Anal sex

[Guest]

Hey,
My gfriend and I are ventured into the untravelled waters of anal sex. We are both very excited about it and find the whole idea incredibly stimulating. I just wanted to know if anyone had any real good advice to offer. Also, not to brag, but I do have a larger dick then normal, any advice on that, and finally, what about cumming in her ass, do any women really like that, and is it good. Thanks for all the advice.

 

[hotNnasty]

I love anal sex! Just remember you can never have to much lube
First time I did it, we watched a porn and followed suit.

 

[Bindii]

Take it slow, make sure she is relaxed, plenty of foreplay, and lube, lube, lube!!!

Its also a good idea to stretch her a bit first with your fingers and or toys before attempting to enter her....in some cases this may be done over a few weeks beforehand.

 

[Lust Engine]

There isn't more of a buzzkill than giving the lady some pain so I suggest going EXTREMELY slow & delicate. Lube, lube, lube, lube, LUBE! Be patient and I hope that she also understands that the both of you might not be successful the first time around. Take your time...!

 

[Marti]

Lots of foreplay and lots of K-Y! This will be the most enjoyable experience of your life if you take your time and be gentle. She will relax and move into you, trust me. Don't push her, turns a woman off. Close your eyes and enjoy!! Cummin inside of her is fine, never a problem. Have fun!!!!

 

[amnesia]

I'm not sure the other replies made it clear, so...


...you can never have enough lube.



Ahem.

 

[Lust Engine]

Say? Has anyone mentioned the use of lube???

You'd think we all owned stock in KY or Astroglide by the way we're endorsing that stuff! Sheesh!

 

[Marti]

ANAL SEX

Thank you, Anal Sex is not only the most enjoyable thing I have ever tried but, there are so many positions that make it even more enjoyable. Truly, Marti (female)

 

[Lust Engine]

Re: ANAL SEX

Thank you, Anal Sex is not only the most enjoyable thing I have ever tried but, there are so many positions that make it even more enjoyable. Truly, Marti (female)

Ahhh yes, variety is the spice of life! And it's so much fun getting well marinated.

Anal is just one of many things. If I only live long enough I might even try everything!

 

[cliffchuff]

Letting her come onto you is a great suggestion.

The first time I sat on a strp-on the girl just teased me and let my sphinctre slowly relax enough to slide in ever increasing slips onto it. Untill finall whosh I relaxed and sunk to the hilt.

What a rush, she said It was exactly like watching a woman dilate for fisting and it turned her on immensly.

I recomend the experience to any man wanting to try anal sex as a way of feeling the plesasures and posible pains of anal, respect your partner.

 

[Marti]

ANAL SEX

If you have never tried anal sex you have no idea what you are missing out on. This is the ultimate rush that you shall never forget or ever want to do without. There is still so much to try and learn when you are playing. Keep an open mind and remember to ALWAYS make sure your mate is COMPLETEDLY satisfied.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

FUN FUN FUN

It's definitely fun for both sides. Just use lots of lube. Take it slow and listen to her. Sometimes you may need to even follow her lead. If done properly, it can be glorious for both of you.



PowrDragn

 

[Gil_T2]

Hey,
My gfriend and I are ventured into the untravelled waters of anal sex. We are both very excited about it and find the whole idea incredibly stimulating. I just wanted to know if anyone had any real good advice to offer. Also, not to brag, but I do have a larger dick then normal, any advice on that, and finally, what about cumming in her ass, do any women really like that, and is it good. Thanks for all the advice.

Great news that your G/F is interested there are many thing you need to know.
1.Make her relaxed as possible.
2.Have lots of WATER BASED LUBE handy.
3.Eat her pussy and slowly work a finger into her butt as you go and well lubed butt too.
4.As she gets used to your finger add another one, if your not sure she's ready ASK HER she will know how she is doing.
5.You should be able to get 2 fingers in her pussy and 2in her butt
keep going slowly and tell her to let you know when she is ready.
6.MORE LUBE (don't use baby oil or similar as they can cause infection)
7.Lube both your cock & her butt, get her into a SPOON position or DOGGY and slowly & gently work the head in, It will likely hurt the first few time but with patience by both and getting her to relax will all help.
8.Once the heads in stop and tell her to let you know when she's ready to take you deeper and tell her to push back so she is in control of you filling her butt. OR if she wants you to take control little bit deeper each push and rest there to let her butt muscles get used to it.
9.If she says it's hurting to much stop and try another time because if you hurt her she won't want to try again.

All the ladies I'vehad say that they enjoy cum in their butts because it COOLS it nicely.Once she gets into anal she will be able to cum from it and every lady I've had regular anal with all say it's a better ORGASM.

 

[Guest]

ok, so this may turn the discussion a little but after readin all this stuff it really wann do this for him. problem is, i have hemorrhoids which is rather painful in itself. any ideas?

 

[Guest]

Anal sex is great for both. Don't forget about lube and for the most part listen to her, not only will she enjoy it but you will too.
TAKE YOUR TIME....ENJOY. I seem to stay harder longer during anal sex than i do during regular sex. It's not a turnoff thats for sure. Pay attention to her.

