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[warrior queen]

Evening WQ

Sucks about the exs though, sorry to hear.

*Offers Warrior Queen a hug*

*sigh*

is all ok, really.

i am coping ok - because i know in the end all of this is so incredibly worth it!

on the one hand, i am so amazingly happy, i'm actually a little scared....
and on the other hand, i am so fucking frustrated that i am getting angry about the ex's not stepping back and allowing me to live away from them with no interference.

it's rather hard to keep both emotions at the same time.

and it doesn't help to know all my posts are being read .... by my very own lit-stalker!
does that make me famous as a litster now?
having one's own stalker?

 

[australwind]

nah veggin out mate..
on sunday going paintball in windsor so that should be fun.

I know where paintball in Windsor is ...... I have friends who live just down the road a bit!

 

[Bandit58]

evening all....

been a very busy couple of days here...... helping horus' daughter to settle in and getting her set up with clothes (she came with the bare minimum), a school, makeover (needed a funky hairdo!).... etc., etc., etc.

also trying to get to the point where my eldest will be here - having a bit of a hassle actually getting it organised tho
ahhhhh, well...... the struggle will be worth it.

have also had more than a few run-in's with both my ex's.... and i have reluctantly come to the conclusion that being a 'nice' person, doing the 'right' thing, is NOT worth it.
so i am now going to be a bitch.
i've had enough of the snide remarks and immature behaviour.
*wonders why seemingly 'mature 40+ yr olds are able to behave like 14 yr old idiots

i'm actually getting rather angry about it now - and believe me, it takes a LOT to get me mad!
neither of them wanted me, so why are they kicking up such an enormous fuss about me leaving???
i really do not understand this at all.
especially since the first ex really has no right whatsoever to be interfering in this anyway....... and yet seems to have an opinion that he thinks is the ONLY one that i should ever listen to!
go figure

as for the TIMTAM..... well, i know he's trying really hard to put this all together in his head.....
but let's face it buddy, the day you told me you weren't prepared to compromise on the whole 'morning sex' thing, it was all over. (no morning sex because he wasn't an 'energiser bunny' that i could just use whenever i wanted! how rude is that?)
everything from there was downhil.
and he knew it.
so why's he acting all cut-up and hard done by?
for fucks sakes - i left him with everything! my car, all the furniture, the kids, everything.

me being missniceguywhogetsfuckedoveranyway again.

Grrrr....been there done that. My ex really showed his true colours when I left him - he didn't know how to handle the fact that the meek submissive woman that he used to push around was suddenly standing up to him and asserting herself The emotional blackmail escalated and I began to dread the phone ringing because usually it would be him bitching about something. I started hanging up on him when the arguing began I just didn't want to hear it. He even threatened to shoot himself, and my daughter could hear every word he said that just made me so mad He was like a little kid who couldn't have his own way (still is by the sounds of it).

I also settled for less than my entitlement, one third less in fact. I could have had another 100 grand if I'd wanted to be really nasty and take him to the cleaners. I didn't do that because I wanted my daughter to have a stable home on the farm where she'd lived most of her life. All I got for that was bitching about how much debt I'd left him in It was probably the best thing I did moving here to Sydney, even though I miss my kids and family I don't have to put up with the ex's aggro.

 

[australwind]

Grrrr....been there done that. My ex really showed his true colours when I left him - he didn't know how to handle the fact that the meek submissive woman that he used to push around was suddenly standing up to him and asserting herself The emotional blackmail escalated and I began to dread the phone ringing because usually it would be him bitching about something. I started hanging up on him when the arguing began I just didn't want to hear it. He even threatened to shoot himself, and my daughter could hear every word he said that just made me so mad He was like a little kid who couldn't have his own way (still is by the sounds of it).

