cabin (because i have eight o'clock classes every day and my alarm tends to cut dreams short) so i have to wonder what would have happened if the dream had continued. it was lots of fun preparing for the trip and wondering what He would do to me when we got there. ok, so it's pretty bland with no juicy bits, but hey, it counts!

 

[calypso_21]

I have them quite often. I've even posted them on the GB somewhere before. I quite enjoy these dreams. I read a book that helped me to remember them. I often have quite a few in a night. I know I should be writing them down more...wow I'd probably have a novel right now. A rather kinky one.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

I dreamed about handcuffs last night.. metal ones. *Shrugs* I have zero idea why. probably cause of what happened at xmas I was laughing about it last night before going to sleep. maybe thats why.

 

[methpez]

I had my girlfriend blindfolded and tied down on her stomac as I vicously fucked her with a bottle and spanked her. I would go into more detial but Im trying not to get horney...

 

[WynEternal]

You guys are lucky you can get kinky dreams. Either I don't have any or they are so fleeting, I don't remember them.

 

[crazybbwgirl]

youre such a little dreamer

I have a recurring dream of being raped at night while I'm sleeping. Some big mean guy (never see his face) creeps into the house, holds me down, ties me up, has his way with me - God I LOVE that dream!!! (but how on earth to make it come true????)

 

[pet petra]

I had a dream several years ago that Trent Reznor (Of Nine Ince Nails) had his way with me with ropes and clamps and stuff... I love that dream!!! I only had it once so long ago... <sigh> Petra

 

[Pixie Mischief]

crazybbwgirl: sounds more like a nightmare to me LOL but to each his own I suppose..

I was almost raped.. real enough to me!

you know sucks I rarely remember my dreams.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I was almost raped.. real enough to me!

methpez's dream is pretty much the play-by-play of my second rape. Hence my silence before now. I just.. it's too close.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

Yeah and funny thing is the guy wasnt trying to rape me I dont know what he was trying to do.. but I had no intention of loosing my virginity this way LOL
He seemed to think I wanted him to be forceful.. Now I dont mind this with BF but to a point!
This is different. "I dont want to" I keept saying when I finally felt the head of his cock painfully (I'm 4 foot tall and he wasnt tiny and no KY and was a virgin) push inside me I tell you I went NO!!!!!! on a good note Ilearned to say NO and STOP. he was annyoed with me.. see if I care lol I confronted him only this year. he doesnt even remember or know that his head was inside me!! he has slight brain damage but god... the guy was really gross... just.. ACK.. yeah way too close.. I like a man who can be forceful. But not rape. and it must be someone I Trust to. I believe almost everything happens for a reason.. I know I learned from the experience.

 

[bunny bondage]

further proof that real rape is VERY far from the nonconsent fantasies we harbor.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

Some things are better left as a fantasy. There fun to think about but actually do????? somethings arent ment to do.. It ruins the fantasy. I for sure dont fantasies about anal sex anymore.