Any Oscar winning Fake orgasm performers in the house [ ladies ]

[ewopper]

How many Ladies in here has given award winning fake orgasm performances? how do you know it was an award winning one is when the guy thinks he wore that pussy out, answer only if it was a past love we don't want to jeopardize any ongoing relationships lol

 

[Qina]

Lol, not a past love, but I 'fessed up so no problem there. It actually started because one day my body wasn't in the mood (I say my body 'cause my mind alwasy is!) and it was taking a long time. I could tell he was getting tired and didn't want to hurt his feelings so... It kinda grew until I was ding it all the time. Just a couple of weeks ago we were in one of those late night confess all talks and he mentioned that I sometimes fake. I admitted it but said a little too much. It turned out that he thought I was faking when I wasn't and thought I wasn't when I was. Does that mean my fakes are better than the real thing?

 

[Raine D8]

How many Ladies in here has given award winning fake orgasm performances?

Every single one of us. Can you tell the diff? How many award winning erections have you had? Cum sputters in women by the way, it doesn't explode

 

[Munachi]

well never on purpose anyway... though there have been times when i think the guy thought i had an orgasm though i hadn't... i wasn't trying to fake it... but when i enjoy myself even without orgasm i guess i can sound like i have one... at least from their remarks afterwards it sounded as if they thought i had one...

 

[ewopper]

Lol, not a past love, but I 'fessed up so no problem there. It actually started because one day my body wasn't in the mood (I say my body 'cause my mind alwasy is!) and it was taking a long time. I could tell he was getting tired and didn't want to hurt his feelings so... It kinda grew until I was ding it all the time. Just a couple of weeks ago we were in one of those late night confess all talks and he mentioned that I sometimes fake. I admitted it but said a little too much. It turned out that he thought I was faking when I wasn't and thought I wasn't when I was. Does that mean my fakes are better than the real thing?

To the untrained mind it well may be, for years i went with a woman and the sex was great but she wasn't a moaner or groaner, the only way I could tell she was having an orgasm was her bdy would actually quiver uncontrolably like her legs and arms and torso betraying each other. I never got her to be vocal but she would also grip me with her vaginal walls and draw the cum out of me when she did that it was awesome

 

[ewopper]

Every single one of us. Can you tell the diff? How many award winning erections have you had? Cum sputters in women by the way, it doesn't explode

If I can't get a full erection I don't dance lolI used to explode until i got older and i still do occasionally but not like when I was younger. read my reply to Quinaas to can I tell the difference mostly I'd say no except those signs

 

[dollface007]

You asked the ladies in the house to respond, but I think if a guy can fake it, he's really the one who deserves the Oscar.

 

[ewopper]

You asked the ladies in the house to respond, but I think if a guy can fake it, he's really the one who deserves the Oscar.

Ihave to agree but when I get ugly in the face we know what's cumming next

 

[sexyjenn]

I've never faked and don't think I ever will. but Oh don't you dare stop until I'm finished though lol.

 

[bisexplicit]

I am an excellent faker. *shrugs* But, it really isn't that hard to fake.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

I am an excellent faker. *shrugs* But, it really isn't that hard to fake.

ditto, I can fake the quivering and muscle spasms of my vagina too

unfortunately, have faked more than not

 

[Qina]

To the untrained mind it well may be, for years i went with a woman and the sex was great but she wasn't a moaner or groaner, the only way I could tell she was having an orgasm was her bdy would actually quiver uncontrolably like her legs and arms and torso betraying each other. I never got her to be vocal but she would also grip me with her vaginal walls and draw the cum out of me when she did that it was awesome

I can fake the quivering and muscle spasms of my vagina too

Yup. I'm not a moaner by any means. If I make one little wimper, it must have been the best I've had! I can quiver and spasm when I'm not even in the mood though. Quite a few times, I've had to fake because he missed the real one and kept going!

 

[karndav]

I fake all the time. I haven't had many orgasms since i found out my husband was chatting and having phone sex without me knowing about it. Also found out he has had a female friend for four years (completely platonic) that I had no clue about.) They have become best friends although theylive 400 miles apart although they did meet once while my husband was traveling. This whole thing came as a complete surprise to me and devastated me but I am bouncing back and dealing with it. But I am still faking it at this point so I guess I am not dealing with it as well I think I am.

 

[MissGabriella]

I fake it sometimes. It's really pretty easy. Just lots of moaning and tensing all timed appropriately. I guess it also depends on how well the person knows you.

I try to steer clear of guys I have to fake it with.

 

[M's girl]

ditto, I can fake the quivering and muscle spasms of my vagina too

unfortunately, have faked more than not

And we're obviously very good at it too.... Men desperately want to believe we can't. That's because they can't tell the difference and that is why we probably would (all) be nominated for an Oscar! It's sad but true.

Even sadder is that most men don't even want to know because they feel it would say something about their performance. Well, in some cases that is true...

