Another rant

[CaseyBlack]

Someone sent me a DM asking a question. The question was asking something that I had already explicitly stated in another thread. I mean, if I already said yes, why would I answer your questions privately? After I ignored him for a few hours, he sent another message, "Guess not." So I responded. Here's what I wrote:

You have no bio. No picture. No posts. And you basically restated exactly what I wrote in one of my posts.

Why in the fuck would I respond to you? Seriously.

Guys, don't be this guy. Be original in what you write. Don't just rephrase something that has already been said into a question and expect a response. Introduce yourself. Ask about the post (but not just rewording the very same fucking thing into a question). Tell me about you. If I don't respond, take the L and move on. Get over yourself.

 

[ycym]

It would not be a big problem, but if you think how much DMs the women here gets, really, all, please put more brain in your DMs, guys.

 

[CaseyBlack]

It would not be a big problem, but if you think how much DMs the women here gets, really, all, please put more brain in your DMs, guys.

Right? It would be different if I was dealing with 1 or 2 a day even. But dozens and sometimes hundreds in a day, I'm not going to answer things like that at all.

 

[CaseyBlack]

You have to catch my attention somehow. Age is important but it's not the only thing. You're a 51-year old male. Great. That's a start but not enough for a response.

Give me your age, are you married, do you have kids, what do you do for work, maybe a couple of kinks.

Don't overload the message. I've received a few that are paragraphs long. I'm not reading all that. Give me a couple or three sentences.

 

[Zrosey]

But dozens and sometimes hundreds in a day,

 

[CaseyBlack]

Most go unanswered.

 

[SusanHoward]

I would never have expected, but some guys on this site are vile! Stay strong, girl!