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babydoll_73
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I don't think that there is an answer to the question I have cuz it has been asked a million times.
Why do I say I want a good guy, a nice guy(you know the one treats you well and all that)but turn around and get attached to the biggest assholes on the planet? I mean I want the nice guy but then I meet the asshole pretending to be the nice guy and when I finally find out he's an asshole I don't drop him but I defend his actions and depend on him. blech
Why do I say I want a good guy, a nice guy(you know the one treats you well and all that)but turn around and get attached to the biggest assholes on the planet? I mean I want the nice guy but then I meet the asshole pretending to be the nice guy and when I finally find out he's an asshole I don't drop him but I defend his actions and depend on him. blech
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babydoll_73 said:
Ahhhh, perhaps by the time you figure out he is an asshole, you also think either
a) You can change him.
b) He will never be an asshole to you?
c) He needs you and that seems sufficient?
I am only projecting based on my own experiences, which have not been wonderful. *sigh*
The asshole may seem to have a certain aloofness that attracts you or perhaps the risk attracts you?
IN any event, assholes are assholes and real men are real men. You can't change either.
hugs to you
I so empathize!
greybeard
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dear miss t...........
little billy told me not to tell.........he said it was a secret........well, last night, I told binky.......binky is my best pal, my bestest buddy in the whole word..........binky won't tell anyone, ever.......see, binky doesn't talk much since I his mouth fell off...........am I going to be ok?.....................
greybeard
little billy told me not to tell.........he said it was a secret........well, last night, I told binky.......binky is my best pal, my bestest buddy in the whole word..........binky won't tell anyone, ever.......see, binky doesn't talk much since I his mouth fell off...........am I going to be ok?.....................
greybeard
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What is the best way to hide bruises? 
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lovetoread said:What is the best way to hide bruises?
First of all, <hugs> to you.
Seems like you are needing some, these days, LTR.
Now, hiding bruises?
It depends on where they are and how badly they want to remain hidden!
Seriously, I am not sure. I have never hidden bruises unless it was under my clothing, which made it easier.
Pm me if you want to talk.
hugs again
babydoll_73
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Thank you MissT. any help is alot of help in most situations. but to lovetoread if you just start to get the bruise put a metal spoon or something metal on it. Ya know like a ladel for soup. Make sure that metal is touching the whole area. It will make the bruise not bruise so bad. So instead of turning black and blue it will go directly to that pee yellow stage. That is something my mom taught me. It works I have had to use it many times. (Works on hickeys too cuz they are bruises) Hope I help. ((HUGS)) to all
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Re: Miss T
Manipulators generally don't have contacts or people who can speak to their respectability and worthiness.
Manipulators generally don't hang around too long when they are tested or confronted.
Manipulators generally have inconsistencies apparent in what they tell you or what they post.
Manipulators protest too much when confronted.
Manipulators will move on very quickly if they dont' think they are getting anywhere with you. There are millions of other women on line and in real life, if he stays through it thick and thin, there must be something there.
When confusion reigns, it is time for a little break from it all.
Taking some time to just get your head together, focus on the important stuff outside of romance and then, after clearing your head, give it some thought.
Take care
Miss T
~Dream~ said:How do you KNOW if its really Love or manipulation? also what if you are just soo confused by it all ya just wanna scream ??
Manipulators generally don't have contacts or people who can speak to their respectability and worthiness.
Manipulators generally don't hang around too long when they are tested or confronted.
Manipulators generally have inconsistencies apparent in what they tell you or what they post.
Manipulators protest too much when confronted.
Manipulators will move on very quickly if they dont' think they are getting anywhere with you. There are millions of other women on line and in real life, if he stays through it thick and thin, there must be something there.
When confusion reigns, it is time for a little break from it all.
Taking some time to just get your head together, focus on the important stuff outside of romance and then, after clearing your head, give it some thought.
Take care
Miss T
Curious_Fem
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Hey MissT,
Why in the hell can't they make pretty panties that aren't uncomfortable to wear?
Why in the hell can't they make pretty panties that aren't uncomfortable to wear?
MissTaken
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Curious_Fem said:Hey MissT,
Why in the hell can't they make pretty panties that aren't uncomfortable to wear?
Unless you are built like those plastic mannekins,
you are better off buying the old cotton crotch undies with the days of the week spelled on them!
(At least that holds true for comfort!)
Oh, my question???
Why are they called MANnekins?
Isn't that rather sexist?
Curious_Fem
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MissTaken said:Unless you are built like those plastic mannekins,
you are better off buying the old cotton crotch undies with the days of the week spelled on them!
(At least that holds true for comfort!)
Oh, my question???
Why are they called MANnekins?
Isn't that rather sexist?
True, or don't wear any.
And I believe they are called MANnequins because...well, look at them...they are built like men! No curves at all, just a few bumps that kinda resemble breasts.
tigerjen
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*blushing*
Here goes:
I am a pretty open-minded person, give or take.
This summer (back in July) I was (among some others)
in a BDSM club for the very first time......I was only an
observer that first time (like some others), but ever
since then I've been wanting to go back there and get
a spanking by a dom (however, I am not into heavy
pain)......and though I go back and forth between
being sub and dom, I tend to be more sub......
