Anal sex and first times
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22, in my bedroom.
I dunno how I was "convinced"... we both just decided to "try it". Check it off our list kinda thing....
It wasn't my thing... of course it didn't help that he was back there doing some kind of commentary on it ....
No I haven't done it since nor would I probably again.
I dunno how I was "convinced"... we both just decided to "try it". Check it off our list kinda thing....
It wasn't my thing... of course it didn't help that he was back there doing some kind of commentary on it ....
No I haven't done it since nor would I probably again.
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I was 28, and it was with my husband (we were engaged at the time). There was no "convincing" (believe me--if I didn't want to do it, I couldn't have been convinced). It was something that we decided to do in the heat of the moment, which I was grateful for afterwards. I think that it would have been more uncomfortable if we would have "planned" it, because I would've been extremely nervous.
I thought anal sex would be painful and messy; fortunately, for me, it was neither. I find it to be quite enjoyable. It's something we do on a semi-regular basis, like once every couple weeks or so. We avoided it when I was pregnant and had hemorrhoids (ow!).
Your mileage, of course, may vary.
I thought anal sex would be painful and messy; fortunately, for me, it was neither. I find it to be quite enjoyable. It's something we do on a semi-regular basis, like once every couple weeks or so. We avoided it when I was pregnant and had hemorrhoids (ow!).
Your mileage, of course, may vary.
Thank you for your responses.
I suppose I wanted to know other's feeling towards it because as a guy there seems to be an increadible amount of convincing to do before your lover gives in and allows you to pleaseure her in such a way. I have had success with some women in my past while others have been imposible to convince. I've only been lucky once with this particular hot blooded latina. I was coy about asking her so i took my time, but as soon as I did there was no pretense with her. She said sure go ahead, turned around on all fours and put herself into position. I had some of the best sex with her and I will always remeber her for that moment.
I suppose I wanted to know other's feeling towards it because as a guy there seems to be an increadible amount of convincing to do before your lover gives in and allows you to pleaseure her in such a way. I have had success with some women in my past while others have been imposible to convince. I've only been lucky once with this particular hot blooded latina. I was coy about asking her so i took my time, but as soon as I did there was no pretense with her. She said sure go ahead, turned around on all fours and put herself into position. I had some of the best sex with her and I will always remeber her for that moment.
Sorry, I was daydreaming about your hot latina lady who was all over anal sex! 
My first time was with the woman who is now my wife, I guess I was 27 and had slowly been trying to introduce anal play into our sex life (she is not that curious or adventurous on her own). Fingers and tongue was all for awhile, then one time it just happened, after much regular sex and it went off without a hitch. Since then she seems to run really hot & cold about - currently she is very cold about the whole idea, which bums me out.
My first time was with the woman who is now my wife, I guess I was 27 and had slowly been trying to introduce anal play into our sex life (she is not that curious or adventurous on her own). Fingers and tongue was all for awhile, then one time it just happened, after much regular sex and it went off without a hitch. Since then she seems to run really hot & cold about - currently she is very cold about the whole idea, which bums me out.
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My wife was horribly stubborn about this, but 6 or 7 years ago she finally started listening to me about this subject and she's been cumming because of it ever since.
I must have misworded my question badly. I have no problem with anal sex. I have done it with other women at other times in my life. I just wanted to set up an area on lit so that you the reader could write in about your first, second etc... anal experiance.
Let see what happens now.
Let see what happens now.
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Well my lady wife was already very experienced at taking it up the rear entry when I first met her, in fact it's always been a bit of a fetish with her, occasionally she prefers it up the back to the front... She actually asked me to do it first time while we were screwing in my car shortly after we met with the words... "You can stick it up my ass if you want to"... boy did my cock take twitch upward with those sweet whispered words 
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That is probably why you married her.
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nycphoto said:
Nightbird had a great idea in looking through The Blank Manual, but also do a search on the subject...this question has been asked over and over in most of the forums here.
I was probably 30 or so and had wondered about anal sex but never tried it, when I started seeing a woman who insisted. Loved it from the first time and wish my wife was a bit more into it, she occasionally likes it but I would like to go there more often
Im sure we all are jaded. That may be not such a bad thing either because if we werent than we would have stopped exploring for new sexual experiences when we were about 12 or so, or whenever we each had that Oh my god that felt good, now what happened so I can do it again experience.
Nyc, Im sure it was awsome for you but doubt you truely meant there was nothing better. I respectfully disagree if you did mean it. I have had a lot of experiences including several PSE(porn star experience). It was good but the best has been with the partner I did care for. Take the same activity, mix in respect, admiration, committment, passion, love and desire and then you may start to truley enjoy one "nothing better" experience after another. Meaningless sex is just that, meaningless.