I also settled for less than my entitlement, one third less in fact. I could have had another 100 grand if I'd wanted to be really nasty and take him to the cleaners. I didn't do that because I wanted my daughter to have a stable home on the farm where she'd lived most of her life. All I got for that was bitching about how much debt I'd left him in It was probably the best thing I did moving here to Sydney, even though I miss my kids and family I don't have to put up with the ex's aggro.

Morning Honey

Sometimes I wonder about ex ..... husbands, partners......whatever.

Mine did the phone abuse thing too and I found out recently that when I hung up on him, he ranted all over the house abusing me for daring to hang up on him! Something that I can now find very funny.....

They eventually get over it when they realise that you definitely don't need them any longer! In the meantime, it pays to keep a sense of humour about it all if you can.

Warm hugs to WQ .... for you, honey, I'm guessing its all too raw at the moment.

 

[Gil_T2]

Morning Honey

Sometimes I wonder about ex ..... husbands, partners......whatever.

Mine did the phone abuse thing too and I found out recently that when I hung up on him, he ranted all over the house abusing me for daring to hang up on him! Something that I can now find very funny.....

They eventually get over it when they realise that you definitely don't need them any longer! In the meantime, it pays to keep a sense of humour about it all if you can.

Warm hugs to WQ .... for you, honey, I'm guessing its all too raw at the moment.

BANDIT does have a good laugh at him often with my twisted humour setting the scene, when & if she sees him again I think she won't be able to control the mental images of him i've posted in her mind will have her laughing in his face.

 

[Ladybird]

G'morning Aussies...

 

[australwind]

Afternoon, LB

Have just started into the scary world of blog publishing......

Not at all sure of how it will develop, but I've started......and that's the first step!

 

[australwind]

BANDIT does have a good laugh at him often with my twisted humour setting the scene, when & if she sees him again I think she won't be able to control the mental images of him i've posted in her mind will have her laughing in his face.

Watching that ticker count with interest Gil ....... you're doing really well, mate.


If she's lucky enough, she may never have to see him again .....

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Come on Aussies

.where are all of these so-called enlightened Aussie chicks ?

Mr funboy

May I ask respectfully how would you define enlightened

sincerely

@}-}rebecca----

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

*waves to Gil T2 and his Bandit *

 

[Ladybird]

Afternoon, LB

Have just started into the scary world of blog publishing......

Not at all sure of how it will develop, but I've started......and that's the first step!

Hi hon... tis indeed scary stuff - depending on what you right of course.

It sounds like fun though, I've been fascinated by it and if I could think of a 'safe' topic, I"d be doing the same.

Enjoy.. and let me know how it goes please.

 

[Bandit58]

Mr funboy

May I ask respectfully how would you define enlightened

sincerely

@}-}rebecca----

Welcome rebecca I suspect Mr funboy has long ago disappeared with his dick firmly in his hand

Noting your location, Gil and I live not far from you

 

[australwind]

Hi hon... tis indeed scary stuff - depending on what you right of course.

It sounds like fun though, I've been fascinated by it and if I could think of a 'safe' topic, I"d be doing the same.

Enjoy.. and let me know how it goes please.

I will ..... when there's a little more there to read I'll send you the link...... given some of the other blogs I've seen, though, you could muse over the state of the tangles in your cat's fur and it would be interesting to someone out there!

What's up for you today? Big plans for tonight?

 

[australwind]

Hello Rebecca ...... nice to see you here!

 

[Ladybird]

I will ..... when there's a little more there to read I'll send you the link...... given some of the other blogs I've seen, though, you could muse over the state of the tangles in your cat's fur and it would be interesting to someone out there!

What's up for you today? Big plans for tonight?

Thanks, I'd like that. Knowing you, I'm sure it will be put together well.. and be good reading.

A quiet day at home today, probably the same for this evening. My daughter is due to deliver any time, and has had stop/start labour pains for a couple of weeks now, the most recent were early hours this morining. I'm on call to go babysit her son when the times comes, so her partner can be with her, so my plans are kind of on hold at the moment. Not a problem though, it's too damn hot outside to venture out.. a/c is the way to go.