 

[Bindii]

ok, so this may turn the discussion a little but after readin all this stuff it really wann do this for him. problem is, i have hemorrhoids which is rather painful in itself. any ideas?

I don't kow the answer to this one.....but my guess would be that anal sex may not be for you.

Why not start another thread asking this question, you will probably get more responses this way.

 

[Gil_T2]

ANAL SEX

VERY IMPORTANT TO WASH YOUR COCK REAL CLEAN before putting it anywhere after anal sex

 

[MsTerious]

Great advice Gil!!!


oh, and.........



LUBE!!!

 

[Kayr]

Well, being an avid fan of anal sex, I'll dish out my $.02

First and foremost make sure you girlfriend is eager and willing to try it. If she's just "sorta" into it, wait, or tease her enough to get her to the point of WANTING IT bad. The more turned on she is the better chance you'll have of her enjoying it and offering it up again.

Personally, I enjoy standing in front of a woman with my hard cock pressed against her stomach, and reach my hands around behind her, kneading her soft fleshy cheeks while kissing her, tongues bouncing against each other inside our mouths. Then I might trace my fingertip down her spine, pausing slightly at the top of her ass, and then slip my finger into her buttcrack, poking in that nice smooth crevice and gauge her reaction. If she's turned on by it, I'll work my finger down further between her cheeks and slide my finger up and down her nice warm ass. By this time, we're both usually pretty worked up and I like to have her lie down on the bed with her legs spread open. I'll put my face in between her legs and admire the wetness on her smooth pussy which resulted from our foreplay. I usually lick into her moist slit, lapping her cunt juices, tasting them before sliding my wet tongue even lower. I like to circle my tongue around her anus, without touching it, just letting her anticipate my next move. My hands will spread her buttcheeks apart to expose her puckered hole and I'll start flicking my tongue against her asshole, swirling it around her and pressing against it lightly. The slightly pungent taste and smell of her anus really turns me on, mixed with the juices which have leaked down around her anus from her wet cunt. When I think she's ready, I'll push my tongue against her asshole, trying to force my tongue up her naughty hole. Her butthole opens to accept my invading tongue as I wiggle my tongue around inside her butt causing her to squirm on the bed and moan loudly. At times, she'll even reach down and pull my face into her ass as I'm plunging my tongue up her steamy hole, trying to feel my tongue deeper in her ass. After burying my tongue in her hot butthole and getting it nice and wet, I'll pull my tongue out and replace it with my middle finger in one long, and slow, thrust. I keep my finger inside her ass for a short while, letting her adjust to the feeling of it, as my mouth starts kissing the inside of her thighs. Finally, I'll start working my finger in and out of her hot asshole as my tongue playfully works its way back to her juicy cunt. When I sense she's ready for a second finger up her butt, I'll slide my tongue between her pussy lips, flicking across them side to side, before taking her lips into my mouth and sucking on them. Gently tugging and pulling her soft cunt lips with my mouth as I slip my second finger up her asshole. She's usually thrusting her ass off the bed and bucking against me in her excitement. After sliding both fingers in and out of her ass for a little while and feeling she's ready for my cock, I'll pull my fingers out and kiss her pussy before I stand up at the edge of the bed and guide my cockhead against her pink asshole.

You can imagine what's next.. hehe. I absolutely love anal sex with a women who enjoys it. It's an incredibly powerful feeling spurting load after load of hot cum in her ass as she's clinging tight to you, pulling you against her. Wonderful experience. Pity I've had so few of them. *sigh*

Damn, I need a girlfriend, heh.

Kayr

 

[Amfig]

ok, so this may turn the discussion a little but after readin all this stuff it really wann do this for him. problem is, i have hemorrhoids which is rather painful in itself. any ideas?

the advice given here is sound, even if you have hemorrhoids. If they are constantly painful, you may need to see a doctor, or even have surgery. If all you have is the occasional flare up, follow the advice here.

Oh, one more thing--EXTRA LUBE!

 

[Gil_T2]

I hate it when this thread drops

A little BUMP in the RUMP for the thread

 

[sheath]

PATIENCE. LUBE. PATIENCE. LUBE. PATIENCE. LUBE.

ENJOY!

s.

 

[Gil_T2]

BUMP

BUMP in the RUMP

 

[Skitten]

Lube is one of the most important use lots especially the first time. Be patient and make sure she is ready don't make he feel that she needs to do this listen to her. Make sure it is what both of you want to do. Also I would suggest you read a little about anal before you just do it.

Make sure you both know what you are gettting into and be prepared. LUBE LUBE LUBE!!!

 

[vffan]

Don't know if I am too late with my advice, but here goes

I love anal sex. My ass actually tingles with anticipation for it.

My DH and I have found that we don't care for synthetic lube (this is personal preference only!) We usually start out with oral sex which lubricates me nicely. At the same time, he will stretch my ass with his fingers.

A note on postion: we have found it easier when my head is on a pillow and my ass as high in the air as I can get it

Take your cue from her. As everyone has said...patience! I like to take the lead on anal. In fact, once he has the head in, I will tell him to stop and then I push myself back on to his cock. Just take it slow and easy. Have fun!

Let us know it goes/went

J