Anal Training

[nassauguy_2001]

In theory and on paper your response is correct, BUT...

I "lost" a medium sized plug one morning after a nice wake up session. The flange was not any larger than the bulb, so nature did it's thing. After five minutes of sheer panic I was able to retrieve it and save an embarrassing trip to the ER!!!

I am glad you are laughing Escierto, it wasn't funny at that moment!!!

 

[Escierto]

I am glad you are laughing Escierto, it wasn't funny at that moment!!!

Panic would be the right word for sure!

 

[Astroman72]

Never had a training set. I started with a finger MANY,MANY, MANY years ago. Then 2 fingers. Then I went to a 1" plug. Then a 1 1/4" plug. Then a 1 1/2" plug. Then started using 1 1/4" dildos. Then 1 1/2" dildos. And that's where I stand today. When I'm in the mood I absolutely LOVE IT. I love milking the prostate and licking the fluid off my finger. LOVE IT!

Yep, same for me. I started fingering almost as early as I started masturbating.

Maybe I'm tighter than most, but I still start anal sessions with a finger, then two, then a smaller vibe before the dildo. And I've learned to be very patient. When I start to feel the slightest discomfort while I'm inserting, I hold it right there, count to 60, then re-lube and re-insert. If you do things right with patience and proper lubing, there shouldn't be any pain. But I've had some bad experiences over the years of being really horny and trying to go too big, too fast. Not enjoyable. But when everything is right, wow! Definitely a learning curve when it comes to anal pleasure, at least for me.

But yes, I still remember the first time I took a life-size dildo all the way and really rode it--it felt like a major sexual accomplishment!

 

[bobb64]

the only anal training i have had was when he inserted his cock and it was awesome he was very good and took his time.

 

[Lricky]

No one has mentioned that if you don’t do an enema bf you get fucked it will be very uncomfortable for the one being fucked. Why is that not mentioned.

 

[Phatfeet]

No one has mentioned that if you don’t do an enema bf you get fucked it will be very uncomfortable for the one being fucked. Why is that not mentioned.

I have mentioned similar issues in a few posts, but I can understand why its not really talked about. By natural extension people want to talk about the more pleasant aspects of sex and not the more... well... awkward ones... shall we say?

I have never had an enema beforehand, and while I know the realities afterwards because of NOT doing that, I am okay with being "uncomfortable" as you put it. But people's level of comfort is subjective after all.

Just do not take this the wrong way, I am in no way against having an enema first, I just never have.

 

[bobb64]

I have mentioned similar issues in a few posts, but I can understand why its not really talked about. By natural extension people want to talk about the more pleasant aspects of sex and not the more... well... awkward ones... shall we say?

I have never had an enema beforehand, and while I know the realities afterwards because of NOT doing that, I am okay with being "uncomfortable" as you put it. But people's level of comfort is subjective after all.

Just do not take this the wrong way, I am in no way against having an enema first, I just never have.

neither have i and i did not find it uncomfortable.

 

[Swuchrow]

In theory and on paper your response is correct, BUT...

I "lost" a medium sized plug one morning after a nice wake up session. The flange was not any larger than the bulb, so nature did it's thing. After five minutes of sheer panic I was able to retrieve it and save an embarrassing trip to the ER!!!

Had a top lose his condom in my ass as fucked me. Once he retrieved it I was not in much of a mood to continue. The top wasn’t hearing it. He told me he came to fuck and he wasn’t leaving until he fucked me and cum. He was bigger than me and leaned into me in the prone position and proceeded to fuck me raw until he full released. As he was dressing he commented that this should be lesson when you invite a dom to fuck you that you should be prepared to follow through.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

No one has mentioned that if you don’t do an enema bf you get fucked it will be very uncomfortable for the one being fucked. Why is that not mentioned.

Not sure if this is true or myth, but I can say I have never had an enema. I know when I am clean enough to have anal sex, and on those days when I say "no, not tonight"!

 

[Phatfeet]

Not sure if this is true or myth, but I can say I have never had an enema. I know when I am clean enough to have anal sex, and on those days when I say "no, not tonight"!

My understanding of “uncomfortable” of having anal sex without an enema first, was NOT so much in reference to making it alluring there by being clean, as much as it was in being “uncomfortable” after sex. I mean if you do it without a condom you are getting an enema of sorts anyway.

Maybe this is just how my body responds, but afterwards, I get diarrhea, and several times. I don’t want to admit that, but that is what happens to me. But it is literally only natural. I was just flushed with a salty brine deep in my core… exactly what an enema is. It is just in having a true enema first, I could see where that would stop those bouts of diarrhea, which is what I assumed he meant by “being uncomfortable.”

And if that’s what he meant, he is right, it is not really talked about… but kind of for good reason.

But that happens with any sex. Who talks about the cramp they got in their thigh during the midst of doing it with that good looking blonde woman? Or the wet spot on the mattress? Or the smell of feet as she takes off her gorgeous sling back high heels? We often leave realities out and concentrate on the pleasure.