 

[naughtygirl69s]

I fake all the time. I haven't had many orgasms since i found out my husband was chatting and having phone sex without me knowing about it. Also found out he has had a female friend for four years (completely platonic) that I had no clue about.) They have become best friends although theylive 400 miles apart although they did meet once while my husband was traveling. This whole thing came as a complete surprise to me and devastated me but I am bouncing back and dealing with it. But I am still faking it at this point so I guess I am not dealing with it as well I think I am.

perhaps you shouldn't have sex than?

Obviously he's not getting what he needed at home. If he has a platonic friend and you're upset about that, there's WAY more issues than you NOT having an orgasm.

Staying in it for the kids, is NOT the answer, btw.

 

[M's girl]

perhaps you shouldn't have sex than?

Obviously he's not getting what he needed at home. If he has a platonic friend and you're upset about that, there's WAY more issues than you NOT having an orgasm.

Staying in it for the kids, is NOT the answer, btw.

I agree on the first and last part but frankly, the middle part sucks! "Obviously he's not getting what he needed at home"... well, isn't that the common excuse for most men who cheat? If you're committed to someone and you want that relationship to last you communicate and tell each other what you need. And then you agree to disagree, you negociate, give a little and take a little. But you don't go looking for it outside the relationship. If that all failed then you get out of the relationship instead of getting your bits and pieces everywhere and making several people miserable in the proces!

I can understand where you're coming from Karen. The same thing happened to me too. I had sex with an ex-BF after I found out he had been cheating on me. I loved him soo much at the time. I didn't want to lose him. So we had sex and I cried a lot and I faked it a lot too because I knew that, otherwise, he would leave me. I know now how stupid it all was. Needless to say that relationship did not survive in the end but I can still see how trying to hold on to him was the only thing I wanted at the time. I think staying away from sex, when you are trying to get things back on track, is not the answer. But he needs to know how you feel and he needs to take that into consideration, otherwise you will feel left out, used and not taken seriously, even if you participate in this proces.

I wish the two of you (Karen and Dave) good luck and wisdom.

 

[karndav]

"perhaps you shouldn't have sex than?"

I never said it didn't feel good, just that I didn't have an orgasm. And by your way of thinking, if I stop having sex with him then we will be right back where we started from with him not getting what he needs at home.

" If he has a platonic friend and you're upset about that, there's WAY more issues than you NOT having an orgasm."

I am not upset so much about the friendship part but the fact that it was kept secret from me for so long.

"Obviously he's not getting what he needed at home."

Thankyou so much for reinforcing what I have been feeling myself for these last few months. I have been trying to build my self esteem back up. My husband has said it was NOT my fault that i fulfilled his needs but that problem was with him.

"Staying in it for the kids, is NOT the answer, btw."

I never said I was staying in it for the kids. That is the last thing I would do. I am staying because i love my husband. I intend to resolve these issues and make things better between us.

 

[karndav]

I agree on the first and last part but frankly, the middle part sucks! "Obviously he's not getting what he needed at home"... well, isn't that the common excuse for most men who cheat? If you're committed to someone and you want that relationship to last you communicate and tell each other what you need. And then you agree to disagree, you negociate, give a little and take a little. But you don't go looking for it outside the relationship. If that all failed then you get out of the relationship instead of getting your bits and pieces everywhere and making several people miserable in the proces!

I can understand where you're coming from Karen. The same thing happened to me too. I had sex with an ex-BF after I found out he had been cheating on me. I loved him soo much at the time. I didn't want to lose him. So we had sex and I cried a lot and I faked it a lot too because I knew that, otherwise, he would leave me. I know now how stupid it all was. Needless to say that relationship did not survive in the end but I can still see how trying to hold on to him was the only thing I wanted at the time. I think staying away from sex, when you are trying to get things back on track, is not the answer. But he needs to know how you feel and he needs to take that into consideration, otherwise you will feel left out, used and not taken seriously, even if you participate in this proces.

I wish the two of you (Karen and Dave) good luck and wisdom.

We are communicating more that we probably ever have in our entire marriage (except I haven't told him I am not cumming-I don't want to hurt his feeolings or his ego) I don't think staying away from sex is the answer either. I really think that somehow we will work this all out. We have been married for 23 years and together for 25 and I do love him with all my heart.

 

[M's girl]

We are communicating more that we probably ever have in our entire marriage (except I haven't told him I am not cumming-I don't want to hurt his feeolings or his ego) I don't think staying away from sex is the answer either. I really think that somehow we will work this all out. We have been married for 23 years and together for 25 and I do love him with all my heart.

I know how you feel and if it feels right to you..... well, then go ahead with it. I was wondering if you were faking orgasms before this all happened with him too. Were you able to reach orgasms always with him before you finding out about the other women?

