Anal Issues...

[Ruth12]

Bumps

 

[ButtAnalMan]

I used to not like it as much either, but I did it because my bf really loves it so much. I like that he wants me so much, even if it's for anal. We were really patient and tried different positions and found the ones that actually feel really good for both of us. Now, sometimes he initiates it and even if I don't start out in the mood for it, after it gets going I start getting into it. That's just me, though; you shouldn't feel obligated to do anything that you don't want to do.

I am sure you will increase the frequency

 

[iluvanalgirl]

How does one try anal sec without committing to someone... in a safe way?

 

[Noor]

How does one try anal sec without committing to someone... in a safe way?

dildo?

 

[njlauren]

`Tristan Taormino (I think that is the spelling) wrote a book on anal sex "The ultimate guide to anal sex for women" that a lot of people swear by. Might be helpful in how to make it less painful and so forth.

 

[Sistinas74]

It took me forever to get into this and i hated it in my 20's...would never do it more than one time the whole relationship! I think the difference happened when I WANTED to do it. My husband was away at the time and we bought a set of anal plugs in small medium and large. I explored with toys prior to actually having anal sex with my guy. One big thing is stimulating your clitoral area simultaneously. Cleanliness was a bigger hang up for me than the actual anal penetration. Once u get comfortable by yourself and get to that place you enjoy it you will be wanting your man's cock in your ass I now prefer dildos anally rather than in my vag...keep those toys for that separate from your vag toys, even when washed they can give you a nasty infection!