 

[old_hippy_46]

Well, I had no problems getting fucked by my girl's seven plus inches so it worked out without the butt plug.

well stated

 

[smooth-boy]

I started a long time ago with a rosebud. I'm up to an njoy 2.0 xl that I use daily. I'm looking to level up from it. I also started working on a 7" dildo.

 

[Missmister]

In theory and on paper your response is correct, BUT...

I "lost" a medium sized plug one morning after a nice wake up session. The flange was not any larger than the bulb, so nature did it's thing. After five minutes of sheer panic I was able to retrieve it and save an embarrassing trip to the ER!!!

Same thing happened to me. I wont use the round based ones anymore.

 

[Swuchrow]

I don’t use anything on a daily basis to stretch my boipussy. Although before meeting a top I will use a dildo to help me dilate for initial penetration. Tops enjoy having a tight hole to use. I also practice clenching my muscles. Guys love feeling my ass grab their cock when fucking me.

 

[Escierto]

I don’t use anything on a daily basis to stretch my boipussy. Although before meeting a top I will use a dildo to help me dilate for initial penetration. Tops enjoy having a tight hole to use. I also practice clenching my muscles. Guys love feeling my ass grab their cock when fucking me.

Me neither. My girlfriend always says that I am super tight. When she fucks me for the first time after a long absence, it always feels like she is taking my ass virginity all over again.

 

[Swuchrow]

Me neither. My girlfriend always says that I am super tight. When she fucks me for the first time after a long absence, it always feels like she is taking my ass virginity all over again.

Stretching your boipussy with butt plugs defeats the purpose. Men love anal sex because most holes are tighter than pussies.

 

[Escierto]

Stretching your boipussy with butt plugs defeats the purpose. Men love anal sex because most holes are tighter than pussies.

YES. I have never understood why some guys preferred fucking a woman in her pussy than her ass. For me her asshole was always much tighter than her pussy! I used to love fucking ass. Now I love giving my girl my tight ass for her to fuck.

 

[Swuchrow]

With women I love fucking all three holes.

With a man, he has free use of my mouth and boipussy.

 

[load69]

This is how I train.
https://ibb.co/4V0dgWp

 

[CambridgeBi]

I have never had an enema beforehand

neither have i

I can say I have never had an enema.

Come on guys ...
I have to clear the tunnel even if I'm just going to play by myself.

I started training with an inflatable dildo, it had a 3.5" circumference deflated and 6" fully inflated. 3.5" is quite easy to insert even for a beginner and then you can just pump up a little at a time and pause to relax whenever you're getting uncomfortable.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

My understanding of “uncomfortable” of having anal sex without an enema first, was NOT so much in reference to making it alluring there by being clean, as much as it was in being “uncomfortable” after sex. I mean if you do it without a condom you are getting an enema of sorts anyway.

Maybe this is just how my body responds, but afterwards, I get diarrhea, and several times. I don’t want to admit that, but that is what happens to me. But it is literally only natural. I was just flushed with a salty brine deep in my core… exactly what an enema is. It is just in having a true enema first, I could see where that would stop those bouts of diarrhea, which is what I assumed he meant by “being uncomfortable.”

And if that’s what he meant, he is right, it is not really talked about… but kind of for good reason.

But that happens with any sex. Who talks about the cramp they got in their thigh during the midst of doing it with that good looking blonde woman? Or the wet spot on the mattress? Or the smell of feet as she takes off her gorgeous sling back high heels? We often leave realities out and concentrate on the pleasure.

I think you omitted "banging her during her period" !

 

[Bill_numbers]

I got one of these: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toy...ty-buddy-silicone-butt-plug/a16665g20512.html

It stayed put well enough for me wear it all day at work including a ten minute walk to the shops. I could rock back and forth and feel it inside me. I must have looked odder than usual!

It's not very big at all but there are plenty of larger sizes to chose from.

 

[Burstplayer]

For me to become quite adept at taking at least 8" x 2", it took a few months of gradually using smaller dildos while warming up plugs. My routine was: clean out with bulb enema, insert medium plug and leave in for about 10-15 minutes. Once warmed up, I'd start with dildos and move up in size. After a few weeks, I'd increase the plug and then the dildo. Soon, I was trained and taking a bigger dildo and with a warm-up plug is not an issue.

 

[CumInMyWifemmf]

In theory and on paper your response is correct, BUT...

I "lost" a medium sized plug one morning after a nice wake up session. The flange was not any larger than the bulb, so nature did it's thing. After five minutes of sheer panic I was able to retrieve it and save an embarrassing trip to the ER!!!

omg had the same thing happen to me with a large jeweled plug. The entire plug disappeared and i was frantically trying to rescue it for 5 min. Thankfully was able to retrieve and now use a larger flared base.Would love to find a large based jeweled plug however

 

[lowcollar]

I have one that is 10" long with gradually larger bulbs. The last bulb before the base is 3 inches in diameter. I have sat on this beauty in it's entirety. Of course, I have been taking dildos up my ass since 1999