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[mickyp123]

You could do that but there may be a chance of it sliding through. It is best to keep some sticking out to use in removal. If you are doing any anal play with ginger and need some lube, use only water! Ginger will get slick and well, the water only helps it slide in but does not reduce any sensation. And for storing any unused ginger, store it in a paper bag inside your fridge. Play referring to using ginger (mostly analy) is referred to as figging.

store ginger in damp sand, it will not only stay fresh it will grow,

 

[FurryFury]

store ginger in damp sand, it will not only stay fresh it will grow,

Cool BUT, water will dilute the heating properties of the ginger, it doesn't need lube of any kind.

Fury

 

[mickyp123]

Cool BUT, water will dilute the heating properties of the ginger, it doesn't need lube of any kind.

Fury

this isginger as the root, in itsskin, it will grow and IF your lucky you will get sand up your arse aswell lol

 

[FurryFury]

this isginger as the root, in itsskin, it will grow and IF your lucky you will get sand up your arse aswell lol

I was replying to your post, that was the cool part.

And Henkles, that was the don't use water or any lube part.

If I'm lucky and get ginger and sand up my ass, you might be lucky to use your cock bloody in it.

*smiles sweetly*

Fury

 

[mickyp123]

I was replying to your post, that was the cool part.

And Henkles, that was the don't use water or any lube part.

If I'm lucky and get ginger and sand up my ass, you might be lucky to use your cock bloody in it.

*smiles sweetly*

Fury

i bet you do lol

 

[LadyAria]

store ginger in damp sand, it will not only stay fresh it will grow,

If you wrap it in a moist paper towel within a zip lock and let it get moldy, then it will be a more potent sting.

 

[Tuli]

'm wondering what would happen if you and your partner decided to try out bdsm, and found out you were both submissive, or dominant, ans how you should go from there. From what I've read, either you already know where you stand on rank, and are looking for a sub/dom, or are together already with someone THEN try it out. So far it's either been not interested, interested, or happily ever after. But what happens when you both want the same thing?

 

[Shagly]

I could go for tieing up LadyAria and flogging her right now.

 

[LadyAria]

I could go for tieing up LadyAria and flogging her right now.

*wicked grin*

Only if your using that thing in your av

 

[Shagly]

*wicked grin*

Only if your using that thing in your av

But of course.......

For you I shall rise to the ocassion.

 

[LadyAria]

'm wondering what would happen if you and your partner decided to try out bdsm, and found out you were both submissive, or dominant, ans how you should go from there. From what I've read, either you already know where you stand on rank, and are looking for a sub/dom, or are together already with someone THEN try it out. So far it's either been not interested, interested, or happily ever after. But what happens when you both want the same thing?

Well, my first reaction is to tell you to try out a rent-a-dom who will dominant both of you together. If it is a positive experience, then the two of you could seek someone for a non-charge by play partner. To me, if you are both submissive, maybe all you need is a third to run the game for you.

Jealousy needs to be put in check and boundaries set though prior to tee off. Also, the partner should be of mutual selection.

 

[LadyAria]

But of course.......

For you I shall rise to the ocassion.

Well, add a cock ring with spikes . You know I'm a S&M sweetheart.


If it doesn't hurt, then I don't squirt.

 

[Shagly]

Well, add a cock ring with spikes . You know I'm a S&M sweetheart.


If it doesn't hurt, then I don't squirt.

Somehow you got me feeling kinky again.

 

[mickyp123]

'm wondering what would happen if you and your partner decided to try out bdsm, and found out you were both submissive, or dominant, ans how you should go from there. From what I've read, either you already know where you stand on rank, and are looking for a sub/dom, or are together already with someone THEN try it out. So far it's either been not interested, interested, or happily ever after. But what happens when you both want the same thing?

interesting question though, i would have thought their will always be one who would come out as more dominant than the other in any given partnership, maybe the "fire" needs to be lit, / invoked / nurtured and then left to run

 

[LadyAria]

Somehow you got me feeling kinky again.

I have that effect on people.

 

[Tuli]

Hmm.... that sounds like a reasonable answer. And if your both Dominant, then find a sub? Or try to out dom one another....tha'd be an interesting fight to see....

 

[Feelfreetotouch]

Hello Lady,
As for my question: When and where?

 

[DVS]

'm wondering what would happen if you and your partner decided to try out bdsm, and found out you were both submissive, or dominant, ans how you should go from there. From what I've read, either you already know where you stand on rank, and are looking for a sub/dom, or are together already with someone THEN try it out. So far it's either been not interested, interested, or happily ever after. But what happens when you both want the same thing?

Well, like you said, most of us are wired one way or the other, to a point. Even in a vanilla relationship, there is usually a dominant partner and a submissive partner, even though it might not outwardly seem so. And, there are some who switch and they can play on either side.

But, if you truly have a scenario where two people are wired the same, two Doms or two subs, you've got to decide...
(1) are you each going to maybe switch roles every so often, so you can both share in the kinky fun?
OR
(2) are you gonna look outside the relationship for a partner that you can share in a threesome?
OR
(3) because you are both wired the same, are you going to split up and go your seperate ways to find your sexual satisfaction with new partners?
OR
(4) are you just gonna continue to live a vanilla lifestyle, to save the relationship? Yeah, that happens, too, but I don't think I could be a part of that relationship.

 

[DVS]

I have that effect on people.

You do cause a fair share of kinky thoughts to enter my mind, you know.

 

[DVS]

Well, my first reaction is to tell you to try out a rent-a-dom who will dominant both of you together. If it is a positive experience, then the two of you could seek someone for a non-charge by play partner. To me, if you are both submissive, maybe all you need is a third to run the game for you.

Jealousy needs to be put in check and boundaries set though prior to tee off. Also, the partner should be of mutual selection.

Shit, I wouldn't charge anything to Dom a couple. Well, that is unless they really wanted to pay me something for my...trouble.

I've never Domed a male before, but there's something kind of kinky about Domming a male, while his wife or SO is watching...and even participating in his submission. There is that humiliation factor that I love so much.

 

[Aeroil]

Shit, I wouldn't charge anything to Dom a couple. Well, that is unless they really wanted to pay me something for my...trouble.

I've never Domed a male before, but there's something kind of kinky about Domming a male, while his wife or SO is watching...and even participating in his submission. There is that humiliation factor that I love so much.

Note to self: do not introduce first Dom/me to DVS.

 

[LadyAria]

I've never Domed a male before, but there's something kind of kinky about Domming a male, while his wife or SO is watching...and even participating in his submission. There is that humiliation factor that I love so much.

M/m with the wifey watching...that's hot.

http://i55.photobucket.com/albums/g156/LadyAriaSucci/1.jpg​

 

[LadyAria]

You do cause a fair share of kinky thoughts to enter my mind, you know.

Glad to be stimulating

 

[LadyAria]

Hello Lady,
As for my question: When and where?

How about now...

Strip and tuck it. Only chin, bows and knees on the floor...anything else that touches the floor gets a nice circle burn.

Never mind the fact I'll be walking on your back.

 

[Feelfreetotouch]

How about now...

Strip and tuck it. Only chin, bows and knees on the floor...anything else that touches the floor gets a nice circle burn.

Never mind the fact I'll be walking on your back.

Yes Lady.

I've sent you a pm.

Come see if I am worthy.