Anal sex prep

[mholmes123]

For those that do anal, how do you each of you prep for anal play? Wife recently mentioned that she wanted to try it and I'm curious how those that engage in it get ready. I know that some use enemas and some just make sure they are clean by showering. What works best for you?

 

[Ramone45]

It must be pretty gross and stinky. It's unfortunate for the gays

 

[BotanyBoy]

 

[lovetoread]

For those that do anal, how do you each of you prep for anal play? Wife recently mentioned that she wanted to try it and I'm curious how those that engage in it get ready. I know that some use enemas and some just make sure they are clean by showering. What works best for you?

Lube.

Lots and lots of lube.

Being tipsy helps too.

 

[CleverCowardice]

Spit on her bunghole and tell her to brace herself.

If I'm feeling generous, I might offer her my belt to bite down on.

 

[doctor_insanus]

 

[mholmes123]

I know about using plenty of lube. I'm more interested in how you prep yourself or your partner.

 

[IndieSnob]

I use their tears for lube, personally.

 

[butters]

I know about using plenty of lube. I'm more interested in how you prep yourself or your partner.

ask bronze. he's a river to his people.

 

[doctor_insanus]

http://www.ebay.com/itm/Medical-Gra...t=UK_Health_HealthCare_RL&hash=item257ac5cca5

 

[pink]

Anal is overrated.

 

[hotblue17]

For those that do anal, how do you each of you prep for anal play? Wife recently mentioned that she wanted to try it and I'm curious how those that engage in it get ready. I know that some use enemas and some just make sure they are clean by showering. What works best for you?

My advice for her would be to go to the bathroom and make sure she's clean. I don't find I need enemas. As long as she's pooped, that's usually enough. Don't be shocked if you get a little residue on you. It's only poop. You won't die. lol. Just go wash it off and move on.

Start slow. Use lots of lube and start with a single finger. Don't just push it in either... slowly rub the outside of her anus and stimulate those nerves and then push in. First to your first knuckle, then go further. If you're ok with it, let her finger you too. That way you get a feel for what it feels like and are less likely to hurt her. After she's ok with one finger, use two. You MUST listen to her. Tell her to be vocal and let you know what feels good, what hurts and what is uncomfortable. Because her ass will not make lube (like her pussy will), you will need to replenish. After she's ok with two fingers, work up to a toy. After the toy, try your cock. Spend a good 20-30 minute at each "level". Make sure she's ok with it before you move on. When you do work up to your cock, don't just shove it and start thrusting into her like you see in porn. GO SLOW! Push in slowly and pause when she says stop to let her get used to her. My advice would be to push in a little, the hold it it there. Then go in further and hold it there. After you're fully in her, then you can start thrusting in and out. Again... GO SLOW! If she likes it, she'll let you know and start pushing back on you.

If it's done right... both of you will really enjoy it. Make sure you tell her to constrict her anus while you're in her. That feels amazing!!!

Good Luck!!

 

[TheSilverLining]

 

[bronzeage]

ask bronze. he's a river to his people.

A shower and normal hygiene is all that's needed. If the thought of fecal matter is revolting to either of you, go find something else to do.

After that, it depends on the experience level. The best prep for an anal virgin(I guess there are some left) starts with the standard "housewife's friend", the kind with a gentle tapered tip. Use plenty of lube and go very slow, combined with oral and finger play. Once the vibrator is comfortable, go for one or two orgasms. For the real show, put her on her side with one knee pulled up high. Straddle her thigh and put your cock against her asshole. This position gives you maximum control and balance. Take her hand and place it against your stomach. If you push too fast, she can slow the pace. Apply gentle pressure and withdraw, each time going a little deeper. Once you are all the way in, stop and let her get comfortable again. You can keep this position or she can roll onto her back or on her knees. Her asshole will remain relaxed for about 10 to 20 minutes, so a short break is not a problem.

Stop and apply lube between orgasms(hers, not yours). The lube is for her benefit in the beginning and yours later on. Trust me on that.

 

[Ramone45]

My advice for her would be to go to the bathroom and make sure she's clean. I don't find I need enemas. As long as she's pooped, that's usually enough. Don't be shocked if you get a little residue on you. It's only poop. You won't die. lol. Just go wash it off and move on.

