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As it should be.. Your a good sub !
Are you dominant or submissive
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AnnieLit
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Do you have anything published on Lit?
JakBird
Plebian
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One story pending, although since it seems to take a minimum of two weeks after submitting I may stay with websites that are more timely in posting stories. This first one is a sort of test to evaluate the process and the website.
I have about 25 stories posted on other venues.
*** Update: first story is now published on Lit ***
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What other websites do you put stories on? Are they better than lit?
JakBird
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Most of them have faded away. Better than Lit? Hard to say, no data for comparison yet. At the moment that's a work in progress.
It's in poor taste to mention the competition. A google search on BDSM and my nickname should lead you to other shores.
Ok. I will check it out, thanks.
AnnieLit
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Lit is a non-commercial platform, so this a pure case of community over competition.
SweetSweetThings
Virgin
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Dominant and caring
JakBird
Plebian
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There are times when the needs of the few must be placed above the needs of the many.
The website is a ".com" not a ".org". There are ads,
1Humiliator
Humiliation Therapy
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Dominant but more in a caring and embarrassing setting, not a dungeon or sadistic.
curvy_carmen
Experienced
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I am submissive by nature, I love a man in charge but, also very considerate of me
Booboobear84
Dancing bear
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If he's a man, then he's considerate. If he's not considerate he's a bully and not a man.I am submissive by nature, I love a man in charge but, also very considerate of me
ericalauren
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Technically, I'm neither. But I do have some submissive fantasies.
Greyvision
Virgin
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I'm more sub, which isn't great when most females are also sub. On looking back at past relationships, I think I should have got a 3rd party dominant involved to spice things up. Pity I hadn't found this site sooner 
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. I've added a photo of me with the best dominant look I can manage View attachment 2141956
AnnieLit
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Everybody has limits.
If they say that they don't, it means that either they have zero experience and don't know what they are talking about, because they can't imagine the world beyond their little fantasy, or they know and are lying.
curvy_carmen
Experienced
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Submissive 
shinybikiniwife
Shiny
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I lean toward submissive. I am submissive far more than I am dominant, but I have my moments.
Acktion
GrumpyOldDude
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ChestyLaRoux
Mrs
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Total sub. I love going to that space where I don't have to think and i just enjoy the ride because I know he's in control.
RachelWalsh
Little Miss Rachel
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I too am total sub, always end up sub, even with other submissive. Lol
TheLazyLady
Really Experienced
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i tend more towards the submissive side(with limits) and prefer my man to take the charge
emme8
Very confusing
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Think of it as topping from the bottom the first few times. See what you think. See what her reaction does for you.
