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When does it stop hurting going in? Or does it always hurt going in no matter how many times you do it? I ask because I love my anal toy the Vice but use the smaller ones more because the Vice always hurts going in.
 
If it hurts for more than a brief moment then you are doing something wrong. Either going too quickly or not using enough lube or something. Pain is your body telling you that something is wrong. That’s not to say I don’t feel a little pain when my girlfriend is impatient and shoves her cock in my ass quickly - I do but it doesn’t last long and once she’s in, it’s all pleasure.
 
When does it stop hurting going in? Or does it always hurt going in no matter how many times you do it? I ask because I love my anal toy the Vice but use the smaller ones more because the Vice always hurts going in.
There are many issues that can be leading to this. The first being are you mentally nervous or thinking it is going to hurt? If you get tense and are not relaxed it can be far more uncomfortable. The second is a basic with are you using lube of some sort? Pretty self explanatory there. The third would be practice makers better. Obviously if you do it and it hurts chances are you're going to be sore for a bit. The more you do it though the more you'll get used to it both physically and mentally. A final one would be simply know your limits and maybe one toy may just be beyond what your body can comfortably handle.
 
If it hurts for more than a brief moment then you are doing something wrong. Either going too quickly or not using enough lube or something. Pain is your body telling you that something is wrong. That’s not to say I don’t feel a little pain when my girlfriend is impatient and shoves her cock in my ass quickly - I do but it doesn’t last long and once she’s in, it’s all pleasure.
100% agree with this one!
 
I've been taken anally by different guys of various sizes over the years and I can tell you unless you prep properly to relax your sphincter it will hurt every time. I can't speak for guys but I don't let anyone penetrate until I feel ready.
 
When does it stop hurting going in? Or does it always hurt going in no matter how many times you do it? I ask because I love my anal toy the Vice but use the smaller ones more because the Vice always hurts going in.
If you are referring to toys I had my first discomfort free anal experience with a fairly large glass toy. It has made me wonder if the silicone causes dry spots.
 
When does it stop hurting going in? Or does it always hurt going in no matter how many times you do it? I ask because I love my anal toy the Vice but use the smaller ones more because the Vice always hurts going in.
If you do anal daily for a month, it won't hurt much at all anymore. I've used larger and larger dildos to get that first pain.
 
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