Lifestyle66
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Thank you. All good points that I'm working to understand as I learn to write three dimensional characters for better stories.@Lifestyle66
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Two quick things at the front. One, you used the word ‘lifestyle’ eleven times during the course of this story. My count might be off by a little, as this word appears in both your name and the story title so a quick search is misleading, but we get it.
We all get it.
Two, every single character in this story is immediately identified by skin-deep attractiveness. This one has a nice ass, and that one’s tits are great. We find out how big the wife’s tits are before we find out her name. We know everyone’s height immediately.
With actual sex, and with porn, these are things that the eye will grasp immediately, but erotica is a different medium. It’s capable of a lot more depth and nuance, of slow introductions that happen on different levels and at a different pace. While there are surely some readers who are sitting there, dick in hand, eager to assign the most basic mental image to every character you introduce to them, it’s not good writing. We’ve talked about this before, about choosing which kind of success you are interested in as an author; that success on Lit doesn’t always require good writing and that good writing doesn’t always succeed on Lit.
If you put bad writing in front of us, however, we’re going to call you on it.
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There is a complicated relationship between the universe of erotica and the universe of reality. As we recently pointed out, erotica tends to be a kind of idealized version of reality where everyone can cum twice, all the women are squirters, and nobody has to poop ever. It might be tempting to look at things like this and think “Ah ha! I don’t even have to try because realism is a nonsense goal!”
Bear with me here.
Clearly, this story is trying to appeal to someone. You probably had a kind of reader, or an audience in mind . Those people, whoever they are, are looking for points of reference. They want things to make at least some kind of sense. Feet people are looking for the story to talk about a heel dangling from an upturned toe. Ass people are looking for the moment the love interest bends over to find something fell on the floor. Signifiers.
I might be thinking an extremely hot thought when I wrote “Ahfdklja bke ble gor aiga!” but it doesn’t come across unless I, the writer, and you, the reader, are using the same language. Signifiers. If we take this basic idea and stretch it a little, we can reasonably arrive at “erotica needs to be about people.”
What does that mean? Well, it means that our characters need to resemble human beings. Act like them. Talk like them. Have human concerns.
For example, Ted and Jan have, as near as we can tell, one and only one rule about going to these events; stay in the room together. It doesn’t happen, because the story wants to break rules for the sake of being hot, but then later when this comes up there’s no angst. There’s no disconnect and frustration and it’s fine.
It’s not fine. It’s lazy.
It doesn’t make the wife look extra cool to break rules and get away with it. It makes you look bad as a writer. It changes this story from being “about two people who have a complicated relationship” to “a boy holding a naked Ken doll and a naked Barbie doll, and smashing their midsections together while insisting loudly that it’s super hot.”
This story is about two swingers who have found a swinging/orgy group they like. They arrive at the location, a location they have been to before, and then get a guided tour around the building that takes, what, 3000 words? A third of the story, including a few stops here and there? If you had been to a place, and someone took this much of your time giving you a tour when you could be getting sucked off or eaten out (or doing the sucking and eating, as your preference allows), you’d be annoyed, but this doesn’t phase these two at all because the story and their experience has been warped to fit a narrative that suits no one.
Why include the bar at all? What is the point of this? Who looks at a woman riding a man and says, out loud, “I thought that was very erotic.”
It’s all so inorganic. None of it flows well. Nothing is rooted in any kind of backstory, or natural progression. None of these people feel real.
(If, right now, you’re gearing up to try to tell me about “the backstory” that happens in the first 11 chapters, then I’ll make it easy; point me to the moment that explains why the wife always carries a spray for red wine stains. If you can’t, then just take this advice under advisement and meditate on it.)
Imagine if, using tinker toys, you constructed a single, perfect, three-dimensional 36D boob. Every dimension lovingly recreated, with a teardrop contour and a perfectly round nipple. It might have the shape of a boob, it might resemble a boob, especially from a distance, but no one is going to get off to it. It’s missing the humanity. It’s missing the rest of the woman. It’s missing the texture of her skin, and the quality of the moan that comes out of her when you brush the nipple just so. It’s missing how warm her breath feels on your skin when you’re that close to her.
It’s missing the people.
The Bar Group is introduced at this point in the series as a regular meeting place for swingers, which the main couple can reference in future chapters. That scene was further used to illustrate some of the other dynamics of swinger relationships in the greater series arc (ie. being dissed by a couple in an e-mail in Ch 06, then meeting them when the other wife seems oblivious to the slight, and the dynamic of bumping into a co-worker at a swinger event.) And my previous Strip Club story referenced the wife's first Bi encounter with another woman, who she will meet in their next Bar Group meeting, so this Group introduction was needed for the greater story. (Strip Club would have been a later chapter in the series, but I changed it for the Pink Orchid challenge.)
But one point you missed interpreted: This is their second house party, but the first time in this house. While the one woman briefly told them how this house was laid out when they arrived, the hostess asked if they wanted a tour, and it was just polite for them to accept (I apparently didn't make that clear.).
I think some of your critique is (justifiably) due to reading a snapshot in this one story out of a series. Among the earlier chapters, we find the "same room" rule is Jan's rule to watch her husband, and he only finds it irritating with the double standards when she violates her own rule (he declined fucking another woman, then found his wife with her targeted boy-toy in Ch 09). I received a similar critique from a comment on Ch 11 "Demons Past" that my stories lack catharsis, or emotional closure for such overlooking of her breaking the rules. His cavalier attitude toward her breaking the rules is somewhat (in earlier even more amateurish writing) brought out in his geek beginning in Ch 01-03 with his attitude "it is what it is". So, I need to better illustrate his quick decision of accepting the lessor of two evils between grudging acceptance or explosive reaction. (He grew up in a VERY quiet house in Ch 01, where such things didn't happen.)
But I do appreciate your analogies in my need to write better descriptions of the people. I think it's a combination and balance between better repeated descriptions of the MC's character traits, level of effort in describing throw-away characters who will not be seen again (Maggie will be a re-occurring character), and the overall length of each chapter.
Thanks.