Arousing contact with strangers?

SassySakura

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Last week my best friend was sleeping over and we got to talking about a bunch of things. Somewhere in there she told me that sometimes when she's out at the mall or the bus etc she likes to "accidentally" rub up on strangers be it with her hand, shoulder, leg even boobs if it's a packed area.

I kept thinking about it and ended up going online and found that it's frotteurism and its considered a fetish. I'm curious to know how many people are into it too.

P.s she knows I'm posting this, I did ask if it was ok beforehand.
 
Last week my best friend was sleeping over and we got to talking about a bunch of things. Somewhere in there she told me that sometimes when she's out at the mall or the bus etc she likes to "accidentally" rub up on strangers be it with her hand, shoulder, leg even boobs if it's a packed area.

I kept thinking about it and ended up going online and found that it's frotteurism and its considered a fetish. I'm curious to know how many people are into it too.

P.s she knows I'm posting this, I did ask if it was ok beforehand.
I've known people who do it. Pretty hot when it's a girl, creepy when it's a guy.
 
Ever watch a movie called Subway Stories? One of the vignettes in it is a man & woman who never speak, but carry on a long affair on the subway ride to work every morning. Starts with a bump, slowly escalates until they are both getting each other off every morning in a crowded subway car.
 
Sex rules:

About anything a hot girl does is not illegal.

About anything an ugly guy does is not legal.

If she's hot, or cute, or just not butt ugly, she's in no trouble.
 
Ever watch a movie called Subway Stories? One of the vignettes in it is a man & woman who never speak, but carry on a long affair on the subway ride to work every morning. Starts with a bump, slowly escalates until they are both getting each other off every morning in a crowded subway car.

I haven't but I'm definitely gonna look for it now
 
Sex rules:

About anything a hot girl does is not illegal.

About anything an ugly guy does is not legal.

If she's hot, or cute, or just not butt ugly, she's in no trouble.

These are definitely rules I can live by
 
A few times a thought crossed my mind of brushing my hand over some girl's ass in the bus as if by accident. I never did, thought, because that'd be molesting them.

That's as close as I get to this fantasy. It's definitely not a huge fascination for me, but a thought crossed my mind.
 
This thread reminded Me of an experience...

It involved a stranger... a young woman... a public place... a waterpark... and she initiated it... so I wasn't being creepy... just friendly.

Mid-summer I'd taken my 9 year old son and friends to a waterpark. Lines were long at times, and we were on a raft ride that had a huge stairway you had to wait and climb up. He was looking over the railing at friends and rides... and in front of us were two teenage girls, I'd guess one was 16? As we stood a step lower and waited they began to talk to me. Their twangs told me they had come into town from the country, and they were sweet, though one initiated the conversation and kept it going. She was tan and had light brown hair, cute bikini, and was literally one step above us. She wasn't near as tall as I am, so our eyes were close over the distance.

At first she would lightly lean back against my chest, not as though she were off balance... just a light brush of warm skin to warm skin. The first time I imagined it were just an accident of waiting and standing there.

It was when I felt her tight little butt slowly brush against me, that a new possibility dawned on me. She wasn't rushed, and in no way obvious, but once every minute or so, she'd touch me.

I began to respond, (and NO, not like that pervs ;) ) and would touch her upper arm or her lower back when I'd speak to her. Our touches were light, but lingering... softly sensual, skin to skin. Her eyes were friendly and sparkled as we spoke.

This went on for probably 20 or 25 minutes until we reached the top. Along the way she managed to lean against me more than a time or two. Lingering, letting me support her weight a moment.

My son never really noticed at all. He had other interests.
At the top she and her friend got their tubes, slid off, and we never saw one another again. Though I do suspect her imagination was fired when she was alone later. I know mine was.

:devil:
 
Riding MARTA from the airport to Peachtree in Atlanta, I was in a very packed car most of the way. As more and more people crowded into the car, a very attractive African-American lady dressed in business formal was pushed closer and closer.

After the first stop, when the car reached capacity, she was standing up against me, her back to my chest. I tried to give her some space, but she looked back at me and said not to worry. When she turned back, I felt her hand close on my crotch and she started working my cock through my pants, eventually opening my zipper and fondling me me directly. Just before our stop, she removed her hand and tried to close my fly. When she failed, she leaned back and whispered, "Sorry, no leverage."

We both got out at Peachtree, but when we got to the street, she went one way and I went another. Though she did give me a smile and a wave as she started across the street.
 
Ever watch a movie called Subway Stories? One of the vignettes in it is a man & woman who never speak, but carry on a long affair on the subway ride to work every morning. Starts with a bump, slowly escalates until they are both getting each other off every morning in a crowded subway car.