I know how tempting it can be to fake, and I'm VERY good at it too. Sometimes the sex was so good and still I was not able to reach orgasm. I think women (also simply because they can) tend to fake it to please their man, as some kind of reward for the effort. Also, I have noticed that some men can't handle the fact they can't bring you to orgasm and start blaming it on you (the woman). I know what others would say about this but sometimes it's a snap decision you make and can't bulge out from once you've started because it's even worse (or so I've heard) to admit you have been doing it all along.

You sign your posts with Karen and Dave so I was wondering if he (Dave) is on LIT too and if he reads what you post...?

 

[HandFan]

I faked when I was younger and dumber....I really thought that it would devistate my partners if they thought I wasn't having orgasms....now I know better...I wasn't having orgasms with them because they just didn't care if I had one or not...and there I was, all worried about their feelings. After my last fake, I vowed to never, ever lie about sex again, whether what I was saying was ego bruising or not. I find it funny that after I became completely honest and after I met my hubbie and he gave me my first shared orgasm....that he didn't believe me. He believes me now, but then he didn't.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

I agree on the first and last part but frankly, the middle part sucks! "Obviously he's not getting what he needed at home"... well, isn't that the common excuse for most men who cheat? If you're committed to someone and you want that relationship to last you communicate and tell each other what you need. And then you agree to disagree, you negociate, give a little and take a little. But you don't go looking for it outside the relationship. If that all failed then you get out of the relationship instead of getting your bits and pieces everywhere and making several people miserable in the proces!

I didn't mean he shoudl go out and get what he wants elsewhere, I meant they need to evaluate their relationsihp a little better to figure out why he has to find these women online in the frist place.

It's the common excuse for MEN OR WOMEN and why they cheat.

It's like gospel truth.
1) if your partner doesnt give you what you need you will get it elsewhere
2) if you dont give your partner what he/she needs they will get it elsewhere
3) CHILDREN COME FIRST

Now with the technology and cyber and phone sex, porn etc all being so easily acceptable it really just change the boundries a bit.

I wont get into that here.

MY point was. SHe's stated that she's having sex with him, but can't have an orgasm cuz she's still upset about the cheating, but yet she loves him and wants to say with him so she's working on it.

Why not go back to basics.

just my view of it

 

[Eilan]

It's like gospel truth.
1) if your partner doesnt give you what you need you will get it elsewhere
2) if you dont give your partner what he/she needs they will get it elsewhere
3) CHILDREN COME FIRST

FWIW, because of my own experiences in my first marriage, I tend to be of the opinion that problems outside the bedroom cause problems in the bedroom. If one partner isn't getting what he/she needs (sexually) from the other, the root of the problem isn't necessarily sexual.

This isn't always the case, of course. YMMV.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

FWIW, because of my own experiences in my first marriage, I tend to be of the opinion that problems outside the bedroom cause problems in the bedroom. If one partner isn't getting what he/she needs (sexually) from the other, the root of the problem isn't necessarily sexual.

This isn't always the case, of course. YMMV.

I agree. When everything is good in the bedroom, other problems seem trivial, when it's bad in the bedroom, other problems are more severe.

And when i said when a partner isn't getting what they need, I wasn't only referring to sexual needs. I meant emotional needs as well. I think it's difficult to have sex with someone when you aren't connected with them emotionally.

We've all had angry sex, but if your sig other treats with you disrespect day in and day out, and doesn't make you feel wanted, needed, cherished, special and loved, you're going to have a hard time connecting with them emotinally to enjoy sex with them very often.

I just find it ironic when spouses are surprised to find out they had been cheated on, weather it had been via phone sex, cyber or the real thing. MOre often than not, the signs were there, they just ignored them.

Humans needs to connect to people on an emotional level and if they're not getting that at home, they WILL get it elsewhere, weather it be through a sexual encounter or a plantonic friend they see often.

 

[karndav]

I did have orgasms before all this. Maybe not 100% of the time but i would say at least 80-90% but I didn't fake it then.

When people say we weren't communicating they are probably right but are sex life was very good. At least i thought so. We made love 4-6 times a week and I thought i was pretty open to what he suggested. Outside of the bedroom the only major thing I thought we had trouble communicating about was our oldest son who is bi-polar. he is very frustrating and is a constant source off tension in our lives. The platonic friend he made over the internet and called all the time he said was the one person he could vent to. As it turned out her ex-husband (husband at the time) is also bi-polar so they had alot in common in the beginning and their friendship just took off.

Dave admits he should of been talking to me but I have told him it is ok to have a friend to talk to it was the secrecy that bothered me. As for the phone sex and cybering i still can't wrap my head around it, if everything was alright in the bedroom as he says it was, then why did he need it??

As to why my lit name is Karndav, when i signed up I couldn't think of another name, and I used both so that if he wanted to write on the boards he could. He has been coming to this site for a long time reading the stories. I tell him I post but so far he hasn't read any of them at all.