Any one else have more fun alone ?

[FataMorgana]

I can kill spiders! I hate them, but I can kill them.

Quarantine was VERY easy for me.

They still frighten me when they're dead.

 

[twister947]

I can kill spiders! I hate them, but I can kill them.

Quarantine was VERY easy for me.

I coasted through lockdown.
I slay my own dragons.

 

[Garnate]

They still frighten me when they're dead.

That's only because they're hell-spawned nightmares that know voodoo and are in charge of mortgage rates. Other than that....

 

[Bisexguy70]

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Totally makes sense. You’re in good company. I think a lot of it boils down to different drive types. Some people are easily aroused and enjoy the exploration of sex while others dabble here and there but ultimately decide there are other things in life worth their attention.

You strike me as the curious and sexual enjoyment type and so you find yourself coming home to your body, how it feels, what it enjoys, what else is there to feel etc.

But your partner doesn’t seem to be on the same pager or at least wanting to do that exploration with you.

What is it you want from Lit? Camaraderie? Answers? Excitement?

Many of us are in similar boats trying to figure out what we want, why we want it, and how to get it with or without our partners.

I agree with you 100%. For many years i tried various forms of touch, masturbation and exploring. I learned alot about what i liked, what aroused me. Im never afraid to share that with my wife. Granted we dont have sex any more, however she has giving me incredible hand jobs. I think she honed in on watching me touch myself along with her touching me. Probably a good practice is to watch your partner please themselves. Its hard expressing what you desire sexually but once you get past the fear and open up, it makes for great sex. Obviously from my bio ive played with men too. I have had times where i watched the guy please himself and i just repeated what i observed to make him go crazy.