Are Tops More Likely to Be Bi?

[nassauguy_2001]

In my experience, married 'straight' men are way more likely to be bottoms. If the tops I've played with, they're likely to have had little or no experience with women.

That has been my experience too.

 

[KarinSoftly]

I don’t know but the “straight” men I’ve been with were tops. I’m a total bottom so that may be

 

[sticky6]

I'm Bi and strictly a top. Tried bottom twice, it's just not for me.

 

[Uncut1969]

I'm Bi and strictly a top. Tried bottom twice, it's just not for me.

Why no bottom for you?

 

[saintcero]

I'm Bi and strictly a top. Tried bottom twice, it's just not for me.

As a bi bottom, very happy to know of a 100% Top! I feel, well, let’s call it “welcoming.”

 

[Uncut1969]

As a bi bottom, very happy to know of a 100% Top! I feel, well, let’s call it “welcoming.”

As a bi bottom, very happy to know of a 100% Top! I feel, well, let’s call it “welcoming.”

Is it more of a dominant thing?

 

[saintcero]

Is it more of a dominant thing?

That plays a part in it for me but it is also more basic, the same as knowing if you are gay or straight

 

[whiteasianlvr]

I agree with saintcero. For many of us, whether we top or bottom is written into our DNA much like left or right handedness.

 

[Swuchrow]

Bi here. Have always been a submissive/fem bottom. Have never desired to be a top.

 

[SPARTAN047]

That's a very interesting question. I know most tops who fucked me were secret TVs who couldn't do it in front of everyone. Some may have been secretly bi since they were married or had girlfriends.

 

[Swuchrow]

Most of my tops were bi and the majority of them were married. They sought out fem bottoms to get what their wives weren’t providing, that being a great blow job and a tight hole to fuck and cum in.

 

[Bianca66]

The same. I have never topped a guy.

Same again.
I have never topped a guy
I am always wearing a skirt and just WANT to be fucked

 

[newhere2learn]

I am bi married. I have always been a bottom with men.

Most of the tops I have been with, and there are many, are married to women that don’t give them what they need.

This. When married and in a sexless and loveless marriage, eager bottoms were my hunting ground.

 

[Sunnyade]

I don’t know but the “straight” men I’ve been with were tops. I’m a total bottom so that may be

The only straight guy I've been with fucked me before I fucked him. Its always a switch session when we get together.

 

[justdarrin]

I know some gay men that are strictly tops. I have know many tops that are bi...or certainly not out as bisexual men.
I am a bi man that loves bottoming and topping. Why? Because I love sex.

 

[chapter6plan]

I am an alpha during daily life. Being a submissive fem with dominant men brings a needed balance.

I don’t have an emotional attachment to my tops like I do with a female. My attachment is with being a submissive fem to a hard cock and being used for someone’s pleasure.

I think this is true for many of us guys ... for me, the Mrs will not be dom, so I am the dom by default. The only chance I have of being a sub is with another guy. I'll bottom for you in a heartbeat. But I also consider myself versatile. Ideally, we would trade positions regularly. IMHO, those are the best videos ... when two guys take turns topping each other. That said, I'd gladly submit to an assertive woman and let her use me as she wishes.

 

[Escierto]

That said, I'd gladly submit to an assertive woman and let her use me as she wishes.

Yes, it is absolute bliss.

 

[KinkStevens]

Love women. Never topped a guy. Bottomed for TSs. I’d only fuck women, sissies, and TS girls