Ask Miss T!

[Batch]

What would you recommend packing in a suitcase when someone is going to meet a Lit friend? Also, both parties are rather conservative types, too, but adults?

 

[MissTaken]

Hmmmm

well, I would normally bring an outfit for casual wear, an outfit to dress up.

And then, depending on his preferences, you may find a pair of thigh highs and heels or a certain sort of bra and panty set.

I go fairly conservative.

Hopefully, I am meeting someone to build a freindship with.

So, jeans and sweater often work wonders.

Oh, and I never bring toys.
Ever.

 

[lovetoread]

Dear MissT,

I was wondering, how are you today?

Tis too good of a thread to drop to page 3.

Be well.

 

[MissTaken]

Hi LTR!

I am doing okay.

I am a bit anxious about the storm we are getting.

*sigh*

So, here is the question:

We expect to lose power.
I have no generator.

Would you go to a lice infested shelter with your little kidlings or would you go stay with the borderline abusive ex husband?

Hmmmmmm

decisions
decisions
decisions

The third and preferable option is to drive 40 miles to my aunt's home.

 

[vffan]

Hi MsT and everyone else

MsT, if the storm is going to hit, no matter what, I'd drive to your Aunt's if you can. That's what I would do at any rate

BTW, I know this isn't the right thread, but I did want to let you know I got what I wanted

J

 

[MissTaken]

BTW, I know this isn't the right thread, but I did want to let you know I got what I wanted

J

Good news!



This the thread for anything, dont' worry about the Q and A stuff.

I am trying to wait and see before making a decision, but going to the ex's is the very last resort.

 

[lovetoread]

Its bad around you then? Its not even raining anymore here.

 

[MissTaken]

We are getting ice and snow.

*sigh*

 

[Batch]

Hi LTR!

I am doing okay.

I am a bit anxious about the storm we are getting.

*sigh*

So, here is the question:

We expect to lose power.
I have no generator.

Would you go to a lice infested shelter with your little kidlings or would you go stay with the borderline abusive ex husband?

Hmmmmmm

decisions
decisions
decisions

The third and preferable option is to drive 40 miles to my aunt's home.

If youhave a four wheeled drive vehicle and you are a good driver in those types of conditions...go to Auntie"s
If you have a fireplace and a supply of wood STAY PUT
Do not go to the abusive place...

How long is the storm to last?
Have you enough food and water at your home?

 

[Batch]

If youhave a four wheeled drive vehicle and you are a good driver in those types of conditions...go to Auntie"s
If you have a fireplace and a supply of wood STAY PUT
Do not go to the abusive place...

How long is the storm to last?
Have you enough food and water at your home?

If you have candles or lamps you can stay home.
Is your place well insulated?
Covering the windows with plastic and taping in place will cut down on the loss of heat.
Staying in one room will also help keep everyone warm. Close the rest of the house off.

 

[Batch]

If you have candles or lamps you can stay home.
Is your place well insulated?
Covering the windows with plastic and taping in place will cut down on the loss of heat.
Staying in one room will also help keep everyone warm. Close the rest of the house off.

or
you can make a shelter within your house out of mattresses and sheets and blankets and be snug there too..
I knpw this all sounds so silly.but the children might enjoy building afort inside the hosue...
Conserving body heat is very important.

 

[MissTaken]

No, it isn't well insulated adn if I lose power, I lose heat.

I can't have the kids sleep here if we dont' have heat. They are young.

The Aunt has a four wheel drive dn will come get us if at all possible.

The ex is a last resort.
Very last resort.



We will be okay! Thanks all!

 

[lovetoread]

Dear MissT,

Is it advisable to have a scene/and or sex at the first meeting?

 

[tigerjen]

MissTaken

The Paddles? Well, I don't know. You will have to take
me there so we can investigate the source of your desires.
Hmmm and perhaps, I could get involved in a bit of
demonstration as well?
Seriously, tigerjen, the more exposure you have to spanking
the like....
If it is truly of interest for you, then you will become more
comfortable with the idea and to witness it in real life is
actually liable to really test your desires.
The more exposure you have, the more comfortable you may
become with the "darker side" and the more you are likely to
think about spanking, dream about it, come up with little
plans for how you can have it done.
Basically, it sounds like you are ovecoming some inhibitions
while you visit the Paddles and perhaps read and get to know
BDSMers. Finding out they are just regular people who get
off on a variety of erotic activities and that it can and must
be safe, is likely to lead you to whatever YOU want.
After only half a cup of coffee, my thoughts are fuzzy.
Short answer, YES!

