Another typical girl problem...im gonna regret it.

yayati said:
are u being humorous dude.

i mean thats a dangerous tactic is it not ?

i mean i could lose her, as a friend even...

is that worth it, because of my own 'mis-perceptions' ?

i dont know. i might be getting mixed signals. on the otherhand she is hot and damn well worth it. we share lots of things in common together. i dont know. maybe she is giving me all the signals and really wants me and maybe im being a wimp.

I am not usually an assertive person. and acting assertive may scare her away. so i dont know. any other advice ?
please continue:)

I'm kicking myself, yayati for having missed your threads so far.

You'll end up with a string of georgeou sgirlf friends for life whom you never touch. This is great as long as you have one whom you shack up with long term. I've great confidence you'll meet one who makes it clear to you what she wants.

Guessing anothers desires is fatal and waiting for the other to guess yours is terrorism.
 
Sheesh people, TALK TO HER ABOUT IT!! Something like "I think you're pretty great, and I'm glad we're friends but is there anything more here?"

No pressure just a question. AND if the thought hasn't occured to her before she'll definately be thinking about it then. I can recall a couple occasions where woman I've known and pal'd around with let it be known they were interested in more, and generally that's an attractive thing. Hey, we all want to be loved right??

Good luck...although I sure hope you're less argumentative in real life than on here...some of your posts are pretty damn confrontational. That probably wouldn't go over too well with ANY girl of ANY race.
 
yayati, You say you two have had really good conversations and consider each good friends.

Good realtionships start off as good friends.

I would have a serious conversation with her, and tell her how you feel. I would also add, if she didn't feel the same, you would still want to be the good friends that you are.

Honesty is important in developing good relationships. She might be waiting for you to make a move, and might be thinking you are not attracted to her sexually.

Open up, start talking. It's the only way you will hear how she feels, and IMO that's what you need to know!

Good Luck, as nike says, JUST DO IT


:)
 
but i reckon u spend too much time on this board. have you no friends to relay this information. it seems highly irregular to post this kind of info on a board, does it not ? it seems you do not have access to friends.
 
This is the funniest thread I have read in a week!

I LOVE it!

(Sorry yayati, I mean, if you're serious and all. But, really, you've been spending so much time with her - and you don't have a clue????)
 
u do not realise it, but this literotica is like a deadly five-headed snake, all the while u think ppl care for each other here. No they dont. they are perverts here. they are sick ppl.
 
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