Anal Masturbation

[baggyboy]

I am a hetrosexual male 22 years old and in a long term live in relationship with my girlfriend. Lately I have been thinking about stimulating my anas while I masturbate. Could you people please give me advice on how to start this and techniques you use etc. My girlfriend and I have a couple of vibrators and a dildo. one vibrator is reasonably small while the dildo is quite large. I would like to try this on my own at first and then if it is pleasureable maybe with my girlfriend. Is this a pleasureable activity for hetrosexual males? If I like it how do I get my gf involved without freaking her out?

Thanks in advance

BB

 

[It'sasecret]

I guess you won't really know how your girlfriend will react until you ask her. Is she into anal sex at all? If she is into it for herself, then I am sure you have a better chance then if you don't do anal at all. As for self pleasure I say go for it! My husband won't touch my ass, so I have to take care of things myself.

 

[TallOne]

It is a pleasurable activity for many heterosexual males yes. Prostate stimulation can feel really good. But as always different strokes for different folks...

We started off with the old finger during a blowjob, then moved onto dildos of sorts, and now we use a strap on every once in awhile. They all feel incredible.

How your g/f will take it is too hard to predict. Some really like doing that kind of stuff, others don't. Could just outright ask her next time you're getting busy to do that. Try doing slipping her a finger then ask if she would try it on you or something along those lines.

Or if you've got some exceptional communication between each other built up, ask over dinner hehe.

Doing it in the shower first is a nice clean environment to start off with if there's some hesitation for cleanliness reasons.

 

[sheath]

I am a hetrosexual male 22 years old and in a long term live in relationship with my girlfriend. Lately I have been thinking about stimulating my anas while I masturbate. Could you people please give me advice on how to start this and techniques you use etc. My girlfriend and I have a couple of vibrators and a dildo. one vibrator is reasonably small while the dildo is quite large. I would like to try this on my own at first and then if it is pleasureable maybe with my girlfriend. Is this a pleasureable activity for hetrosexual males? If I like it how do I get my gf involved without freaking her out?

Thanks in advance

BB

WOW! WOW! YOU GO, MAN!

You will probably love the way it feels. So many heterosexual men do partake in a little ass action...it just feels too damn good NOT to like it. Your girlfriend will probably like it, too...

My man and I have ventured into this, and out of our experiences, I can offer this:

Start small. Start with your finger, then move up to the small vibrator. Use lots of lube so that it doesn't hurt...and explore different pressures, angles, etc. When you are ready, move into more. Make sure the first few times you orgasm this way that you keep the toy inside you, to get used to the sensation.

When your girlfriend goes down on you and you feel bold, take her hand and lead it down to the nether regions. Or touch yourself there while she watches, and moan about how good it feels. Then have a frank and honest talk with her. Tell her you want to try it. Or when you are using that vibrator on her, tell her, "I wish I knew how it feels..." and go from there. Or print out an article on the topic and leave it casually lying around...with certain parts highlighted...and she will get the picture. The moment usually tells you when to bring it up.

Tell us about your adventures into this new area of your sexual life? It's exciting that you are willing to venture into new areas. Good man!

S.

 

[HarleydevilzoN]

I'd start of with enema ... then finger ...only do things that feel good ... and make sure you not gonna put anything up there you can not take out ... It sound amusing now but trust me you not will be laughing when it happens to you ... start small

 

[jay3549]

anal fun

Well you've received plenty of advice. All I can add is, lots of lube. I've enjoy some solo play for many years. Wife wouldn't understand so I stay with some solo play every once in a while. I find when it's everyonce in a while I enjoy it much more. I perfer a homemade dildo that I fasten to the floor and can push and pull at will. Enjoy yourself your not hurting anybody take it easy and you won't hurt yourself either. Pain tells us that your doing something wrong. Relax push out when trying to get gain entry. Once you have entry enjoy yourself.

 

[PinkOrchid]

Re: anal fun

 

[jay3549]

anal fun

Well Pink Orchid I'll try to explain, I use a file with a contoured handle on it. A file is used in a work shop for filing off rough edges. Kind of like you use on your finger nails. Only the file is about 10 or 12 inches long, with a handle on the end of it. The older handles were made of wood and had a nice contour so it's kind of blunt tapering down a little and then tapering back out so when trying to gain entry it's just like trying to get a cock in, I guess I've never had the real thing. So once it's in it feel real good to push and pull on it. I hope this helps. Jay

 

[Amfig]

A file handle? Aren't you concerned about splinters?

 

[lilpriss]

Something worth mentioning is clean the thing when you're done... whatever your toy of choice is... Really it's best to have toys used anally and then toys used vaginally... God forbid...
nasty infection if you don't disinfect...

That said, start small work your way up... don't hurt yourself.

And to get your gf to try it, you could give her g-spot a good working over. (There's a very good post on here about this... by Mr CCG called, "Try This and Report Back"... if you are unsure of what I'm talking about) When you get done, tell her that they say the female G-spot is supposed to be the equivalent to a man's prostate gland... and if she feels that good from what you've just done with her, then you want to know if it REALLY feels THAT good to have your prostate stimulated. I'm sure she'd be willing to give it a go for your pleasure... if not... you may be with a hell of a selfish woman.

With knowledge, comes willingness to try things... let her read up on the subject and I'm sure she'll be quite curious.

I can tell you that having all that power in my hands/ mouth... (the power to give so much pleasure to a partner) is truly a turn on for me. Even more so, BECAUSE I know he's getting off on it too.

 

[jay3549]

anal fun

To Amfig, Ha no splinters please. These handles I use are old and were dirty. I sanded it down to fresh wood and put about four coats of new varnish on it. Just like brand new! I took one and dipped it into that rubbery stuff that you dip the handles of you tools into to get a better grip on them plus to make them feel warmer when working outside with them. Any how you can buy this stuff at sears in the tool area.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[jay3549]

anal fun

My shop teacher always did teach us to make our tools do our work for us. I never thought he meant this , but it's fun!

 

[TheCheshireCat]

We've tried it...

In response to your questions about anal masturbation, I can respond with what my lover has told me. He went "exploring" one day to see if he could achieve an anally stimulated orgasm. With a little patience he soon found the place. He describes it as intense and quick, achieving orgasm within about 14 seconds. It was new to me but exciting nevertheless and I went to work on him with my viberator during sex to see if I could at least further excite him. I suppose if your girlfriend is interested in your pleasure as well as her own she would be interested in exploring with you. Do what comes naturally!