Are you?

are you a

  • Lurker who just likes to read posts

    Votes: 42 7.5%
  • Female switch

    Votes: 36 6.5%
  • Male switch

    Votes: 55 9.9%
  • Male Dom

    Votes: 90 16.2%
  • Female Domme

    Votes: 12 2.2%
  • Male sub

    Votes: 57 10.2%
  • female sub

    Votes: 114 20.5%
  • Dom/me curious

    Votes: 18 3.2%
  • sub curious

    Votes: 120 21.5%
  • seeking same sex only

    Votes: 13 2.3%

  • Total voters
    557
I am very submissive emotionally [needy]to any woman I am in a romatic relationship with[or even infatuated with] This is one of the things has casued all my relationships to not work out in the past
 
who am I?

i am most myself when i am sexually submissive, although i can switch. i have had some experience and long for more, especially with an experienced dom.
 
WriterDom said:
Who are you and what are you looking for?

curious= interest but never had a skin on skin bdsm experience.

I'm sub-curious. 40 yr old, 5'5" blond, blue eyed, BBW. Geek.

I might be switch? with another switch.

I have done a lot of reading and intelectual exploring of my sexuality, but I don't have much hands on experience with anything. 99% certain I am heterosexual.

I have someone I am madly in lust/love for, but he is only interested in playing (we have discussed it, it's ok). For him I am submissive (on-line and phone calls only at this point).

He wants me to look for someone else, then tell him all about what I do with the other person. (This part we haven't discussed beyond him wanting me to find someone).

I'm ttying to find someone else, but I don't bar hop (I don't drink, do not mind if other do), don't work in a company with a local office overflowing with people. I'm not looking to go pick up just anyone for a one night stand, I want to at least know and like the person I choose to get physically close with.

I'm a bit nervous about jumping right into a sexual relationship with anyone, I'd prefer to make friends first and if something happens after that, then something happens.

<blush, look down> But if something happens, you will need to be OK with me sharing it with my Dom/Daddy/Master/On-line lover/Friend. You would need to be ok with him asking us to do/try what he asks me to try with you...

Ok now I am embarrassed...
 
i just got introduced to the world so im not really sure yet..i guess you could say im curious in general
 
Sub curious, defintly. I know that I want a more dominant male, but I'm not exactly sure as to how dominant...I know that I do enjoy pain, but I haven't experienced it much. Defintly no real sub contact.
 
Poll

I'm a little bit of a lurker, but in real life I am dominant with girls when they are into that. Would like to be with a woman who was dominant just to experience what it is like.
 
Anyone who has read any of my posts on the BDSM boards knows the answer to this one, but I am submissive, real life skin on skin contact. No switch in me.

Betticus said:
Where is the "male Dom being trained by lesbians" option?
Betticus, one would think you would have learned your lesson by now. Luckily, I wasn't drinking when I read this. Your posts should come with a spew alert!
 
I'm a 23 straight male. I'm a sub at heart and That's it. But because I am, and I crave to serve I can switch. If a woman really needs a dom, or wants one, and needs someone to take the reins I can switch. But otherwise I sub. I've tried being Bi but I didn't like men and while I could think well he's hot I couldn't be atttracted to them. But I always was dominant duiring my little experimental time.
 
Nothing for days

What happened? I just came across this line and then noticed no one had writen for days. What happened? Had all the possible respondents already described themselves? Is that the limit?

I sent the poll results to a lady friend who I am trying to bring out her latent Domme character. She didn't believe me when I said there were so many men and women who are into being submissive. From the extent of the replies (above) may be I was wrong.
 
Interesting

Poll? Voting? Male Dom, though I enjoy playing the sub if it arouses her...
 
Who's YOUR Baghdaddy???

BeachGurl2 said:
Just curious. Are you also a Daddy, as your name implies?
Darling. If you're asking clinically if I've "fathered children," the answer is yes. If you're asking if I'm YOUR Baghdaddy...*wink*....we'll just have to PM that conversation my love.
 
Baghdaddy said:
Darling. If you're asking clinically if I've "fathered children," the answer is yes. If you're asking if I'm YOUR Baghdaddy...*wink*....we'll just have to PM that conversation my love.
You're so bad. I meant are you a Daddy Dom. :rolleyes:
 
Baghdaddy said:
Yes darling, I'll be your daddy dom. Will you be my naughty little girl?
You're just pushing right along here, aren't you? I didn't say MY Daddy, now, did I? ;)
 
Femme dom. I switched for many years, finding the domination in submission that everyone always talks about, but my current bottom has me whipped, and I love topping him like I love cake.
 
I'm a Dom wannabe, but can't find any subs in my area, or the area I'm going to. At least, those who aren't into whips, chains, and pain.
 
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