BBW over average/slim?

[WendieBBW]

Not sure if I am in the correct section or not but I have a question that always nags at me. Are there men that are truly more attracted to bigger women?? It sounds silly to ask and I have had boyfriends and partners that swear that they are but it still nags at me that maybe they just like me because they see me as easier to try and pick up or that my standards must be lower. I want to believe that its my lack of confidence that is the culprit of all this. I have some friends that are bigger like me and its hard to talk to them about how I feel because they are much more confident so hopefully im not offending anyone by posting this but I just want an honest opinion if some men totally prefer curvy fun

 

[mighty_hung]

in my opinion curvy women are awesome!

 

[rebel3987]

Absolutely. Curvy women are amazing.

 

[Lookinguphill]

I definitely think curvy women are sexy.

I do hope you do find someone that you can talk to in depth about how you feel and what you feel. No matter if your curvy or small, everyone is different and may not boast such confidence as your friends do. But you should be able to share your thoughts and have an open dialogue with someone about what you are feeling and thinking. If you ever want to go more into detail just let me know.

 

[WendieBBW]

I definitely think curvy women are sexy.

I do hope you do find someone that you can talk to in depth about how you feel and what you feel. No matter if your curvy or small, everyone is different and may not boast such confidence as your friends do. But you should be able to share your thoughts and have an open dialogue with someone about what you are feeling and thinking. If you ever want to go more into detail just let me know.

Totally overwhelmed! Did not expect such amazing responses so fast Brightens my outlook on myself

 

[fletchx]

Have no fear, Wendie. You'll find plenty who like you just the way you are!

 

[WendieBBW]

Have no fear, Wendie. You'll find plenty who like you just the way you are!

Encouraging words

 

[jmarx20102012]

+1 what above posters said. Not to mention BBWs are better lovers.

 

[WendieBBW]

+1 what above posters said. Not to mention BBWs are better lovers.

I hope so

 

[Lookinguphill]

Totally overwhelmed! Did not expect such amazing responses so fast Brightens my outlook on myself

Surely a good thing. Glad this is brightening your outlook on yourself. Hold your head high and be proud of who you are!

 

[jmarx20102012]

I hope so

Just my opinion. Have never been proven wrong so far.

 

[Othermoose]

I love big girls. They're warm, cuddly, and super sexy. I'm sure you're an extremely beautiful girl and any guy would be lucky to have you. And I hope myself and all the other people posting on this thread have given you a confidence boost. Big girls are sexy, so never feel bad or doubt yourself.

 

[m666red]

Yes bigger women are more sexy to me. Hope you find someone to love you for who you are.
Hope you find your confidence soon so you can enjoy your life and feel sexy.

 

[braingasmss]

I'm very into big girls! Umm I feel shy discussing it so broadly but i think bigger girls are very sexy not just the ones that have a few extra pounds for curves.

 

[dommasterjim]

Wendy... Its Absolutely true...!!

REAL men LOVE a Curvy woman..!!!!

Be PROUD of your body and what it can do to Men who are ALIVE..!!

 

[Cicca_Jai]

Not sure if I am in the correct section or not but I have a question that always nags at me. Are there men that are truly more attracted to bigger women?? It sounds silly to ask and I have had boyfriends and partners that swear that they are but it still nags at me that maybe they just like me because they see me as easier to try and pick up or that my standards must be lower. I want to believe that its my lack of confidence that is the culprit of all this. I have some friends that are bigger like me and its hard to talk to them about how I feel because they are much more confident so hopefully im not offending anyone by posting this but I just want an honest opinion if some men totally prefer curvy fun

Girl, First off, forgive me if this is not the most intelligent sounding of posts...
Promise you I'm not stupid. Got a few things working against me tonight so just hang with me a moment.

If you dig through my past posts you will see I asked this very question a few years ago!

First, I TOTALLY understand how you feel. I used to be one of them there twiggy chicks. Now, not so much. Actually, not at all. It took me a LONG time to get a bit more comfy with myself again.
Still a bit of work to do in fact but, that is neither here nor there. I'm rambling...


Ok focusing on your question- Yes. There are extremely nice guys who prefer a few curves to skin and bones.
So while I absolutely understand where you are at, and it will take some time to get yourself there, the best advice I can give you is to get out there and just fracking OWN IT!

Confidence is sexy, period.

