Any DOM Women out there?

[A-nonimous]

Is it me, or do most of the threads suppose that the DOM is the male? Or am I in the minority? Personally I like a powerful woman. I get really turned on by being sub to a DOM. Hurt me. Put me in my place and i am in heaven.

 

[psiberzerker]

Chalk it up to social programming...

I don't assume, I ask. Sometimes I have to appologise for my pronoun-ciation because that's the way our language is hooked up.
There's plenty of Dommes here, I made fast friends with one of them. If it's any consolation, I preferr Dommes to the other three basic sexualities, but that's me. I like women better because the plumbing tends to match up, and I like them tough so they can stand toe to toe with me.
Unfortunately, the hard part is finding a Domme that doesn't want a boy toy. I don't wear collars, and I don't submit. I have to be dominated, and too many girls don't want to go to that much trouble.
{Sigh}.

 

[lark sparrow]

This specific board has more male Dom/female submissive combinations than it does female Domme/male submissive, but there are several Dommes who regularly post here, and a couple who post daily, contributing much to this forum. Keep your eyes open!

 

[A-nonimous]

Definitely keeping my eyes open. And I will continue too. I am relatively new to the board, and so I am learning all the time. Any DOM femms out there, feel free to drop me a line.

 

[Netzach]

I'm a Dominant and I'm sufficiently hooked up, thanks, since that's what you seem to be interested in.

However, you will find me sticking to he she pronouns for everything and assiduously avoiding the terms Domme because who cares whether it's a boy or girl Dominant, really. Likewise, subs come in all genders, thank God.

Except, contradictorily, I like the sound of "Masterette" don't ask me why.

It's not that there are so many more Mdom femsub couples and people out there, it's just that I think they tend to forget that their experience is not universal, while the rest of us can't quite forget that we seem to be in the minority.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Chalk it up to social programming...

I don't assume, I ask. Sometimes I have to appologise for my pronoun-ciation because that's the way our language is hooked up.
There's plenty of Dommes here, I made fast friends with one of them. If it's any consolation, I preferr Dommes to the other three basic sexualities, but that's me. I like women better because the plumbing tends to match up, and I like them tough so they can stand toe to toe with me.
Unfortunately, the hard part is finding a Domme that doesn't want a boy toy. I don't wear collars, and I don't submit. I have to be dominated, and too many girls don't want to go to that much trouble.
{Sigh}.

That is what happens when you play with "girls"!

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Re: Chalk it up to social programming...

That is what happens when you play with "girls"!

Not all Dommes collar. I have three part-time subbys and they are not collared and never will be. I am reserving My collar for my 24/7 submissive.

Now a play collar is another subject... there is nothing like having a collared sub following you around, on his hands and knees!

 

[lark sparrow]

Originally posted by Netzach
I'm a Dominant and I'm sufficiently hooked up, thanks, since that's what you seem to be interested in.

LOL that's why I didn't name names.

However, you will find me sticking to he she pronouns for everything and assiduously avoiding the terms Domme because who cares whether it's a boy or girl Dominant, really. Likewise, subs come in all genders, thank God.

Domme was a hint for him, at what he'd likely be looking for in print.

Except, contradictorily, I like the sound of "Masterette" don't ask me why.

It's not that there are so many more Mdom femsub couples and people out there, it's just that I think they tend to forget that their experience is not universal, while the rest of us can't quite forget that we seem to be in the minority.

lol guilty. I almost mentioned that heterosexuality and static Dom or sub were not the only configurations, but decided to "forget about it" as off topic and certainly interest.

 

[A-nonimous]

Thanks for the replies everyone, and Lark got the hint correctly, I am curious regarding Masterettes.

My original comment was in regards to several of the posts from yesterday with terms such as "Ladies, what would you do if your DOM did..." etc... And so I was curious if it was naturally accepted that the majority of the DOM/subs are MALE/female as most people might think in society. But I don't know, and was wondering if BDSM might have it's own rules.

As for looking, lets just say that I would love to start a dialogue with a DOMME. I have always been facinated and stimulated by the lifestyle and want to learn more. Anything else would be between me and HER (at the moment I am only interested in DOMMEs). I would only share if SHE wanted me too.

 

[Goddess Helena]

Masterettes?


I am called Mistress.

I am a Domme.

I am female.


Helena

 

[Ebonyfire]

Masterettes?


I am called Mistress.

I am a Domme.

I am female.


Helena

Hi Helena, I decided to let "Masterette" slide and not post at all. If you can't get the lingo right.....

 

[Goddess Helena]

Hi Helena, I decided to let "Masterette" slide and not post at all. If you can't get the lingo right.....

Hello, Ebony.
You know me, I can never let a boy get away with poor word choice.
Although, I do agree with you.


Helena

I now return to lurk

 

[A-nonimous]

Hello Goddess Helena.

My profound apologies for my incorrect terminology. I should be punished for my ineptitude. I am a mere novice and unlearned about the Lingo, but am interested in learning.

Any direction or instruction that you might offer would be strictly followed.

Thank you again Mistress, Goddess Helena.

 

[Goddess Helena]

I am called Helena on this board.

Only My pets are given the honor of calling Me Mistress.

If you read through the library thread at the top of this page, you will learn much.

You are not Mine to punish. Be grateful for that small mercy, A-nonimous.


Helena

 

[A-nonimous]

A thousand apologies Helena. I will not make that mistake again. Although I am intrigued what the punishment would be if your pets acted in that manner.

 

[Goddess Helena]

My pets know their place before they are allowed to sit at My feet.

Go read, A-nonimous.


Helena

 

[submanslut]

Re: Chalk it up to social programming...

Unfortunately, the hard part is finding a Domme that doesn't want a boy toy. I don't wear collars, and I don't submit. I have to be dominated, and too many girls don't want to go to that much trouble.
{Sigh}.

See I am almost direct opposite.
Dominate me once and then ill be yours for anything else (boytoy stuff or true domination)

just wanted to throw in my $0.02.

sms

 

[aerofreak]

I just wanted to add, that here are 2 more Dom women, my girlfriend and I both post here.

 

[angelique127]

ANGEL-LICK

DON'T YOU LOVE THE WAY IT SLIDES OFF YOUR TONGUE?