Now there's a thought, a topic for a blog.. my new grand daughter and her arrival into this world.

 

[australwind]

Thanks, I'd like that. Knowing you, I'm sure it will be put together well.. and be good reading.

A quiet day at home today, probably the same for this evening. My daughter is due to deliver any time, and has had stop/start labour pains for a couple of weeks now, the most recent were early hours this morining. I'm on call to go babysit her son when the times comes, so her partner can be with her, so my plans are kind of on hold at the moment. Not a problem though, it's too damn hot outside to venture out.. a/c is the way to go.

Now there's a thought, a topic for a blog.. my new grand daughter and her arrival into this world.

Its exactly the right thing for a first time blog ...... its happening right now...its all good news ...... its the sort of things that the best blogs are made of......so hop to it, "Granny LB's Brag Blog", here we go!

 

[Ladybird]

Its exactly the right thing for a first time blog ...... its happening right now...its all good news ...... its the sort of things that the best blogs are made of......so hop to it, "Granny LB's Brag Blog", here we go!

Yes ma'am..

 

[australwind]

Yes ma'am..

Hehehehehehe

I used www.blogger.com for mine... they have a range of templates you can use and its pretty idiot proof (I managed to make it work therefore it must be!)

 

[Ladybird]

Hehehehehehe

I used www.blogger.com for mine... they have a range of templates you can use and its pretty idiot proof (I managed to make it work therefore it must be!)

Ahhh.. thank you. I was just about to Google, looking for blog hosts. I'm thinking a letter to my grandchildren, ongoing would be nice.. something for them to look back on and know how much they're loved.

Again, thanks for the idea and the link.

 

[australwind]

Ahhh.. thank you. I was just about to Google, looking for blog hosts. I'm thinking a letter to my grandchildren, ongoing would be nice.. something for them to look back on and know how much they're loved.

Again, thanks for the idea and the link.

You're very welcome .....

It would be nice for all your grandchildren whereever they are in the world to have a way of knowing you and hearing from you..........

 

[mortalwombat]

Welcome back Batty . . . it is always wise to run slowly when the ladies are chasing you . . .

I see you have joined the achievers encouragement group by adding a ticker achievement slide to your sig . . . is this the making of a new man??

And this test for debauchery/purity . . . would somebody please post the link? I feel that it is time for me to find out whether my exploits and piccadilloes keep me in woith this august company . . . thanks

thanks don-as it happens i could stand still and no lady would catch me-in fact they'd run past and keep running-faster if i started chasing them! i'm not exactly a chick magnet. Yes I'm trying to improve myself-even started my own thread which has reaped alot of support and encouragement. wont be a new man but hopefully a better old man!

 

[mortalwombat]

Morning Honey

Sometimes I wonder about ex ..... husbands, partners......whatever.

Mine did the phone abuse thing too and I found out recently that when I hung up on him, he ranted all over the house abusing me for daring to hang up on him! Something that I can now find very funny.....

They eventually get over it when they realise that you definitely don't need them any longer! In the meantime, it pays to keep a sense of humour about it all if you can.

Warm hugs to WQ .... for you, honey, I'm guessing its all too raw at the moment.

reading thru yours and wq's and bandits posts about ex's really puts me off having an ex of my own!

 

[australwind]

reading thru yours and wq's and bandits posts about ex's really puts me off having an ex of my own!

Depends ..... we have all had problems with the blokes in our lives...... your ex-to-be isn't a bloke, is he????

 

[mudgerabah]

reading thru yours and wq's and bandits posts about ex's really puts me off having an ex of my own!

But other people's experiences are no reason to hold on to a less than optimum situation for yourself. And just occasionally an ex becomes a current, and reignites the flame

 

[mortalwombat]

Depends ..... we have all had problems with the blokes in our lives...... your ex-to-be isn't a bloke, is he????

i assume ex's in general are the same. but i guess the 3 of u r ex's too