Are you dominant or submissive

[Goldenfinger]

I donno what kind of discussion that's why I asked but I guess making a more elaborate explanation why you have your "role" is a good idea like you did. Then others can comment if they find it interesting.

And yeah your story makes sense, interesting insight to military life/relationship. You started as dominant and transitioned into sub. I started as sub and now I wanna transition into dom. Our paths have crossed

In My relationship with my wife I never started out as the dominant. We were and are equal. Just because she dominate and I’m submissive doesn’t make her more and me less. We are partners, friends and lovers. I’m just saying this to clarify, to add to the discussion.

 

[MiaDani80]

I’m a true switch-naturally dominant but I love when I connect with someone that can dom

Ive discovered over the past few years that I am a switch too. I’ve been a dom in several relationships and was in extended domme-sissy relationship over the past several years. I still find myself caught (or pleasantly able) to switch between both worlds.

 

[BrendaBear]

I always considered myself a switch, but lately seem to be more inclined to submissive,

 

[Bbwfucktoy]

Hi, submissive bbw

 

[LeatherPearls]

I am a natural Dom. My submissive side is very braty and still does what she wants.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

May I ask
Why does there have to be a label? Why either or?
Just be you. Have fun, enjoy the journey, explore.

 

[lil_jenni]

With my husband (and men before him), I'm a sub, although sometimes a bratty one. But because my husband is less into this than I am, I do have to top from the bottom more than I might like.

Except for my current girlfriend, who had not had sex with another woman before me, I was subordinate to the few women I had been with, although it was different. It's less about being dominated and more about just following the other woman's lead and wanting to please. With my GF now, I take the lead more often than not. But in addition to being more experienced, I am also ten years older than her.

 

[Cyberwhite]

I definitely submissive. Plus, I'm pretty small and have a delicate build, so it's not that hard.

 

[sinfulchaoticdesires]

i personally would label myself as an extremely sadistic Dominant? Top?
but i also am very masochistic when that mood hits, but it is very very very rare

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

I'm a switch, in the S/M realm. Love pain/pleasure conversion and the associated power exchange. I'm always looking for open-minded individuals to share and exchange kinky thoughts and fantasies.

 

[Cassioirl]

Dominant. But I’m not into pain. More of a bondage/control person.

 

[Ingenue844]

Sub

 

[WSM98]

I'm learning that I like to be both.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

I like to refer to myself as a pain-ho, the correct term for this being masochist.

I've spent a lot of years in and out of the kink scene I've been submissive and dominant, switched with the same partner. Only submissive with others and then only dominant.

For now I'm happy being classed as submissive to my own needs as I am no longer practicing.

 

[Wonderer67]

I'm learning that I like to be both.

Agree. Totally submissive (sexually) in most respects. Have had some interesting experiences as of late being in control. I kind of like it.

 

[xdresssissytoes]

I'm a submissive bottom by nature. I love submitting to a guy/gurl'd needs dressed slutty on my knees inches from a hard cock and loose hanging balls. My holes are his/hers to use.

 

[cougarwantscocks]

I've found it deeply satisfying to be in the submissive role. Not that I can't take on a more assertive role and do from time to time, but definitely pleasing and submitting get me going quite intensely.

 

[Recondo69]

I'm dominant outside the house.very submissive in bedroom.

 

[55ChevyBelAir]

I have always felt in control of my life. But as I age, I am discovering submissive desires sexually. I am aroused to consider someone controlling me and directing my actions. Newly aware of excitement in kneeling before domme to follow commands.

 

[Melanie00]

Well I’ve been passive/ submissive my whole life.

 

[WSM98]

Agree. Totally submissive (sexually) in most respects. Have had some interesting experiences as of late being in control. I kind of like it.

Right?! This being in control thing is...invigorating.
And it's cool to see how far I can take it. I become a different person entirely & I like it.

 

[cuppatea]

I’d have to go with the dominant side of me more often than not. Switch at best describes it.

 

[sinfulchaoticdesires]

I'm starting to question if im a masochist to my work life since it dominates a good 80% of my life right now

 

[GentlemanShrek]

I would say I’m a dominant, I’ve tried being submissive once, however, I find it difficult to relinquish control if not impossible.

 

[bondagesub98292]

Submissive