Anniversaries : When should they be

[sexy-girl]

just am curious ... lisa and my anniversary was this saturday just gone (we had a great weekend) our anniversary that we celebrate is on the day that we first said hello to each other ... we actually had about a 2min conversation that day and that is all

i wondered if its slightly unusual to celebrate an anniversary that way rather than the day when we first became romantically involved (was about a week and a bit later for us)

 

[Tantanah]

Whatever works for you is great.

I think it's kind of nice to have several different anniversaries. The day you met, the day you first realized you loved each other, the day you moved in together...whatever it is. It's kind of like always having a reason to celebrate being together...always a reminder to be grateful for the little things.

I'm just a hopeless romantic. Sorry.

Happy Anniversary!

 

[sexy-girl]

thank you


and we also have quite a few anniversaries that is why we get another miny one in a week and a bit


we even at the start of the relationship used to celebrate weekly on the weekday that we met ... we still do sometimes when we feel in a present giving mood ... we're pretty sappy

 

[Calamity Jane]

I think it's amazing you both remember the lil days like that. I'm damn lucky if Mr PCG remembers birthdays and wedding anniversaries without several reminders and the info being written in his planner.

I'm cursed with an amazing memory. I know exactly when we met, what we were wearing, the first movie we saw together, what was on TV the first time he kissed me.

I'm a total nerd.

 

[lovetoread]

I use the day we met,not when we became involved.

Its easier for me to remember.

 

[brokenbrainwave]

I keep telling myself that if on December 12, 1990 if she'd just kept on walking after that final instead of waiting to see how I did.....do I really need to finish this thought?

 

[CoolidgEffect]

That is really neat that you celebrate the day you first met. We celebrate our wedding anniversary. I remember the month we met and the conversation, but I can't pin point the date. There are other anniversaries that we smile about and remember, but no real celebration.

So how do you celebrate? Another 2 min. conversation?

 

[Calamity Jane]

I keep telling myself that if on December 12, 1990 if she'd just kept on walking after that final instead of waiting to see how I did.....do I really need to finish this thought?

You need a mental health counselor.

 

[brokenbrainwave]

You need a mental health counselor.

tell me somthing the local court system has not told me.

actually the finish of that thought could have been that my life would not be as complete as it is, but I aint confessin to nutin!

 

[Calamity Jane]

tell me somthing the local court system has not told me.

LOL

 

[sexy-girl]

So how do you celebrate? Another 2 min. conversation?

a bit more than that


i guess lisa gets it easy for having to remember though ... my birthday is on valentines day so thats easy enough to remember and before our anniversary i always get pretty excited and start mentioning it a couple of weeks before


im sure she wouldn't forget either though anyway


i dont know if we'd ever get married with a proper wedding ... maybe ... i wonder if we'd celebrate both anniversarys equally important though then ... maybe we should just get married on our anniversary to make it even more special

 

[Secret Kate]

To keep it to one anniversary

my husband and I married on the 3rd anniversary of the day we met - He said he would only be able to remember one - so we lucked out and it fell on a Saturday on the year we planned to marry.

You would think my birthday would be easy for him to remember as well - since it's 3 days before his mother's - but sometimes he seems to forget - or he just forgets to get me anything! Not this year though!!! Nice digital camera - that I'm still learning how to use. And a big party this past Saturday for me and his mom.

 

[sexy-girl]

it was our 3rd year this time