Now yes, there are some dudes out there that assume we have a total lack of control and self-esteem. And they will try to use that to their advantage.
Tell them to bugger off The good guys will find you once you have finished finding yourself. I promise you this.
If you are in my area we can totes hang out
Otherwise my inbox is always open, please do not hesitate.
All the best
~C~

 

[Cicca_Jai]

Random rant

This is random and mostly off topic but, it occurs to me that it would help every last BBW if there were cloths that fit us properly that did not make us look like we have escaped from the f'ing zoo! It's always either Zoo print, or the cloths look like they were used by Mimi to remove her make-up.
I'm sorry who the hell wants to run around looking like they facefu*ked bozo the freaking clown?

The only other option is baggy, fugly "earth tones" Where we blend into the GD wall...
That sh*t just ain't right.

I think we all need to rise up and demand better!
Or band together and start our own clothing line. No more of this "husky gal" crap!
Who's with me? Let's start a revolution!

 

[ArthurW]

Lady you are You. If the dumb guys only want you cause they think your easy that's not true or right. Your size is not what makes you sexy its what is inside you. Never forget that. Never down yourself.

 

[stellarmuse]

I totally echo Cicca Jai's thoughts in that self confidence is key. Makes it a lot easier to spot the guys who truly like you versus those that think a woman being fat makes her "easy".

 

[kdb]

Not sure if I am in the correct section or not but I have a question that always nags at me. Are there men that are truly more attracted to bigger women?? It sounds silly to ask and I have had boyfriends and partners that swear that they are but it still nags at me that maybe they just like me because they see me as easier to try and pick up or that my standards must be lower. I want to believe that its my lack of confidence that is the culprit of all this. I have some friends that are bigger like me and its hard to talk to them about how I feel because they are much more confident so hopefully im not offending anyone by posting this but I just want an honest opinion if some men totally prefer curvy fun

Curvy women are sexy.

 

[sexlover66]

Well...i think bigger women are just better lovers....its much easier to enjoy a woman who you are not afraidyou are goingto hurt them if the sex gets a lil wilder...dont get me wrong...its not aleays about thesex...but since this is a sex site...gonna tell it as i see it

 

[dommasterjim]

Wendie... Just like Cars... it takes a REAL man to handle the curves..!!!

And.. there is Always MORE to Luv with a plus sized gal..!! I enjoy the feel of a real body in my hands.. not some bag of bones....

Just Be YOU... and Smile always... Knowing how Sexy You are.!!!

 

[eric60red]

Not sure if I am in the correct section or not but I have a question that always nags at me. Are there men that are truly more attracted to bigger women?? It sounds silly to ask and I have had boyfriends and partners that swear that they are but it still nags at me that maybe they just like me because they see me as easier to try and pick up or that my standards must be lower. I want to believe that its my lack of confidence that is the culprit of all this. I have some friends that are bigger like me and its hard to talk to them about how I feel because they are much more confident so hopefully im not offending anyone by posting this but I just want an honest opinion if some men totally prefer curvy fun

There is to me something about a Big Beautiful Woman, that excites me and makes me want to please her in ever way possible. They are so sexy xxx

 

[Titts4Tatts]

Girl, First off, forgive me if this is not the most intelligent sounding of posts...
Promise you I'm not stupid. Got a few things working against me tonight so just hang with me a moment.

If you dig through my past posts you will see I asked this very question a few years ago!

First, I TOTALLY understand how you feel. I used to be one of them there twiggy chicks. Now, not so much. Actually, not at all. It took me a LONG time to get a bit more comfy with myself again.
Still a bit of work to do in fact but, that is neither here nor there. I'm rambling...


Ok focusing on your question- Yes. There are extremely nice guys who prefer a few curves to skin and bones.
So while I absolutely understand where you are at, and it will take some time to get yourself there, the best advice I can give you is to get out there and just fracking OWN IT!

Confidence is sexy, period.

Now yes, there are some dudes out there that assume we have a total lack of control and self-esteem. And they will try to use that to their advantage.
Tell them to bugger off The good guys will find you once you have finished finding yourself. I promise you this.
If you are in my area we can totes hang out
Otherwise my inbox is always open, please do not hesitate.
All the best
~C~

YES to everything she said. Nothing wrong with a more curvy road. It took me years to get comfy in my own skin and clothing size. And I hate that ! I wasted so much time worrying about being a size 14 and not an 8. Had I had this confidence at 20 I would have been a whore . I look in my mirror now and I see a butt and boobs and a waistline. I search for attractive clothing. No old Grandma clothing even though I am a grandma. I LOVE dressing pretty and showing off my curves. Cleavage and curves rock. Don't waist another minute worrying about not being a stick woman. You are beautiful so smile and shine so the whole world can see.....this from one curvy lady to another !

 

[dand8619]

Curvy ladies are more fun in so many ways!