Start slow. Use lots of lube and start with a single finger. Don't just push it in either... slowly rub the outside of her anus and stimulate those nerves and then push in. First to your first knuckle, then go further. If you're ok with it, let her finger you too. That way you get a feel for what it feels like and are less likely to hurt her. After she's ok with one finger, use two. You MUST listen to her. Tell her to be vocal and let you know what feels good, what hurts and what is uncomfortable. Because her ass will not make lube (like her pussy will), you will need to replenish. After she's ok with two fingers, work up to a toy. After the toy, try your cock. Spend a good 20-30 minute at each "level". Make sure she's ok with it before you move on. When you do work up to your cock, don't just shove it and start thrusting into her like you see in porn. GO SLOW! Push in slowly and pause when she says stop to let her get used to her. My advice would be to push in a little, the hold it it there. Then go in further and hold it there. After you're fully in her, then you can start thrusting in and out. Again... GO SLOW! If she likes it, she'll let you know and start pushing back on you.

If it's done right... both of you will really enjoy it. Make sure you tell her to constrict her anus while you're in her. That feels amazing!!!

Good Luck!!

A shower and normal hygiene is all that's needed. If the thought of fecal matter is revolting to either of you, go find something else to do
Isn't fecal matter revolting to everyone?

 

[Tryharder62]

PLUS

 

[pink]

Do it in the shower, that is always fun and you can get clean really easy.

 

[pete]

smoke a J first.
watch a few episodes of 'spartacus'
and for god's sake, don't talk about it. NEVER talk about it. just do it.

 

[neci]

brush your teeth.

 

[Mythical_]

Anal is overrated.

bite your tongue

 

[Cade Is Here]

A shower and normal hygiene is all that's needed. If the thought of fecal matter is revolting to either of you, go find something else to do.

After that, it depends on the experience level. The best prep for an anal virgin(I guess there are some left) starts with the standard "housewife's friend", the kind with a gentle tapered tip. Use plenty of lube and go very slow, combined with oral and finger play. Once the vibrator is comfortable, go for one or two orgasms. For the real show, put her on her side with one knee pulled up high. Straddle her thigh and put your cock against her asshole. This position gives you maximum control and balance. Take her hand and place it against your stomach. If you push too fast, she can slow the pace. Apply gentle pressure and withdraw, each time going a little deeper. Once you are all the way in, stop and let her get comfortable again. You can keep this position or she can roll onto her back or on her knees. Her asshole will remain relaxed for about 10 to 20 minutes, so a short break is not a problem.

Stop and apply lube between orgasms(hers, not yours). The lube is for her benefit in the beginning and yours later on. Trust me on that.

Are you able to do this at your age? Anyways if you are capable how many viagra's have you taken to perform an act like this?

 

[bronzeage]

Are you able to do this at your age? Anyways if you are capable how many viagra's have you taken to perform an act like this?

It's nice to know you think about my cock on a Sunday afternoon. Your hands are sweating just reading that post.

I know in your fantasy world, you think attractive men have sex three or four times a day, and more if they are unemployed. It's not really like that. The key to maintaining an active sex life into your 50's is to never stop. Once a day, once a week, it's pretty much the same, you just have to stay in the game.

This is bad news for you, since to stay in the game, you have to be in the game.

 

[Kiss_me_gently]

Most people do not enjoy shit so they don't want it on their dick and definitely do not want projectile anal squirting to occur. And if you are expecting ass to mouth there are things you just have to do so you can have a very pleasant anal experience.

First Step: If you are the receiver be cautious of what you eat and the quantity.You do not want to feel bloated. Usually if you feel bloated a good shit is not far behind and if you recall what I said regarding muddy turtles and the Hershey squirts.

Second Step: A nice warm soapy enema. Clean that place out.

Third Step: Lube, lube, lube. I cannot express that enough.

Fourth Step: Take your time. Communicate.

Fifth Step: Enjoy

 

[help_me_Rhonda]

Do it in the shower, that is always fun and you can get clean really easy.

Exactly. In the shower, no enema needed.

 

[Ramone45]

Poop IS revolting to every body. Mud on the helmet has got to be a huge problem. Anal must have a very poor ROI.