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darkknight24
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becoming a sissy slave
tell me please, how to become a siisy slave i want to be tranfromed into a woman can you please help
tell me please, how to become a siisy slave i want to be tranfromed into a woman can you please help
Stella_Omega
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there are ten bazillion cross dressers on the GLBT forum, go check it out.tell me please, how to become a siisy slave i want to be tranfromed into a woman can you please help
FloggingMolly
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How did I get into BDSM?
We started off, when we were first together, with the occassional tying up and light sensation play, as I think many vanilla couples often do. That progressively moved on to me Topping him. We did quite a bit of orgasm denial, needle play, insertions etc. It was primarily motivated, I think, by his desire to be the centre of my sexual attention and affection. Very rarely did I use my control to get him to do thinks to me. With hindsight, I wonder if perhaps there was a little topping from the bottom in that. Certainly, my motivation was always to please him, to 'prove' myself and my capabilities.
The occasion that sticks out most of it all for me is a scene where eventually the power exchange flitted back and forth between my commands and his brute force.
We did try D/s this way round. It was quite amusing, but it didn't quite 'fit'. It felt a little forced. We've always been quite 1950s in our views of the roles of men and women, and this was a struggle to reconcile. We gave up on that, but still I Topped him now and then.
Later, a female sub friend of ours had voiced a desire to play with us, and she came to ours. I played domme to both of them. It worked fairly well, in a few ways. Firstly, I'd always envisioned girl-on-girl working best for me as domme. Secondly, I am a very jealous person, especially when it comes to other women. Being in control of them both allowed me to regulate things as I needed them. I think we played with her a couple of times, and then fell out because she felt the need to start telling everyone she knew about it. We're friends now, but I doubt we'd play with her again, the trust is gone.
Over time, I was Topping him less and less, reverting back to our most common rough-vanilla relations. I'd been playing a live-action roleplay game, where my character was a more gentle, calm, submissive version of me. I found myself slipping into 'her' mindset at random times, being submissive to him, and to others, my stress levels slipping away. It felt natural to let it go, and be more that way. After six months of discussion, we decided that it was something we wanted to explore.
Primarily, this was D/s, rather than T/b. Although we do play sexually in those roles, it began, and continues, to be mostly to do with our out-of-bedroom behaviour and demeanours. Punishment, and set expectations are strong factors that bind us. We are still learning a great deal, about us, and our marriage. This is all quite new still. I am much happier in myself, able to let my stress and tension wash out far easier, knowing that it isn't my duty to always be the strong one anymore.
Hope this answers all of that.
We started off, when we were first together, with the occassional tying up and light sensation play, as I think many vanilla couples often do. That progressively moved on to me Topping him. We did quite a bit of orgasm denial, needle play, insertions etc. It was primarily motivated, I think, by his desire to be the centre of my sexual attention and affection. Very rarely did I use my control to get him to do thinks to me. With hindsight, I wonder if perhaps there was a little topping from the bottom in that. Certainly, my motivation was always to please him, to 'prove' myself and my capabilities.
The occasion that sticks out most of it all for me is a scene where eventually the power exchange flitted back and forth between my commands and his brute force.
We did try D/s this way round. It was quite amusing, but it didn't quite 'fit'. It felt a little forced. We've always been quite 1950s in our views of the roles of men and women, and this was a struggle to reconcile. We gave up on that, but still I Topped him now and then.
Later, a female sub friend of ours had voiced a desire to play with us, and she came to ours. I played domme to both of them. It worked fairly well, in a few ways. Firstly, I'd always envisioned girl-on-girl working best for me as domme. Secondly, I am a very jealous person, especially when it comes to other women. Being in control of them both allowed me to regulate things as I needed them. I think we played with her a couple of times, and then fell out because she felt the need to start telling everyone she knew about it. We're friends now, but I doubt we'd play with her again, the trust is gone.
Over time, I was Topping him less and less, reverting back to our most common rough-vanilla relations. I'd been playing a live-action roleplay game, where my character was a more gentle, calm, submissive version of me. I found myself slipping into 'her' mindset at random times, being submissive to him, and to others, my stress levels slipping away. It felt natural to let it go, and be more that way. After six months of discussion, we decided that it was something we wanted to explore.
Primarily, this was D/s, rather than T/b. Although we do play sexually in those roles, it began, and continues, to be mostly to do with our out-of-bedroom behaviour and demeanours. Punishment, and set expectations are strong factors that bind us. We are still learning a great deal, about us, and our marriage. This is all quite new still. I am much happier in myself, able to let my stress and tension wash out far easier, knowing that it isn't my duty to always be the strong one anymore.
Hope this answers all of that.
FloggingMolly
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This fails to be a question, but yes, they are. Just like some guys are bigger than others.
leomasoch said:
I did, years ago. I'm not really sure now how it felt. I think I quite liked it at the time, but he didn't, which turned me of some. Oh and we had no shower cubicle, so had to do it in the bath. That was painful!
DeepGreenEyes said:
LMAO! I've never been on a plane, so nope
rerunrj said:
part of the things you can ask about? yes.
Solaralyn said:
It definately took searching, yep.
darkknight24 said:
Listen to Stella, she speaks the truth!
bagcat said:
Yes. I am not allowed to masturbate unless I expressly ask for permission (which I may not get), and am expected to ask to be allowed to orgasm during play. I find this really tough as the process of thinking about how close I am makes it harder to get there. I think that at present, I am expected to tell him just beforehand, if I can, because my not orgasming displeases him more than not asking permission for such, do you see?
