Are women really as cold-blooded IRL as represented in Loving Wives?

[waltdee]

I've been getting interested in the Loving Wives category the last several days, and I read stories of wives running off with football stars for a wild weekend without as much as a peep to their husbands, or wives that announce that they're about to fuck a multi-millionaire to their husband because they don't consider it cheating, or otherwise give some delusional rationalization that after their fling everything will be alright with their marriage when they return.

While it makes for an interesting story, I have to wonder: Do sluts like this exist in the real world?! My ex and I split up because we got to where we were just roommates with occasional benefits. Thank God we hadn't had children before the split!

But enough about me. I only mention it because I cannot believe there are women out their so delusional, so cruel as to pull something like this and come back thinking everything would be like it was. Please tell me this is just fantasy, a trope, a McGuffin, please?

 

[Lifestyle66]

There are all kinds of people in this world. If you haven't met such women (or delusional men running around, while expecting their wives to accept it), then maybe you haven't asked your friends the right questions.

 

[waltdee]

There are all kinds of people in this world. If you haven't met such women (or delusional men running around, while expecting their wives to accept it), then maybe you haven't asked your friends the right questions.

I doubt it's that prevalent.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

First, I object, as a woman, to your use of the word slut in that context, when you accuse them of behaving like men.
Second, 99% of what I've read in Loving wives is male fantasy. Or indulging male fantasy. It's not reportage, it's fiction.

 

[Jmanchu]

Are there people that actually think or act this way? Sure, but I wouldn't say it's the norm.

 

[ericalauren]

I've been getting interested in the Loving Wives category the last several days, and I read stories of wives running off with football stars for a wild weekend without as much as a peep to their husbands, or wives that announce that they're about to fuck a multi-millionaire to their husband because they don't consider it cheating, or otherwise give some delusional rationalization that after their fling everything will be alright with their marriage when they return.

While it makes for an interesting story, I have to wonder: Do sluts like this exist in the real world?! My ex and I split up because we got to where we were just roommates with occasional benefits. Thank God we hadn't had children before the split!

But enough about me. I only mention it because I cannot believe there are women out their so delusional, so cruel as to pull something like this and come back thinking everything would be like it was. Please tell me this is just fantasy, a trope, a McGuffin, please?

If you're a cis man, do not use gendered slurs like "slut". Of course, no one should be using slurs like that in this context, but it adds another element of evil when coming from a cis man.

 

[RachelWalsh]

I guess if you really need to ask, you probably DO need to ask. Lol

 

[Lifestyle66]

I doubt it's that prevalent.

Former Pres Bill Clinton, Sen John Edwards, dozens of politicians and hundreds of Hollywood stars are the tip of the iceberg!

A friend of mine didn't find out until he was in his 30's he had a half-brother his father was supporting his entire life. Another female friend was in her 50's when she found through "23 And Me" she had a half sibling. My grandmother had a child out-of-wedlock, who was raised by her parents. And how many soldiers returned home after deployments to find their wives either had an affair or are pregnant? How many soldiers' wives learned their husbands fucked around during a deployment?

If you believe all of your friends and family have been faithful in marriage (male or female), then you either have a very small group of such acquaintances, or you're naive.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

If you believe all of your friends and family have been faithful in marriage (male or female), then you either have a very small group of such acquaintances, or you're naive.

My mum has boyfriends. She's always had boyfriends. My dad doesn't have an issue with it.

 

[Lifestyle66]

I know two women whose husbands are impotent due to health issues, and the women find occasional relief with other men.

There's nothing wrong with their relationships.

 

[EarlyMorningLight]

I know two women whose husbands are impotent due to health issues, and the women find occasional relief with other men.

There's nothing wrong with their relationships.

I’ll never stop finding it strange that there are so many militant monogamists spending time on a smut site that showcases a broad range of sexual activities. Alien vampire futas? Sure, as long as they get married in the end. Otherwise it’s just depraved and wrong.

 

[TxRad]

Who cheats more? Men or women? I's say men by a large percentage but no one calls them sluts.

Ignorant people. You can't change their minds on what they only think they know.

 

[lovecraft68]

No, they're written that way by women hating incels who blame women for the fact they're nothing but bitter losers. They project their hate and self loathing on to women and portray them in every negative way they're less than average IQ's can come up with.