Good sex is between our ears and not our legs. Technique, postions, attitudes are important but if our mind isnt into it then no porn star experience will help. Readers of this site likely already understand that concept. Its your thoughts that count. Its how the erotic story or roleplay helps us form visions in our mind. They say 90% or great sex is between our ears. Now if this is true than why are we spending so much effort deciding which hole to play with rather than finding that spot in our heads to play with?
Nyc, Im sure it was awsome for you but doubt you truely meant there was nothing better. I respectfully disagree if you did mean it. I have had a lot of experiences including several PSE(porn star experience). It was good but the best has been with the partner I did care for. Take the same activity, mix in respect, admiration, committment, passion, love and desire and then you may start to truley enjoy one "nothing better" experience after another. Meaningless sex is just that, meaningless.
Good sex is between our ears and not our legs. Technique, postions, attitudes are important but if our mind isnt into it then no porn star experience will help. Readers of this site likely already understand that concept. Its your thoughts that count. Its how the erotic story or roleplay helps us form visions in our mind. They say 90% or great sex is between our ears. Now if this is true than why are we spending so much effort deciding which hole to play with rather than finding that spot in our heads to play with?
My first two anal experiences were terrible---extremely painful. I was actually in tears the second time, even though I was in love with the man and really wanted to satisfy him, and he had a small penis.
After I got married, my husband insisted that I try it again. It was a completely different experience. He went very, very slowly over a period of many days, preparing me with incremental stretching and lots of lubrication before we actually had anal intercourse, so that I wouldn't be in pain. His patience back then paid off in the long run, and I no longer have a problem with it.
After I got married, my husband insisted that I try it again. It was a completely different experience. He went very, very slowly over a period of many days, preparing me with incremental stretching and lots of lubrication before we actually had anal intercourse, so that I wouldn't be in pain. His patience back then paid off in the long run, and I no longer have a problem with it.
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Another totally jaded one here, yeah who can compare fucking some totally unknown, possibly disease ridden fuck receptacle.
To the look of passion and love in your partners eyes, the pleasure that washes across their face as you do something that you know they love.
The joy that every little smile, every moan is soley attributed to you, not just because of what you are physically doing, but because of the love and affection your partner feels coming from you.
Anything you do to each other is done willingly and accepted gratefully, and the many years of being with the same person only adds to the pleasure.
The knowledge you have of each other is like an encyclopedia of experiences that you can call on to pleasure and tease and love.
To know someones mind and body so well that you are synchronised to the point that you both climax at the same moment.
Now there is something that is hard to beat.
Oh yeah anal sex, tried it the first time when we were 16, thought it was ok, but didn`t do it very often until many years later. It is one aspect of our love life, one that we both enjoy.
To the look of passion and love in your partners eyes, the pleasure that washes across their face as you do something that you know they love.
The joy that every little smile, every moan is soley attributed to you, not just because of what you are physically doing, but because of the love and affection your partner feels coming from you.
Anything you do to each other is done willingly and accepted gratefully, and the many years of being with the same person only adds to the pleasure.
The knowledge you have of each other is like an encyclopedia of experiences that you can call on to pleasure and tease and love.
To know someones mind and body so well that you are synchronised to the point that you both climax at the same moment.
Now there is something that is hard to beat.
Oh yeah anal sex, tried it the first time when we were 16, thought it was ok, but didn`t do it very often until many years later. It is one aspect of our love life, one that we both enjoy.
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Eilan
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FYI--Thanks to Dictionary.com
jad-ed (adj.)
1. Worn out; wearied: “My father's words had left me jaded and depressed”
(William Styron).
2. Dulled by surfeit; sated: “the sickeningly sweet life of the amoral, jaded,
bored upper classes” (John Simon).
3. Cynically or pretentiously callous.
With all due respect, I believe that you are in far more danger of becoming jaded than I am.nycphoto said:
jad-ed (adj.)
1. Worn out; wearied: “My father's words had left me jaded and depressed”
(William Styron).
2. Dulled by surfeit; sated: “the sickeningly sweet life of the amoral, jaded,
bored upper classes” (John Simon).
3. Cynically or pretentiously callous.
That's just sad.nycphoto said:
Munachi
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when i was 20 or 21 maybe... until shortly before then i had thought i'd never want to try it. then my then-bf mentioned having had anal sex with the girl he was with before, and somehow that made me think actually i want to try it too, maybe some weird jealousy thing, not sure... anyway, it is now something that i don't want to do all the time but that i like every now and then for variety...
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Wow. Just... Wow.
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If things go as my girl an I planned, I would not be allowed to tell her age here...
