Are there any lesbian couples who practise anal intercourse?

[slipinin]

I don’t mean just using vibrators or nightsticks etc., but where one person does the thrusting with the hips and the partner receives it in the anus.

Can you recommend any good/effective strapons?

Or has anybody used a proxy male like a gay friend or a work colleague?

 

[sweetandkinky]

Hi

My girlfriend has an excellent strap on. Are you male or female? as of course it makes a difference to the type etc

s&k

 

[PredatorSmile]

Before I met my current boyfriend, I used to date a girl who was very much into anal play but I didn't let her penetrate me. THAT honor is reserved for the one I love and I wasn't in love with her.

 

[slipinin]

" Are you male or female? as of course it makes a difference to the type etc"

Perhaps you could explain which types are best suited to both male and female anal anatomy, and what differences it makes. What is best for each.

And I guess no one has experience with using a proxy male.

 

[Wolfman1982]

slipinin: PredatorSmile is female but I don´t know about sweetandkinky or maybe I haven´t noticed his , or hers forum posts that much to discover is he is a she, or she is a he

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Not a lesbian. But I am curious about anal sex among them.

And I'm not one to limit anal to a serious relationship. I just limit bareback to that kind of relationship.

 

[Etoile]

A proxy male?! My goodness, I've never heard of such a thing. Seriously.

 

[slipinin]

"A proxy male?! My goodness, I've never heard of such a thing. Seriously."

Me neither.

I just wondered.

 

[Etoile]

"A proxy male?! My goodness, I've never heard of such a thing. Seriously."

Me neither.

I just wondered.

I would be able to see the possibility of a lesbian couple having a threesome with a man, particularly if one or both partners is bisexual, but the concept of "we're just using this guy as a substitute cock" sounds more like a male fantasy to me, and particularly a submissive one at that. I can't fathom the concept of "proxy male" for anything but conception.

 

[kbate]

I can't fathom the concept of "proxy male" for anything but conception.

And even that idea is unappealing.

 

[chun_gong]

A proxy male?! My goodness, I've never heard of such a thing. Seriously.

Agreed - it seems to defeat at least part of the purpose. I guess I am making the terrible assumption of intimacy.

 

[ammre]

I would be able to see the possibility of a lesbian couple having a threesome with a man, particularly if one or both partners is bisexual, but the concept of "we're just using this guy as a substitute cock" sounds more like a male fantasy to me, and particularly a submissive one at that. I can't fathom the concept of "proxy male" for anything but conception.

amen!

 

[Etoile]

slipinin...I don't want you to feel bad that we're all putting your idea down, or anything. As you can see, it's not something most women would go for. I really do think it's just a male fantasy, not something anybody would ever do. It's a perfectly normal male fantasy...just not one that's likely to be actualized.

Also, I think a gay man would be about as disinterested in being a proxy male to a woman as she would be in having him for one.

Work colleague...that's a whole different mess, yikes!

 

[slipinin]

Thanks to everyone who replied to this thread.

I think I have my answer now.

 

[MissBri]

 

[Etoile]

I actually do know more than one woman who identify as lesbian but play with men on occasion. However, I don't think the situations are anything like what the thread starter had in mind.

LOL, so do I - lots of that kind of thing in the leather community. But many of them are poly and wouldn't necessarily consider themselves part of a couple, although some do (and then also play on the side). But the "proxy" thing is usually called a dildo, IME.