What subtle rituals keep your D/s dynamic strong?

[Boat1]

I believe this ‘woman’ Midori is a known scammer on here, name sticks in the head - might be best not to give her additional exposure

Thanks for the heads-up!
I hope all is well with you and yours!

 

[MiaBabe23]

I gave myself to Her completely...

Love that! She’s a lucky woman

 

[MiaBabe23]

Thanks for the heads-up!
I hope all is well with you and yours!

Sure, they’re difficult to spot sometimes lol
Thanks, Boat, super stressed atm lol but keeping going. Hope everything is good for you and Her

 

[Boat1]

Wow...I'm happy u found ur person..

Thank you so much!
I am blessed beyond my wildest dreams!
She'll never be taken for granted!

 

[kathyisgr65]

Thank you so much!
I am blessed beyond my wildest dreams!
She'll never be taken for granted!

As she never should be..I got warm fuzzues for y'all

 

[Boat1]

Love that! She’s a lucky woman

Thank you!
I know that I'm fortunate and blessed!

 

[Boat1]

As she never should be..I got warm fuzzues for y'all

Awww, Thank you!
I'm eternally grateful that neither of us gave up on the "fairy tale" as we're both finally getting to live it now!

 

[Boat1]

Sure, they’re difficult to spot sometimes lol
Thanks, Boat, super stressed atm lol but keeping going. Hope everything is good for you and Her

Thanks!
Sorry to hear you're in a stressful time, but I've got faith that "You've got this!"

 

[MiaBabe23]

Thanks!
Sorry to hear you're in a stressful time, but I've got faith that "You've got this!"

Thanks, Boat - I hope you’re right!
Glad you’re good

 

[Boat1]

Thanks, Boat - I hope you’re right!
Glad you’re good

You're quite welcome and Likewise! I'm sure of it!

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Sitting in his lap when he's busy working... just keeps a strong connection..

My wife hated the lap sitting bit and I love it. She has now gotten to the point she will do it in front of family and friends.
Bringing conservative people out of their shell can be extremely difficult and time consuming.
She has now silently given into a mild sub role. Pushed too hard she locks up

 

[kathyisgr65]

My wife hated the lap sitting bit and I love it. She has now gotten to the point she will do it in front of family and friends.
Bringing conservative people out of their shell can be extremely difficult and time consuming.
She has now silently given into a mild sub role. Pushed too hard she locks up

Can't push..it's gotta be organic and wanted or it's simply coersion

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Can't push..it's gotta be organic and wanted or it's simply coersion

She has admitted she needs the push to do most anything in her life sexual or not. She just kinda rides the waves of life in most cases.

 

[kathyisgr65]

She has admitted she needs the push to do most anything in her life sexual or not. She just kinda rides the waves of life in most cases.

I'm not judging..I don't know anything about yalls dynamics..I'm just giving u my unsolicited opinion

 

[MaturemanAJ]

I'm not judging..I don't know anything about yalls dynamics..I'm just giving u my unsolicited opinion

Totally get that. No worries

 

[MiaBabe23]

She has now silently given into a mild sub role.

So does she enjoy it? Or is she more doing it to please you/ for your pleasure?
If so, there are likely ways you could explore the dynamic in a way that would please both of you, perhaps including switching too

 

[MaturemanAJ]

So does she enjoy it? Or is she more doing it to please you/ for your pleasure?
If so, there are likely ways you could explore the dynamic in a way that would please both of you, perhaps including switching too

I am totally a switch and she gets the benefits of that also.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

I am totally a switch and she gets the benefits of that also.

To give you an example we went to Vegas and she wanted to take me to a titty show. Well we went to it really was her way of getting what she wanted because she thoroughly enjoyed seeing all the topless women and spent the remaining two days eyeing up women which is just fine by me.
It's the same thing she is bi, close female friends have told me " you know she is bi right?" And I say I know and she has my blessing as her friend to give her the space to indulge but she doesn't talk about it wants everything in her life private in her head.
I asked her straight out if she wants to be with a woman totally and she says maybe in the next lifetime.
I said I won't hold you back, we can still be friends and then I get the absolutely not. She isn't prepared to end what we have for it.

 

[Oralexplorer]

I’ve been reflecting on how much the small things can shape a dynamic over time. Not always the big scenes, but the quiet, everyday rituals that reinforce control, devotion, and connection.

For some, it’s a simple word, a glance, or a daily check-in. For others, maybe a set routine like kneeling, a journal entry, or even a morning message.

I’m curious what little rituals or habits have you found to be powerful in your Dominant/submissive dynamic?

Check-in start and end of day I find to very powerful, for me end of day especially, and specifically when you know the other person had a big and long day and you are the last person and thoughts before they rest, a single word "goodnight". It's a powerful thing.

 

[Obeylily]

just here reading comment cos if i state my opinion on this,not everyone will agree on my ritual opinion.only a loyal sub can relate.