Don't worry though, your slut comment shows you'll fit right in.

 

[lovecraft68]

Who cheats more? Men or women? I's say men by a large percentage but no one calls them sluts.

Ignorant people. You can't change their minds on what they only think they know.

The difference is its okay when men cheat, the problem is those little womens thinking they can get out of the kitchen, put shoes on, and do the same thing. Shit, next thing you know those broads will get the right to vote.

 

[MillieDynamite]

I would say, as most are saying, there are all kinds of women, just are there are all kinds of men.

 

[lovecraft68]

I would say, as most are saying, there are all kinds of women, just are there are all kinds of men.

There is a premium on kind men these days.

 

[MillieDynamite]

The difference is its okay when men cheat, the problem is those little womens thinking they can get out of the kitchen, put shoes on, and do the same thing. Shit, next thing you know those broads will get the right to vote.

Too bad there is no one in either party worth my voting for nowadays.

 

[lovecraft68]

Too bad there is no one in either party worth my voting for nowadays.

The issue with this country is division. But let me give you some good news. There is one thing bi partisan in this country.
One thing that all men, be they dem/gop white/black rich/poor Christian/Muslim/atheist educated/ignorant...have in common.
They all abuse women and all cover for each other. When I say all, I don't mean all in any demographic, but a good percentage in everyone of them do.

Rape and domestic abuse are still jokes to the law and getting worse.

But limiting it to politics if you're a woman or a guy who cares about women...your options are the right dragging women back into the 50's and the left trying to eliminate the gender itself....birthing person...mentruators are terms they use now.

Good times for the ladies.

This is why both my daughters own guns and I encourage every women to get them as well. Because trust me, if you don't defend yourself, there are few men left in this pit who will, and the law sure as hell won't.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

In response to the original question, of course there are women like that. There are also men who callously cheat on their wives, then desert them and their children. Consider the stereotypes here - women (all D-cups, of course) are instantly aroused to multiple orgasms 24/7. Men all have ten inch willies and enjoy fistfights. Judging anybody by what you see in a Literotica story is like learning market strategy by watching online poker tournaments.

 

[lovecraft68]

It's not reportage, it's fiction.

More like propaganda

 

[Differentendeavours]

I've been getting interested in the Loving Wives category the last several days, and I read stories of wives running off with football stars for a wild weekend without as much as a peep to their husbands, or wives that announce that they're about to fuck a multi-millionaire to their husband because they don't consider it cheating, or otherwise give some delusional rationalization that after their fling everything will be alright with their marriage when they return.

While it makes for an interesting story, I have to wonder: Do sluts like this exist in the real world?! My ex and I split up because we got to where we were just roommates with occasional benefits. Thank God we hadn't had children before the split!

But enough about me. I only mention it because I cannot believe there are women out their so delusional, so cruel as to pull something like this and come back thinking everything would be like it was. Please tell me this is just fantasy, a trope, a McGuffin, please?

People are all different and like or dislike different things. We rarely know what people are doing in their private lives. That's why I enjoy sexy stories about what they might be doing. If people are really just doing boring things all the time, that does not make for a good story!

 

[Bebop3]

I don't know what the percentage is, but it seems clear that there is a significant demographic of men who are emotionally damaged in the LW readership. Sadly, that's reflected in the writers in that category. They have had a bad experience in a relationship and that colored their perception of all women. LW is their solace and outlet.

 

[Lifestyle66]

I don't know what the percentage is, but it seems clear that there is a significant demographic of men who are emotionally damaged in the LW readership. Sadly, that's reflected in the writers in that category. They have had a bad experience in a relationship and that colored their perception of all women. LW is their solace and outlet.

Not all of the LW stories are BTB or revenge.

Read mine. I'll continue to fight the curve.

 

[waltdee]

Who cheats more? Men or women? I's say men by a large percentage but no one calls them sluts.

Ignorant people. You can't change their minds on what they only think they know.

Studies show men cheat more by 20+%

 

[TheRedChamber]

Who cheats more?

This survey seems to suggest that amongst the oldest generation (80+) men are 4 times more likely to admit to having cheated in a marriage than women. However this gap narrows to the current young generation (20-30) where women are ever so slightly more likely to admit to cheating than men. Obviously as this is all self-reported, it might be more about what one is willing to admit than what one has actually done.

This tells us what we already know, both genders cheat.