Are you dominant or submissive

[TempSpawn]

Think of it as topping from the bottom the first few times. See what you think. See what her reaction does for you.

Ah, a good way to look at it thanks..

 

[emme8]

You know what she wants and needs more than anyone else.

 

[emme8]

Also when you do this for her it may inspire her to return the favor

 

[TempSpawn]

You know what she wants and needs more than anyone else.

Despite being together for a while, she's still pretty reserved. But we're getting there.

Also when you do this for her it may inspire her to return the favor

That would be the ideal outcome.

 

[MrRandyWatson]

I am a man and I am sub to women. Very, very sub and want to be trained to accept merciless domination.

 

[Islander55]

I don't think I am either. I have read a lot here on Lit and do not see myself as either Dom or sub. I can be bossy and am not afraid to tell a guy what I want or like but do not see that as being dominant. At times I like the guy to take charge and will encourage him to take me for his pleasure but this is more about my pleasure than his. I guess I can wobble a bit to either side but do not think I would be good for a true Dom or sub.

 

[simplylovelypoet]

Switch with submissive tendencies.

 

[Umanual]

A good question with some complexity for me,..I am dominant when with a gal and submissive when enjoying sex with men. That said, I do enjoy my wife taking charge occasionally when we play with others, mfm, mmf , she is a good loving wife...

 

[Lil_Lindsay]

Whenever its come to men I am 100% the submissive partner, but I've definitely had threesome fantasies. MMF I'd imagine I'd still be submissive but if it was a FMF I could see myself being in the middle? I'm not sure what you'd call it...

 

[saintcero]

Sub and growing more submissive by the day. I would love to place myself into a Dom’s hands be it a male or a Dominatrix.

 

[Bbwdlutlove]

Submissive, it’s not a role but innately who I am

 

[petes478]

I tend to be more on the submissive side.

Dominant and sadist

 

[UseMePlease40]

very submissive bi male

 

[Anonymity34]

Very submissive pain slut

 

[FunLuvinDesiWife]

Sub in bed!
Dom in life!

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Yes. Lol
You can probably tell by my name. I’m bit of both. Some see me as more dominant. Others see me more submissive. Either way I’m just me.

 

[txblush]

I consider myself a dominant bottom and thank Stella Omega for her explanation on labels.

 

[Somethingdifferent74]

Whenever its come to men I am 100% the submissive partner, but I've definitely had threesome fantasies. MMF I'd imagine I'd still be submissive but if it was a FMF I could see myself being in the middle? I'm not sure what you'd call it...

Could be simply submissive with males and Dominant with females/women

 

[Somethingdifferent74]

I'd say Dominant myself

 

[Nudisterica32]

Submissive always have been

 

[WajaLover]

100% Submissive!

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Could be simply submissive with males and Dominant with females/women

With me it depends on how I click with the person. I’m straight. Some ladies I feel more dominant. Some I feel more sub. Part of being a switch.

 

[Bighammerfucker]

I have traits for true switch

I feel like, being a true switch though, it’s harder to feel properly dominated. I usually need more than average. I know how to get that though so I’m okay with that.

 

[Wonderer67]

I would have said 100% submissive up until a few months ago, where I sort of stated feeling a little switchy and entertained was turned on by the idea of being dominant.

I feel like a sub at heart, but with certain situations or diff scenarios or fantasies, it felt very natural and good to take a dominant role. Labels and descrptors…

 

[CutieJo]

I'm very much a submissive. Through and through. Before I thought I could be a switch, but giving directions doesn't give me the same feelings as I do when I receive them.