Bar pick-ups?

[Psychotheatrics]

Well, after my experiences this past weekend, a question has arisen in my mind, and I thought it might spark some nice discussion, maybe. I live in a college town and the bars are usually full of college students showing lots of skin and getting totally f'd up. Many, many sorostitutes and morons alike. Now my genius friends take it on as their personal responsibility to pursue any woman who smiles in any of our directions. I don't really see the point of picking up people in bars. I go to the bars to hang out and have a good time, not to meet my future girl-friend. Is there a good possibility of gaining something more meaningful than a one-night stand from a bar pick-up or am I just being overly cynical?

 

[Jenny _S]

Well, after my experiences this past weekend, a question has arisen in my mind, and I thought it might spark some nice discussion, maybe. I live in a college town and the bars are usually full of college students showing lots of skin and getting totally f'd up. Many, many sorostitutes and morons alike. Now my genius friends take it on as their personal responsibility to pursue any woman who smiles in any of our directions. I don't really see the point of picking up people in bars. I go to the bars to hang out and have a good time, not to meet my future girl-friend. Is there a good possibility of gaining something more meaningful than a one-night stand from a bar pick-up or am I just being overly cynical?

Having been known to frequent a local tavern on occasion let me answer you this way:

You will find in a bar what you go looking for in a bar. If you are looking for a one-night stand you'll find it. If you are looking for a long term relationship you will find that too.

The college kids hanging in the local bar are the same kids you see walking around campus. They run the full gambit just like everywhere else.

What you won't find in a bar is a long term one-night-stand. In my experience, it doesn't work that way.

 

[Native Alien]

One night stands only in my experience.

 

[entitled]

i met my Husband while working at a bar. Does that count?

 

[shescurious]

Typically my experience is both men and women who are in a bar, if they are looking for anything, are looking for a one night stand.

I certainly don't think I will find mister right in a bar. I could be totally off base too though. *shrugs*

 

[Carnus]

For me, I am worth much more than a drunken woman's attention. That is not to say I don't like to go dancing and drinking, but I don't ever pick up women from bars to bring home. If they seem like someone I might be interested in I get a phone number or give mine. I think more highly of myself than that. I don't think a woman should have to be drunk to go to bed with me the first time.

And with all that said, next time you think about picking up a total stranger while you and her and both somewhat drunk for the purpose of having sex with her. Ask yourself a question.

Is this piece of ass good enough to die for?

Carnus

 

[Psychotheatrics]

damn

yeah, now that is some good advice to think on. now i just have to see about getting my idiot friends to lay off. never know the full consequences of something like a total stranger.

 

[SexyChele]

For me, I am worth much more than a drunken woman's attention.

Wow, I really like this statement! Sums up so much. (Well, except in my position, it would read a drunken man's attention. Mind if I borrow this sometime?



As for bar pickups, I thought I had found a long term relationship when I was 21. Turned out I found an alcoholic. No, I do not think, generally, you can find a long term relationship in a bar. Now, having said that, it would matter what kind/type of bar it was. There are bars that are more like nice clubs with a clientele that does not act like a bunch of drunken hormones.

And no, entitled, if you work in a bar, I don't think that is the same thing. Most people who work in bars know the assholes by sight and can steer clear of them. Just my opinion, though.

 

[lorddragonwolf]

MOST ARE LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND. I HEAR BARTENDERS GET ALOT OF WOMEN. I THINK I NEED TO CHANGE JOBS.

 

[jeepman6]

For me, I am worth much more than a drunken woman's attention. That is not to say I don't like to go dancing and drinking, but I don't ever pick up women from bars to bring home. If they seem like someone I might be interested in I get a phone number or give mine. I think more highly of myself than that. I don't think a woman should have to be drunk to go to bed with me the first time.

And with all that said, next time you think about picking up a total stranger while you and her and both somewhat drunk for the purpose of having sex with her. Ask yourself a question.

Is this piece of ass good enough to die for?

Carnus

Here!!! Here!!!

 

[shescurious]

For me, I am worth much more than a drunken woman's attention. That is not to say I don't like to go dancing and drinking, but I don't ever pick up women from bars to bring home. If they seem like someone I might be interested in I get a phone number or give mine. I think more highly of myself than that. I don't think a woman should have to be drunk to go to bed with me the first time.

And with all that said, next time you think about picking up a total stranger while you and her and both somewhat drunk for the purpose of having sex with her. Ask yourself a question.

Is this piece of ass good enough to die for?

Carnus

Don't get me wrong, I agree with you to a point. But really, in any relationship whether it be a person you just met or someone you have been in a relationship for a year or a month, is any ass worth dying for.

It goes back to protecting yourself. No matter if it is a one night stand or a 5 year relationship.

You need to be safe always.

 

[Carnus]

Wow, I really like this statement! Sums up so much. (Well, except in my position, it would read a drunken man's attention. Mind if I borrow this sometime?

You can borrw anything of mine anytime you want sweetie, heheh,, anything at all

Carnus

 

[Carnus]

It goes back to protecting yourself. No matter if it is a one night stand or a 5 year relationship.

You need to be safe always.

Very very true, just tend to have more of a chance to spread if you tend to ummm spread more. Even if your careful you have a higher risk I would think.

Carnus