Anal Sex: how to. . .

[carlosjack]

Hi all,

I am a 27 year old bi-curious male living in London. I have had a few oral experiences with men so far but have never tried anal. Basically I haven't been able to work up the courage to lose my cherry and if anyone has some tips on 'how to do it' for a virgin then they would be gratefully received. And hey, if you are in London maybe you can show me in person!

Cheers,
Carlosjack x

 

[Shankara20]

Hi all,

I am a 27 year old bi-curious male living in London. I have had a few oral experiences with men so far but have never tried anal. Basically I haven't been able to work up the courage to lose my cherry and if anyone has some tips on 'how to do it' for a virgin then they would be gratefully received. And hey, if you are in London maybe you can show me in person!

Cheers,
Carlosjack x

wow - you sure have been busy starting this exact same thread all over Lit. I was going to answer your question but expect you have received advice from several of you threads.

Now if you had included spanking in your question it might have generated some interest, as this is a BDSM forum - IMHO

good luck and remember safe sex

 

[ammre]

well first, you find one of those super nubby jelly dildos made out of the semi toxic plastic that still smells months after you've taken it out fo the package. Then you ram it up your rear end.
Then you take bicurious questions to the glbt section, and seeking a partner questions to the personals, and we all live happily ever after.

 

[Perfect_Trust]

well first, you find one of those super nubby jelly dildos made out of the semi toxic plastic that still smells months after you've taken it out fo the package. Then you ram it up your rear end.
Then you take bicurious questions to the glbt section, and seeking a partner questions to the personals, and we all live happily ever after.

Lol, that's actually quite good advice - don't forget the lube! I had my first pleasureable anal experience that way as all the men I met never seemed to have heard of lube.

 

[Etoile]

*laughs at shankara's answer*

*drools at ammre's new avatar*

 

[ammre]

Lol, that's actually quite good advice - don't forget the lube! I had my first pleasureable anal experience that way as all the men I met never seemed to have heard of lube.

Oh I really wasen't serious. I was feeling snarky...

make sure any sex toy you bought is made FULLY of body-safe materials instead of 10% silicone and 90%polysomethingthatwillmakeyouhurt (personal expierence, my favorite jelly dong started going bad, if i even touch it to my sensitive bits it feels like someone's trying to fig me with chilli powder and napalm.)
always use lube for the bum...
jelly dildos can get sticky if there isn't a lot of lube, they are even capable of evaporating things that i've never seen evaporating before, they can stick to you so be careful and again, lots of lube.
Avoid lots of nubs I got a vibrator (jelly of course, oy) with all these nubs on it and one day someone thought it would be funny to shove it up my ass. Oh man did i give them hell.


*makes eyes at etoile*

 

[Etoile]

*makes eyes at etoile*

rowr...you look hot AND you write hot!

 

[Perfect_Trust]

Oh I really wasen't serious. I was feeling snarky...

Don't worry, I did realise that. Just thought the OP might want to try it on his own first, I wish I had.