At the club I observed one of my group getting spanked
by a female dom (w/ part leather, part fur type of thing
that I cannot think of the name for), and getting caressed
on her ass in between spankings.......I was turned on.
So my question......is it natural to start thinking about
something such as BDSM more often after actually observing
the practice in action, so to speak?
BTW, the club was Paddles....in NYC
tigerjen
Here goes:
I am a pretty open-minded person, give or take.
This summer (back in July) I was (among some others)
in a BDSM club for the very first time......I was only an
observer that first time (like some others), but ever
since then I've been wanting to go back there and get
a spanking by a dom (however, I am not into heavy
pain)......and though I go back and forth between
being sub and dom, I tend to be more sub......
At the club I observed one of my group getting spanked
by a female dom (w/ part leather, part fur type of thing
that I cannot think of the name for), and getting caressed
on her ass in between spankings.......I was turned on.
So my question......is it natural to start thinking about
something such as BDSM more often after actually observing
the practice in action, so to speak?
BTW, the club was Paddles....in NYC
tigerjen
~Dream~
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Re: Re: Miss T
ty very much for your very reasonable and sound advice , and i feel a little "break' is exactly what I need , ty
_____________MissTaken said:Manipulators generally don't have contacts or people who can speak to their respectability and worthiness.
Manipulators generally don't hang around too long when they are tested or confronted.
Manipulators generally have inconsistencies apparent in what they tell you or what they post.
Manipulators protest too much when confronted.
Manipulators will move on very quickly if they dont' think they are getting anywhere with you. There are millions of other women on line and in real life, if he stays through it thick and thin, there must be something there.
When confusion reigns, it is time for a little break from it all.
Taking some time to just get your head together, focus on the important stuff outside of romance and then, after clearing your head, give it some thought.
Take care
Miss T
ty very much for your very reasonable and sound advice , and i feel a little "break' is exactly what I need , ty
MissTaken
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Re: *blushing*
The Paddles? Well, I don't know. You will have to take me there so we can investigate the source of your desires.
Hmmm and perhaps, I could get involved in a bit of demonstration as well?
Seriously, tigerjen, the more exposure you have to spanking the like....
If it is truly of interest for you, then you will become more comfortable with the idea and to witness it in real life is actually liable to really test your desires.
The more exposure you have, the more comfortable you may become with the "darker side" and the more you are likely to think about spanking, dream about it, come up with little plans for how you can have it done.
Basically, it sounds like you are ovecoming some inhibitions while you visit the Paddles and perhaps read and get to know BDSMers. Finding out they are just regular people who get off on a variety of erotic activities and that it can and must be safe, is likely to lead you to whatever YOU want.
After only half a cup of coffee, my thoughts are fuzzy.
Short answer, YES!
tigerjen said:At the club I observed one of my group getting spanked
by a female dom (w/ part leather, part fur type of thing
that I cannot think of the name for), and getting caressed
on her ass in between spankings.......I was turned on.
So my question......is it natural to start thinking about
something such as BDSM more often after actually observing
the practice in action, so to speak?
BTW, the club was Paddles....in NYC
tigerjen
The Paddles? Well, I don't know. You will have to take me there so we can investigate the source of your desires.
Hmmm and perhaps, I could get involved in a bit of demonstration as well?
Seriously, tigerjen, the more exposure you have to spanking the like....
If it is truly of interest for you, then you will become more comfortable with the idea and to witness it in real life is actually liable to really test your desires.
The more exposure you have, the more comfortable you may become with the "darker side" and the more you are likely to think about spanking, dream about it, come up with little plans for how you can have it done.
Basically, it sounds like you are ovecoming some inhibitions while you visit the Paddles and perhaps read and get to know BDSMers. Finding out they are just regular people who get off on a variety of erotic activities and that it can and must be safe, is likely to lead you to whatever YOU want.
After only half a cup of coffee, my thoughts are fuzzy.
Short answer, YES!
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Re: Re: Re: Miss T
Ummm
do what your heart and mind tell you to do, not what dear old MissT do.
Only you know what is right, but if you do some very real and intense soul searching, you will find the answer.
If you are having doubts about a LTR relationship, one that has had you on the edge of your seat for a long time, I am going to make a very friendly suggestion...
It has been my experience that when things are rough in my relationship...erre when I have one...it is very easy to find someone else who seems to fill those needs. Be cautious.
The grass isn't always greener.
Clearing your head may mean ending your search for love and companionship for a short time.
Just my two cents, Dream.
~Dream~ said:_____________
ty very much for your very reasonable and sound advice , and i feel a little "break' is exactly what I need , ty
Ummm
do what your heart and mind tell you to do, not what dear old MissT do.
Only you know what is right, but if you do some very real and intense soul searching, you will find the answer.
If you are having doubts about a LTR relationship, one that has had you on the edge of your seat for a long time, I am going to make a very friendly suggestion...
It has been my experience that when things are rough in my relationship...erre when I have one...it is very easy to find someone else who seems to fill those needs. Be cautious.
The grass isn't always greener.
Clearing your head may mean ending your search for love and companionship for a short time.
Just my two cents, Dream.
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