Mmmmmmm hi again!
Been reading and re-reading your response over the weekend......
If you're in the NYC area sure we can go.......the only downer is
that its open 10pm to the public.......

Funny....because when I was a tot I hated getting spanked by
my parents for if I did anything wrong....both my parents are loving
but had hot tempers if I did something that was supposedly out
of whack.....that's another story.

In fact, over the weekend I was reading thru the "meet n' greet"
thread on the BDSM board.....and its hard for me to remember so
many facts on who is what and whatnot, I am thinking about
maybe joining up on the forum, and just checking it out, but I have
mixed feelings too....I dont' know yet....


tigerjen

 

[MissTaken]

Dear MissT,

Is it advisable to have a scene/and or sex at the first meeting?

Not easy...

For me, teh right answer is to wait.
However, many times you hve been talking with someone so long and about a different array of topics that becoming intimate seems natural.

Then, of course, logistically. In terms of distance, if someone were to travel from California to meet me, and we clicked, if we both wanted sex, why not? Sounds silly, but that is a long way to travel...ya know what I mean?

I personally think that sex should happen when you are ready for it. It is important to me that any man in my life enjoy me as a person, a woman, an adult with opinions, interests and hobbies before enjoying me as a sexual being. Once that groundwork is laid, then perhaps he should get laid?

I fear that in meeting someone and having sex the first time, sex overshadows the nature of what could be a much more intense relationship.

Hmm I am not answering your question.
Only you know what is right for you.

 

[MissTaken]

Re: MissTaken

Mmmmmmm hi again!
Been reading and re-reading your response over the weekend......
If you're in the NYC area sure we can go.......the only downer is
that its open 10pm to the public.......

Who knows? I am about six hours north of the city, strnger things have happened!

Funny....because when I was a tot I hated getting spanked by
my parents for if I did anything wrong....both my parents are loving
but had hot tempers if I did something that was supposedly out
of whack.....that's another story.

Looking backward, even a year, I think we find little things that make us say, "Huh?"

In fact, over the weekend I was reading thru the "meet n' greet"
thread on the BDSM board.....and its hard for me to remember so
many facts on who is what and whatnot, I am thinking about
maybe joining up on the forum, and just checking it out, but I have
mixed feelings too....I dont' know yet....


tigerjen

Hey! If you want, come on over and I will make an introduction for you. There are a lot of posters over there who never come out and play or hit the GB.

We would love your input and enjoy your questions.

Umm I realize the BDSM forum seems a formidable place, it isn't. It isn't just for lifestylers who are into 24/7 Gorean stuff. People who have a serious interest are welcome as well, for discussion etc.

I will watch your back

Feel free to come on over!

 

[MissTaken]

Has anybody ever just wanted to hop on the soonest flight and gooooooooooo?

G morning lit!

 

[lovetoread]

Hello Miss T,

Did you get any sleep?

I saw you were still going last night when I finally drugged myself with nyquil and passed out.

Is the little one okay?

By the way, my previous question about having sex at the first meeting wasnt for any personal reason, heh, I did that already and look where I ended up.

 

[Jewelz]

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[vffan]

Re: Re: MissTaken

Hey! If you want, come on over and I will make an introduction for you. I will watch your back Feel free to come on over!

Morning!

Would you introduce me too? I think I am ready to head that way Things are progressing nicely in my little world

J

 

[manofsteel52]

Has anybody ever just wanted to hop on the soonest flight and gooooooooooo?

G morning lit!

All the time, darlin'...

 

[manofsteel52]

No, it isn't well insulated adn if I lose power, I lose heat.

I can't have the kids sleep here if we dont' have heat. They are young.

The Aunt has a four wheel drive dn will come get us if at all possible.

The ex is a last resort.
Very last resort.



We will be okay! Thanks all!

I see you had the weather that just missed us over the weekend...
I'm in western central CT, and about 15 min northeast of here got really hammered Sat night. Hope you fared well!

 

[MissTaken]

I see you had the weather that just missed us over the weekend...
I'm in western central CT, and about 15 min northeast of here got really hammered Sat night. Hope you fared well!

Yes, we did just fine.

A bit of ice adn snow gathered, but nothing too difficult to manage here.

Thanks for asking!

It is cold though, I need some snuggling lol

 

[manofsteel52]

Yes, we did just fine.

A bit of ice adn snow gathered, but nothing too difficult to manage here.

Thanks for asking!

It is cold though, I need some snuggling lol

Why are the storm shelters there lice infested?

 

[manofsteel52]

Dear MissT,

Is it advisable to have a scene/and or sex at the first meeting?

I'd like to have sex at the first meeting....