I love that vignette. It was so hot. I have watched it in a long time.
 
When I used to go to a lot of music gigs in Scotland (at university), they were always indie rock gigs with me trying to get as close to the front as possible, jumping around, 'dancing' and getting swept this way and that with the weight of the throng. At those times I'd often get aroused by the touch of rock chicks pushed up against me in their leather jackets and spiky black died hair. Their breasts pushed up hard against my back in my now sweaty t-shirt. I would fantasise about having sex in the middle of the gig, but because it was so packed no one other than the two of us would know... still a fantasy today! PM me if you'd like to explore this!?
 
Ever watch a movie called Subway Stories? One of the vignettes in it is a man & woman who never speak, but carry on a long affair on the subway ride to work every morning. Starts with a bump, slowly escalates until they are both getting each other off every morning in a crowded subway car.

If it's the one I'm thinking of, it was Rosie Perez, right? And maybe an HBO thing? I think that was 15-20 years ago, but I still remember it. Super hot.

Of course, as alluded to previously, reverse the roles and the guy's leaving the car in handcuffs or on a stretcher.
 
I enjoy this activity, but I'm very conscious about trying to make sure I'm not violating anyone.
 
I've chatted with women who have fantasized about it and even said that they'd be excited by it, so it is a thing. But as a guy, I have no way of knowing if a random woman pressed against me in the subway has that inclination, and the overwhelming probability is that if I tried something, I'd end up getting arrested.

I have had a very few experiences sitting next to a young woman on a bus or airplane, and having her sit remarkably close...so that our thighs touched and there was other such casual but persistent contact. But in those cases, the woman would appear engrossed in something so it was impossible to tell if it was accidental or intentional. But situations like that do leave me wondering...

SG
 
I'm a muscular guy. So I get my arms touched fairly regularly by all sorts of women. I'd say it's all "playful" suedo-sexual in nature. It doesn't really do anything for me though. It's usually associated with a quick comment. Like my aren't you strong. Innocuous stuff but slightly suggestive.
 
I find this to be interesting and had a lovely experience many years ago at a pub with friends where the waitress stood behind me while taking drink orders and kept pressing her breast into my left ear. I sat frozen, not believing what was happening...I guess she was maybe just bored and having a bit of flirty fun. She did it several times. I tipped well.
 
I enjoy this activity, but I'm very conscious about trying to make sure I'm not violating anyone.

What is your process for verifying you aren't violating someone? I too love the seemingly innocuous touches, but as a guy I am super careful to start, arms, shoulders, hands..
 
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I'm a muscular guy. So I get my arms touched fairly regularly by all sorts of women. I'd say it's all "playful" suedo-sexual in nature. It doesn't really do anything for me though. It's usually associated with a quick comment. Like my aren't you strong. Innocuous stuff but slightly suggestive.

I get this as well. I have to say I really like it.
 
very interesting

It used to be that such things were considered accidental but there have been too many. Ones I remember are a waitress in a family restaurant whose breasts pushed against my shoulder as she took and brought dishes, a preachers wife who pushed her ample bosom into my arm or chest in a crowd, a girl at a concert who caressed my leg with hers during the whole evening, several ladies whose breast brushed my arm, a female pharmacist with ample boobs that made contact with my had as she gave me the bottle of pills. s made contact with my arm, and an sixtyish lady who brought by 13 year old arm against her breasts time and again as she bandaged a burn on my left arm. I treasure the experiences!
 
At a party the other night, I felt a womans ass rub hard and slow against mine as if she was trying to squeeze by. I thought that I must be blocking a pathway and wasn't paying attention since I was talking with other people. When I turned around, there was enough room for the largest of people to get by with room to spare. She continued on without a second glance. She was the host's wife and is very, quiet and somewhat uptight. Would have never expected it from her.
 
When I was in high school I started getting my hair cuts from a woman named Kathy that my mother had recommended. Kathy was 30ish, cute, and very fit. The first couple of haircuts, Kathy spent what I thought was an extraordinary amount of time playing with my hair while she insisted we talk about high school stuff instead of the usual old lady things she usually heard from her clients.

By the third time I went to see her she started leaning on me while she was cutting my hair. Then I noticed she was lightly parking her crotch on my elbow and ever so slightly rubbing it on me while she worked. As the appointments went on the contact with her crotch became more pronounced and deliberate.

A month or so after I graduated Kathy moved away. A couple of years later my mother told me that Kathy once said she was getting a divorce and she wished that I wasn't so young. It seems that my 30 something hair stylist had a thing for 17 year old me but was too ashamed to tell me.
 
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